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Thanks for the advice don kong. Sure i already have her but I feel those little reminders that I'm a prize to others helps me keep her interest. Games not over once you get her. Continuous social proof helps

It's not a matter of spinning plates per say. Just that my girlfriend saw me as high value in the eyes of another women. Though I would not cheat on her, the thought of it came to her. I believe this keeps my frame, since she acts according in fear of me walking. I have no desire to bang...

Quick story here. I'm in an exclusive relation with this girl. One night we went out to the bar with a few of our friends. One of my said friends is an attractive slutty type chick. She was giving me praise all night about how great I am. the three of us make plans to go to my place...

If you ever put the idea of cheating in her head. she will She might not even be thinking of sleeping with other guys; once you bring up boundaries and her not chilling with guy friends... you've created that thought for her!

What are some of your guys experiences with dating younger chicks? I'm talking like 18 / 19. I'm 24 and i was discussing this with a friend of mine. He brought up some goos points.. If you get em younger before they go through the slut phase, you can basically "train" them to be the...

I did give in a few times admittedly. She would show up at my known chill spots and try to talk me out of my decision to end it with her. then id fall back in. But sh*t wouldnt change. The best thing you can do is get involved with different chicks. When it finally ended for good, i had a couple...

Its hard though. Almost like an addiction. I found i almost craved the rollercoaster of emotions. Chicks with no clear sign of personality disorders almost get boring. Hahah

Been there man. Its hard. Mine would ignore me for like weeks once stuff was getting more emotional. Then when id call her out on the disrespect of flaking and ignoring me, she would flip the situation saying I'm too needy. I was like, wtf. Im laying some ground rules here. I dont give a f*ck...

Why do you care? There are two simple things you can do... Either cut all contact because of the disrespect and emotional turmoil shes caused. (living life as an obsessive control freak towards your woman is obviously not a good time and will spell disaster in the long run..) Or you make it...

Too elaborate.. You never mentioned any hot/cold push/pull attitudes associated with bpd. A straight up narcissist would present themselves in a manner which you state here. In my opinion.

Sounds more like NPD to me

Haha. Oh man. I like that one. Next time

Damn. I wont make this mistake again... What i ended up saying was... "well, i like you more.." Hahaha

Friends with benefits chick meets ex. Says she thinks she's super hot, and seems very much into me still. Asks why I'm not with her (ex) or why I don't give her a second chance. You guys think that's a sh!t test? Maybe she was subtlety trying to see where I stand with her? EDIT. Sorry just...

I'm not saying I would be with a chick exclusively if she's really good friends with her ex. Nor am I friends with mine in hopes to get her back. The point I was trying to make is if you have a clean break and manage to keep things civil with an ex in a situation where you have another future...

In cases like that, I would suggest to her to slow down on the baby talk and live in the moment. Even if she brought it up , ultimately it was brought up to soon. Gotta control the escalation yourself, right?

Not talking about kids in only after 5 months would help. If a women is invested in you enough that stuff will seem like small potatoes

Thats pretty brutal man. But hey. At least you know her interest is still there for you! That can still be useful to getting other women outside her group

In my opinion, NC should only be unintentionally applied. Showing you have other things to think about rather then some chick.

Oh I totally agree. This post was just about maturity level. And how keeping in touch can help. There should be no blame at all really. if its over, its over. I just see no point avoiding a chick after. Who knows you might just end up banging her again. That is of course if one can...