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    Freeze outs, competitive anxiety and

    "5. Interest drops exponentially when you’re making it too easy for the girl. This is where guys f*ck it up. They give up on being a challenge." I get always improving (lifting, making more money, etc) as basic life goals, but at some point don't you have to start hanging out more in a...
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    What does this mean?

    What does she's "scared of pushing me away?" mean in non-female lingo? She caused a bunch of drama the other night, fought, discussed, and everything seems fine again. She mentioned this after talking about how dramatic she gets.
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    Failed?

    Dated earlier this year, had a huge fight when she ditched me one night and sorta did the same thing. Despite ditching me she came to the same bar I was at and mid-conversation with me about our fight sees a guy friend and runs over and hugs him. Got back together after a few months off...
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    Failed?

    Drunk with colleagues last night and my GF sees one of her friends from another area. She immediately walks over to his table and he puts his hand on her back, arm, etc. Later she's sitting in front of me talking with me and her gf when he comes over again. She introduces me to him...
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    Here goes...

    "As soon as she finds out that she's your only one, she stops being your only one." Does this apply when the woman brings up exclusivity talk?
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    Relationship Game

    Looking for more advice here bros. I've learned a lot from this site and now I'm looking for advice/tips to make a relationship last through the initial stages, what works for you guys, etc. Long story short, I was seeing this girl earlier this year (hanging out 4-5x/week), flipped out on...
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    Assessment

    Need some advice from the sosuave bros - I'll timeline this so it'll hopefully make more sense. (1-1.5 months earlier this year) - start dating this chick. She shows high interest but says she's not ready for a relationship after I make it known I view her as relationship material about...
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    Need advice

    Quick update here to get y'all's thoughts. She randomly dropped by my office mid week to say hi and we chatted for a bit. Went on a 30 min walk together and it was not awkward at all. She brought up numerous things we used to do together, complimented me by saying I look more muscular/fit, and...
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    Need advice

    "Sounds like high school love sh!t or immature 20-25yr old dumbarse sh!t." Both in the latter age bracket. I'd say I'm mature, but just have stupid AFC moments like us all. I didn't discover/read/care about anything this site teaches until this girl. Dating this chick was a shock to the...
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    Need advice

    It should be noted she didn't mean "the talk". I posted about this chick a while back. We work together and she was showing a lot of interested. Hung out a few times, went on 1 date, but moved very fast. We were spending 3-4 days a week together within the first month, sex, basically gave me...
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    Need advice

    I expected more than two responses lol. Difficult situation?
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    Need advice

    Bump. So I shot her a text to chill and got the "Sunday dinner with family response." I replied "cool. Later this week." She said that sounds good. Do I let her initiate?
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    Need advice

    Second post here. Need advice about a situation with the girl that brought me here. Girl I work with was super interested, would move mountains to see me, sex, etc but was hot/cold, didn't know if she wanted a relationship. We saw each other for a month until she broke plans with me and I went...
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    Girl liked me and than later on told me she wasn't ready for a relationship

    So what if you're still just "seeing each other" after a month and sex?
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    Girl liked me and than later on told me she wasn't ready for a relationship

    Why do you feel like ****? You shouldn't have to play mind games if it was meant to work out. She liked you, but not enough to call you her bf. She's over it and you should be too.
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    Girl liked me and than later on told me she wasn't ready for a relationship

    Exact same thing just happened to be bro. Intense interest from the girl, then hot/cold, sex, "needing space". I'd next and be done with it.
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    In limbo

    Just need a little advice here. New girl starts at work and I can tell by her flirty eyes she's interested. I let her dangle a while (months) but we finally start hanging out. First hangout is chatting at her place (opposite couches). Good conversation. Went on a date a bit later and...
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