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This is a very good article, thanks.

Yes I'm intrigued by this as well but am also having difficulty understanding it. I get that it needs to be emotional, and the girl ends up feeling the need to quantify herself, yes? But how is this accomplished in a fashion that escalates? Let us say that a girl said I was very interesting...

Well that helps. It at least proves that I'm more uptight about this than I should be. :P Thanks.

Alright, I've been reading this site almost non stop every day, and it's all great stuff, though I find myself feeling overwhelmed internally because of all there is. Which is fine and even expected I'd imagine. Anyhow, my real reason for posting is to relay a story that happened to me today and...

I would also like to know this. I'm new to all this so I can't help you, but the 'just friends' thing, imo (when it's reinforced) seems to be some kind of test, but i could be wrong. :P

That's the truth right there. Women can't be trusted, and the only way to find out if they're really serious is to play them instead of letting them play you. :/

Yes this makes sense too. No more wasting time, right? Thanks again.

That's what I figured. Thanks.

Bump.

So here it is. After NC with her since last saturday, this is what she sent me: Hey Pintero :) Im so sorry it took me forever to write you back. I dont know what my problem was. We are really good friends, idk why i was treating you this way. im so sorry Pintero. I think I was upset with you...

Thanks, I'll look into it, I'll take all the help I can get. :P Have you read "The Principles of Social Competence"? The only reason I'm reading it is because I was directed to it by a user on this forum when I mentioned I was brought up by my single mom. So I dunno if that changes things >>...

Thanks for the advice. Additionally, what do I do when I talk to her again? Am I excited or neutral (I assume I should be neutral to have her trying to win me over again?) Also, what if she asks me if I still love her? What if she brings up my absence? I' so new to all this so I'm not only...

Alright, why? And additionally, what would you suggest I read in replacement?

Hi everyone. As you may know, I recently joined, and I've been reading "The Principles of Social Competence" from the Manhood Academy and I actually feel myself re-awakening, it's great. Once I move out and start working out I'm gonna be working on my RL relationships. However, at the moment...

I was talking about real life girls when I said that, they flock to me. Like I said tho, I need to hone my skills and have nervousness issues, so it's easier (I know, don't go the easy route, blah blah). Anyhow, what do I do if ever a girl comes back apologizing and all that? If I want her back...

Thanks for the welcome (is that being a wuss btw?) I've already started reading as much as I can, taking a break when I feel it needs to sink in, and then coming back for more. K the thing is she lives somewhere in the states and I live in canada. Like I said, I'm using these potential LDR's...

Ok so I've just joined because the topics on here are great, the advice is often very insightful, and, frankly, I have no idea what I'm getting myself into. :P See, girls are naturally attracted to me, but I have normal problems with approaches and such, etc, but that's not why I'm posting...