rascal99v
Senior Don Juan
Anytime you let your girlfriend hang out with other guys or start talking with new guys, you're giving her a free pass to use it against you in the future. You are also helping her be able to cheat on you as well. :yes:
Women who respect their boyfriends won't add new dudes into the mix. It's the guys who haven't set any boundaries from the beginning and the men who are not respected by their girlfriends, that have girlfriends who will hang out with orbiters or new men she is attracted to.
A lot of these guys have a phony alpha mind set. They think as long as their woman shows interest in them, she won't cheat. They also like to diminish the orbiters as betas who won't get anywhere with their girlfriend. But when there is a will there is a way, and orbiters can fvck your girlfriend rather easily if they have something she wants.
I know chicks who did and know men who it happened to. Don't think that nothing can happen because when you dismiss it, that's when something will happen. Disrespecting girlfriends will be hanging out with orbiters while they don't respect you. So, thinking that nothing will happen is a very naive mind set to have.
In the past, I knew chicks who said this and other similar things, "I Love my boyfriend, but if something were to happen to us, I will be able to get another one with no problem."
So, these chicks have an alpha mind set (which should be the mind set you should have by having boundaries and not putting up with disrespecting bullsh1t) that they can replace the boyfriend with another one, no matter how cool he was.
Which is true, because some other dude will be willing to do what you're doing (maybe even better) to be with a hot woman. She already thinks of you as replaceable, which means if she gets what she wants or needs from an orbiter, you are expendable.
A lot of these orbiters know they don't have what it takes to have her as a girlfriend, so they go in for the lay. They will use whatever means necessary to do that to replace the flaws they have in their physical stature and game. These guys will most often play the nice guy role, but with a few tricks up their sleeve, to try to get into her pants.
They will befriend her, talk to her, want to know about the stuff she likes, so they can use that to accomplish their goal. And here you are, allowing this whole thing to transpire while you sit there with your phony alpha mentality, thinking nothing can happen with a beta orbiter talking to and hanging out with your woman. The more men she has in her fan club, the more likely that something will happen.
All it takes is one dude to get into her pants, but you don't think that nothing is going to happen. :crazy:
So, these beta guys will find out what she likes or needs and will use that as a way to get laid. Just like all those old rich ugly men who can buy off hot women with whatever she wants. If the chick really needs or wants it, she will bang the orbiter in order to get it. You are expendable and you didn't set any boundaries with her. But you're sitting at home thinking your girlfriend won't do anything with the orbiter.
I've seen, talked to, and heard about orbiters who got laid for doing all kinds favors for the chicks they were hanging out with. Free front row concert tickets, sports tickets, money, drugs, clothes, answers for tests, you name it. The orbiters found out what she needed, and if she wanted it bad enough, she fvcked them in order to get that.
In my College Psychology class, there was a dude who managed to steal a copy of the final. The class was very hard and the professor made the multiple choice tests extremely hard with A-E answers. The answers were paragraph long answers and you had to do all the reading, watch the films, plus read all the supplemental material to know what would be on the test.
So, the dude who stole the test was an orbiter of a chick in the class who was a solid 8. Some would call her a 9. He used that as leverage for having sex with her. If she had sex with him, he would give her the answers for entire final test. The orbiter wasn't a real good looking guy, but he used what he needed to score the lay. This chick had a boyfriend who was on the basketball team and she decided that her grade in the class (which meant not having to study for a hard final but to party over the weekend instead) was more important than her boyfriend.
She ended up fvcking the orbiter (which the dude got some video of that encounter) for the answers for the test that she didn't have to study for. He had something she needed bad enough and he got laid for it.
As the whole thing turned out, which was pretty hilarious I thought, was that the professor used three different tests for the final. He used an A, B, C test in order to prevent people from cheating and to see who actually did study for the final. :crackup:
She didn't get the final that was stolen, so she didn't know the answers or sh1t about it, and she failed the final. Her boyfriend who didn't care about the orbiter got cheated on. The orbiter knew she probably wouldn't get that exact final anyway, but he ended up getting laid out of the whole thing. He used it to his advantage. The chick ended up dating one of my teammates not long after her boyfriend found out she cheated on him.
Not only are you asking for trouble with a chance of being cheated on with orbiters, but your girlfriend who has no boundaries, will hang out with dudes you don't like later on.
You thought it was fine for her to hang out and talk with guys who you felt were less value. What about dudes of value who she will be attracted to and want to hang out and talk with?
This is where the sh1t hits the fan and when your relationship will end. Your phony alpha mentality will fade away and you quickly will turn to the insecure beta you truly are.
When you see the dude you don't want her hanging out with, you will tell her "you don't want her hanging out with him." You will be laying down the law to her right then and there, which makes you look insecure and a hypocrite as well. It will be at this time where your girlfriend will use her Trump Card against you.
She will say, "You let me hang out and talk with other guys before, why not him?"
