Freeze outs, competitive anxiety and

iamnobody

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Here's a short but helpful list, inspired by the latest posts here.

1. Unless she feels there’s competitive anxiety, a girl will not f*ck you.

2. When you freeze her out, you go out and talk to other girls. Hit on other girls and make it obvious.

3. When you end a soft or a mild freeze out, do it casually, don’t ever bring up the fact that you were freezing her out.

4. You end a hard freeze out (rare cases only), ONLY if it helps you establish frame. Normally you should not be the one ending a hard freeezout.

5. Interest drops exponentially when you’re making it too easy for the girl. This is where guys f*ck it up. They give up on being a challenge.

6. If you’re not happy in a relationship, get out. Ponder the risks: removing yourself from a relationship with a seemingly good girl vs. being stuck for years in a toxic relationship. To explain further: if you drop a good girl, chances are you get another one along the way soon enough. If you’re stuck in a toxic relationship (BPD, HPD, whatever) you lose years and mental health you’ll never get back.

And never forget, the c*nt obeys the c*ck.

Manipulate sparingly, dominate intensely. It's always better to dominate then to manipulate. Manipulation comes from a bitter mixture of knowledge and weakness. Dominance comes from strong inner game. This is why PUAs are just actors in their own lives while a DJ is the master of his life.
 
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Is this all happening on the first approach?

If not, this is preach speech.
 

instantnoodles

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The first point is said to be true for me.

I just don't feel like competing with a bunch of h0es for a guy. Especially since they're doing all they can to "sell" themselves of anything they can to win him. Ugh.

I guess I'm good looking but my last and only try to win him would be in terms of intellectual attraction :p Like talking and showing him cool things. Otherwise, whatever. Don't mind competition at work or school but hate competition in dating.
 

luber873

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"5. Interest drops exponentially when you’re making it too easy for the girl. This is where guys f*ck it up. They give up on being a challenge."

I get always improving (lifting, making more money, etc) as basic life goals, but at some point don't you have to start hanging out more in a relationship if you want to. After the girl has asked for exclusivity, and she shows clear signs of interest (worry about other girls, initiating contact, etc) isn't it ok to hangout more (2-3x/week)?

Or is this not the "challenge" you speak of?
 
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