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Because she thinks she can do better. Once she realizes she can't or the next guy doesn't compare to you, your job is to ignore her or politely dismiss her as a romantic interest. I've learned the very hard way that anything less than the above is a recipe for disaster.

This is great. I wonder if it's better to talk about this face to face, intimately and put it out there. Sometimes that builds connection. Or if you continue to "game" and act like a "challenge" and let her come to me.

Pair - it's not another guy. Routine is a likely culprit. Atom - my "gut" says I'm not as attracted to her as I initially thought and she feels this.

Gf asked me how I thought we were doing last night. She said she feels a diminished connection to me and that we are less intimate and "lovey dovey." We are at 7 months straight official but been dating on/off for 14 months. We've taken a vacation together but lately she had swings of being...

Feeling the EXACT same way right now. She asked me Sunday how I feel about us out of the blue. I told her I feel like she's less enthusiastic around me and there are days it seems like she couldn't care less about me. I'm usually not too emotional with her, only really say I love you after...

I also agree that the "alpha" jokes and aloof attitude only works with some women and only works in select circumstances. Just be real.

Look at it the other way, may she said "that during the previous week she honestly just hadn't had as great of a desire for me as usual" because she wanted to test your interest level. Look at it like energy. If you're upbeat, confident, etc your woman will pick up on this and things will...

Isn't rule #1 never listen to what a woman says? She thinks with her feelings.

Great post. I really let insecurities and my pride get to me with my last girl. Fvck.

This is how I felt initially and told her calmly it was disrespectful. She agreed, said it's been a problem in the past (no ****) but didn't take the picture down. How do you define what is a **it test and what is truly disrespectful? I'm not upset any more. I'm HAPPIER since we broke up...

"Any little thing she did that I didn't like hurt my feelings. Worse than that I whined and complained to her about how she had hurt me." It's not complaining if you say it in the correct tone. You shouldn't just continually put up with bull**** without calling her out on it if it's eating you...

Confused. She lives in the same city as me. We had companionship and we liked doing A LOT of the same things. We were hanging out 3-4 times/week. She clearly stated two months ago she wanted me and would "confess" her feelings to me when drunk about how much she wanted me, how she felt I...

It is a reflection on me. I don't know if I truly wanted her or if I was addicted to the chase. If I'm not totally into a girl every little issue is a reason for me to dump her. I overanalyzed everything about her.

^what do you mean?

This to a T. I'm not strong enough yet to get over this mentality. While getting girls and sex isn't unique, finding that combination is extremely rare. Once that happens and you're in a "committed relationship" men lose their ability to spin plates which builds confidence and indifference...

Brain is starting to think I really let my insecurities get to me and messed up with a great girl. This sucks.

Felt the same thing here. There were structural issues from the beginning and I felt like she could walk at any second. She felt the same about me and normally it's good if a girl feels that, as she's more attached to you then. But when they're super insecure it backfires. I definitely...

+1. I thought this is what I wanted too. But ended up with an insecure girl who disrespected me. Give it a few days/weeks and you might just notice you're happier without her.

Good call here boys. Ended it the other night. I'll post in the no contact challenge.

After pondering it further, it was two pictures that I read WAY TOO MUCH into. PlayHerMan would call me a b*tch for getting emotional over something so insignificant I'm sure. Other threads say it's good to have an insecure GF vs a secure one. She is [B]reaching out[B] for a reaction from...