What can you say about that, when you never set any boundaries from the start? Instead, you're trying to set boundaries at that moment when it's too late. It makes you look insecure, you become a beta, and your girlfriend has put one over on you because you don't have an answer to why she can't hang out with this guy.
The more you put up a fight and complain, the more she will lose respect for you and want to be with the other guy. I've banged chicks with this same scenario. Guys who didn't want her hanging out with me after class when they knew who I was.
After they confronted them and told them not to talk to me anymore is when the sex happened.
Boundaries are definitely important from the beginning, because these foolish "alphas" who are really betas will try to enforce boundaries as the problem is occurring. That never works because the chick will go over your boundary and you will get cheated on.
If you set it up from the start, you already have it in place, and if she steps over it, the relationship is done. It also shows your value from the beginning of the relationship with boundaries. It shows women what is to be expected and how she values you as a man. If she is willing to break or step over it, you will know to get rid of her at that moment.
When you try to use it as an ultimatum tactic when you are insecure of another man, it won't work because the chick knows she never had a boundary from the beginning. You let her do as she pleased. So, why should she listen to you now when you finally object?
She won't listen to you and it won't work. Instead of trying to implement a last minute boundary that won't work, why don't you do it from the start so it will work? You're setting a boundary anyway, so you should do it the right way at the beginning.
I could go on more about this, but what you need to take away from this thread is this:
Beta orbiters can fvck your girlfriend very easily when they have something she wants. Don't just dismiss them as weak harmless men who can't do anything.
Women will do what is best for themselves at that particular moment. If another man can provide for what she needs, she might take him up on that offer and have sex with him in order to get that. Women are opportunists, and when that opportunity arrives, they will take it no matter what you did for them before. You can't provide it for her, she has another man who can, if she wants it bad enough, she will do what it takes to get it. And if that means fvcking him and cheating on you, then so be it.
That's why letting your woman hang out and talk with orbiters is a stupid thing to do. It's good way to get cheated on and shows how much disrespect your woman really has for you.
Not setting any boundaries from the start will come around to bite you in the ass when you try to implement them when a problem is occurring.
Allowing your girlfriend to hang out with betas will end your relationship when she meets a dude she is attracted to that she wants to hang out with.
After all, you let her do what she wanted anyway because you were afraid to set boundaries because you were too afraid to do so. You were afraid of losing your only source for sex so you let her get away with it.
Funny thing is, she cheated on you and dumped you anyway, so you still lost your source for sex.
Never be afraid to set the frame and be in control.
Betas only pretend without taking any real action. :yes:
Women who respect their boyfriends won't add new dudes into the mix. It's the guys who haven't set any boundaries from the beginning and the men who are not respected by their girlfriends, that have girlfriends who will hang out with orbiters or new men she is attracted to.
A lot of these guys have a phony alpha mind set. They think as long as their woman shows interest in them, she won't cheat. They also like to diminish the orbiters as betas who won't get anywhere with their girlfriend. But when there is a will there is a way, and orbiters can fvck your girlfriend rather easily if they have something she wants.
I know chicks who did and know men who it happened to. Don't think that nothing can happen because when you dismiss it, that's when something will happen. Disrespecting girlfriends will be hanging out with orbiters while they don't respect you. So, thinking that nothing will happen is a very naive mind set to have.
In the past, I knew chicks who said this and other similar things, "I Love my boyfriend, but if something were to happen to us, I will be able to get another one with no problem."
So, these chicks have an alpha mind set (which should be the mind set you should have by having boundaries and not putting up with disrespecting bullsh1t) that they can replace the boyfriend with another one, no matter how cool he was.
Which is true, because some other dude will be willing to do what you're doing (maybe even better) to be with a hot woman. She already thinks of you as replaceable, which means if she gets what she wants or needs from an orbiter, you are expendable.
A lot of these orbiters know they don't have what it takes to have her as a girlfriend, so they go in for the lay. They will use whatever means necessary to do that to replace the flaws they have in their physical stature and game. These guys will most often play the nice guy role, but with a few tricks up their sleeve, to try to get into her pants.
They will befriend her, talk to her, want to know about the stuff she likes, so they can use that to accomplish their goal. And here you are, allowing this whole thing to transpire while you sit there with your phony alpha mentality, thinking nothing can happen with a beta orbiter talking to and hanging out with your woman. The more men she has in her fan club, the more likely that something will happen.
All it takes is one dude to get into her pants, but you don't think that nothing is going to happen. :crazy:
So, these beta guys will find out what she likes or needs and will use that as a way to get laid. Just like all those old rich ugly men who can buy off hot women with whatever she wants. If the chick really needs or wants it, she will bang the orbiter in order to get it. You are expendable and you didn't set any boundaries with her. But you're sitting at home thinking your girlfriend won't do anything with the orbiter.
