QUESTION: is this a sh!t test?

[saywhen]

Friends with benefits chick meets ex.
Says she thinks she's super hot, and seems very much into me still.
Asks why I'm not with her (ex) or why I don't give her a second chance.

You guys think that's a sh!t test?
Maybe she was subtlety trying to see where I stand with her?

EDIT.

Sorry just to clarify. It was the FWB chick asking why I'm not with my ex or giving her a second chance. Obviously that's out of the question but this seems like a sh!t test on the FWBs part.

 

[TheException]

double post

 

[TheException]

Sh1t test? Yes.....

How to pass? Say....."its complicated" and leave it at that. When in doubt use as few words as possible and be vague....dont be the chump spilling his feelings and problems all over women.

 

[PlayHer Man]

There are no "sh!t tests" with women you're not dating/f*cking. Wanna know why? --> Because women you're not f*cking don't matter and therefore.. should NOT be occupying your thoughts AT ALL.

If you want to f*ck any of these women in your life.. then do it. If you can't.. then ignore their existence and meet new women.

 

[CrimsonPanther]

How to pass? Say....."its complicated" and leave it at that. When in doubt use as few words as possible and be vague...

THIS x 1000

women will hate AND love you for it. saying "it's complicated, let's talk about it later" was many times the difference between NC with a hottie, or making her a FWB. and my weenie prefers FWB over NC

 

[happyDJ]

Sh1t test? Yes.....

How to pass? Say....."its complicated" and leave it at that. When in doubt use as few words as possible and be vague....dont be the chump spilling his feelings and problems all over women.

This (and understanding why it is so) is one of the top10 things to know with women, be it FWB, LTR or your mother/sister.

Extra points: If they keep asking, repeat exactly the same words, same tone: "it's complicated". They ask a third time: repeat exactly the same words. It ends there, I garantee you.

 

[saywhen]

Damn. I wont make this mistake again...

What i ended up saying was...

"well, i like you more.."

Hahaha

 

[tripod23]

ha ha ha ......i would have said because she cant keep up with me thats why............winked and walked away.

 

[saywhen]

ha ha ha ......i would have said because she cant keep up with me thats why............winked and walked away.

Haha. Oh man. I like that one.

Next time

 

[Dryden]

She is really asking why you are sleeping with her.

You can say "Because I think you're hot!"

The question is not about the ex. Do not draw her into your answer, do not compare. This FWB is just asking a question out of insecurity about herself.