It's as I feared...

[Pintero]

So here it is. After NC with her since last saturday, this is what she sent me:

Hey Pintero Im so sorry it took me forever to write you back. I dont know what my problem was. We are really good friends, idk why i was treating you this way. im so sorry Pintero. I think I was upset with you but im not sure what, its werid, but I also feel like me talking to you and telling you I love you was wrong of me, well I do love you as a person you are an amazing person, but i think my guilt of hiding this from my boyfriend got to me. but i shouldnt have ignored you and im sorry. im sorry for hurting you. *hugs* I hope we can still be friends and I want you to be happy
talk to you later I hope you are having a good day




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*sigh of relief* it feels good to finally have my suspicions confirmed, but I still wish I could get her back. I mean, she had no hesitations in the beginning, but oh well. Anyone have any further advice before I move on with my life? I honestly don't know what to say to her, or if i'll even be able to hang out on that site anymore with this development. :/

 

[Pintero]

Bump.

 

[floydb25]

She made it crystal clear that her only interest in you is friendship. Nothing more to say, really. Just accept it and move on. When people come back after NC - it does NOT mean their interest has raised. Many of them simply want to remain civil, and act as friendly as possible - while only being interested in friendship. Chances are, they simply feel guilty, and don't want you to be mad at them. Or, they want to be friends.

 

[Pintero]

She made it crystal clear that her only interest in you is friendship. Nothing more to say, really. Just accept it and move on.

That's what I figured. Thanks.

 

[Juan Don]

dont say anything more to her ignore her move on.

 

[Pintero]

dont say anything more to her ignore her move on.

Yes this makes sense too. No more wasting time, right? Thanks again.