I've seen, talked to, and heard about orbiters who got laid for doing all kinds favors for the chicks they were hanging out with. Free front row concert tickets, sports tickets, money, drugs, clothes, answers for tests, you name it. The orbiters found out what she needed, and if she wanted it bad enough, she fvcked them in order to get that.
In my College Psychology class, there was a dude who managed to steal a copy of the final. The class was very hard and the professor made the multiple choice tests extremely hard with A-E answers. The answers were paragraph long answers and you had to do all the reading, watch the films, plus read all the supplemental material to know what would be on the test.
So, the dude who stole the test was an orbiter of a chick in the class who was a solid 8. Some would call her a 9. He used that as leverage for having sex with her. If she had sex with him, he would give her the answers for entire final test. The orbiter wasn't a real good looking guy, but he used what he needed to score the lay. This chick had a boyfriend who was on the basketball team and she decided that her grade in the class (which meant not having to study for a hard final but to party over the weekend instead) was more important than her boyfriend.
She ended up fvcking the orbiter (which the dude got some video of that encounter) for the answers for the test that she didn't have to study for. He had something she needed bad enough and he got laid for it.
As the whole thing turned out, which was pretty hilarious I thought, was that the professor used three different tests for the final. He used an A, B, C test in order to prevent people from cheating and to see who actually did study for the final. :crackup:
She didn't get the final that was stolen, so she didn't know the answers or sh1t about it, and she failed the final. Her boyfriend who didn't care about the orbiter got cheated on. The orbiter knew she probably wouldn't get that exact final anyway, but he ended up getting laid out of the whole thing. He used it to his advantage. The chick ended up dating one of my teammates not long after her boyfriend found out she cheated on him.
Not only are you asking for trouble with a chance of being cheated on with orbiters, but your girlfriend who has no boundaries, will hang out with dudes you don't like later on.
You thought it was fine for her to hang out and talk with guys who you felt were less value. What about dudes of value who she will be attracted to and want to hang out and talk with?
This is where the sh1t hits the fan and when your relationship will end. Your phony alpha mentality will fade away and you quickly will turn to the insecure beta you truly are.
When you see the dude you don't want her hanging out with, you will tell her "you don't want her hanging out with him." You will be laying down the law to her right then and there, which makes you look insecure and a hypocrite as well. It will be at this time where your girlfriend will use her Trump Card against you.
She will say, "You let me hang out and talk with other guys before, why not him?"
What can you say about that, when you never set any boundaries from the start? Instead, you're trying to set boundaries at that moment when it's too late. It makes you look insecure, you become a beta, and your girlfriend has put one over on you because you don't have an answer to why she can't hang out with this guy.
The more you put up a fight and complain, the more she will lose respect for you and want to be with the other guy. I've banged chicks with this same scenario. Guys who didn't want her hanging out with me after class when they knew who I was.
After they confronted them and told them not to talk to me anymore is when the sex happened.
Boundaries are definitely important from the beginning, because these foolish "alphas" who are really betas will try to enforce boundaries as the problem is occurring. That never works because the chick will go over your boundary and you will get cheated on.
If you set it up from the start, you already have it in place, and if she steps over it, the relationship is done. It also shows your value from the beginning of the relationship with boundaries. It shows women what is to be expected and how she values you as a man. If she is willing to break or step over it, you will know to get rid of her at that moment.
When you try to use it as an ultimatum tactic when you are insecure of another man, it won't work because the chick knows she never had a boundary from the beginning. You let her do as she pleased. So, why should she listen to you now when you finally object?
She won't listen to you and it won't work. Instead of trying to implement a last minute boundary that won't work, why don't you do it from the start so it will work? You're setting a boundary anyway, so you should do it the right way at the beginning.
I could go on more about this, but what you need to take away from this thread is this:
Beta orbiters can fvck your girlfriend very easily when they have something she wants. Don't just dismiss them as weak harmless men who can't do anything.
Women will do what is best for themselves at that particular moment. If another man can provide for what she needs, she might take him up on that offer and have sex with him in order to get that. Women are opportunists, and when that opportunity arrives, they will take it no matter what you did for them before. You can't provide it for her, she has another man who can, if she wants it bad enough, she will do what it takes to get it. And if that means fvcking him and cheating on you, then so be it.
That's why letting your woman hang out and talk with orbiters is a stupid thing to do. It's good way to get cheated on and shows how much disrespect your woman really has for you.
Not setting any boundaries from the start will come around to bite you in the ass when you try to implement them when a problem is occurring.
Allowing your girlfriend to hang out with betas will end your relationship when she meets a dude she is attracted to that she wants to hang out with.
After all, you let her do what she wanted anyway because you were afraid to set boundaries because you were too afraid to do so. You were afraid of losing your only source for sex so you let her get away with it.
Funny thing is, she cheated on you and dumped you anyway, so you still lost your source for sex.
Never be afraid to set the frame and be in control.
Betas only pretend without taking any real action. :yes:
