stoner1129
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I know that u like push a woman away from u and then like pull them back, but i guess i don't get like how to do one, or maybe exactly what they are. So can someone maybe give me some examples or something? Thanks.
How do u do a push pull?
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everywomanshero
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Imagine you were telling something serious and then it had a really funny ending. You were sending one signal, and then dropped an incongruent ending that made them laugh and was unexpected. I think often "push/pull" works like this.
As far as push/pull in all this weird community stuff, like making her sad and then happy over and over in a story... this is pretty much just community garbage to stay away from. A story is either interesting or it isn't, the number of times you "evoke a series of emotions" or any other mind control, NLP weirdness can be safely ignored.
As far as push/pull in all this weird community stuff, like making her sad and then happy over and over in a story... this is pretty much just community garbage to stay away from. A story is either interesting or it isn't, the number of times you "evoke a series of emotions" or any other mind control, NLP weirdness can be safely ignored.
its not wierdness and its something i am currently working on myself
when i have a convo with any girl i completely ignore the meaning of the words or trying to come to some sort of logical conclusion
(thats y girl make no sense and how they get an afc all wrapped up in the game imo)
instead i focus on just fvcking with her emotions as best i can throughout...
i guess the non pua community calls it drama
im not that good yet but the results seem promising...TD claims that push/pull is a great way to make a girl sexualy receptive and spike BT
if anybody has some good insight i would appreciate as well
when i have a convo with any girl i completely ignore the meaning of the words or trying to come to some sort of logical conclusion
(thats y girl make no sense and how they get an afc all wrapped up in the game imo)
instead i focus on just fvcking with her emotions as best i can throughout...
i guess the non pua community calls it drama
im not that good yet but the results seem promising...TD claims that push/pull is a great way to make a girl sexualy receptive and spike BT
if anybody has some good insight i would appreciate as well
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Follow this routine and you'll be in her panties in no time...http://www.seductiontuition.com/swinggcat/push-pull-examples.html http://www.bristollair.com/outer-game/techniques/tactics/push-pull.html
Excerpt on Push/pull:
Push/Pull is whenever you emotionally push a woman away from you...and, then, emotionally pull her back in. Each Push creates an emotional space for each Pull. To get a sense of what I'm getting at, think, for example, of your favorite junk food. What if you went on a strict diet for several weeks, depriving yourself of giving in to your urge to eat your favorite food? What would it be like to finally give in to your urge and indulge? I'm willing to bet it would be more intense than if you hadn't gone on your strict diet, yes?
Many women are natural Push/Pull artists. Over the years I've heard dozens of stories from hapless men about women using Push/Pull to pick them up by the scruff of their proverbial neck, slamming their bodies with back-and-forth and side-to-side motions into the ground. My all time favorite story is the one about the gorgeous girl sleeping with a guy and then, after sex, putting his ego on steroids by telling him, "You're the best lover I've ever had." Things, then, alas, take a self-esteem crushing turn for the worse when she undermines her praise with: "Actually, you're the fourth best lover I've ever had." The poor bastard is crushed and he is, as if he were a little worker bee, struggling to move up to the number three slot.
We can use these psychological mechanisms without being an A-hole or a Jerk. The key is to make it playful and funny. Your intention should never be to hurt a woman. Your goal is to only mess with her a bit. Do this and women will find you charming and attractive.
Here's an example of Push/Pull I've used probably over a thousand times...
At some point while interacting with a woman I might take her hand and praise, "You have the most amazing smile I've seen tonight...It makes me feel so happy inside!" She'll usually respond with, "Thank you!" Then I'll count the fingers on my other hand and say, "You know what: actually there were four other girls with really amazing smiles tonight as well. Out of them, you have the fourth best smile. I'm going to call you number four." And then I'll push away her hand. More often than not, women demand, "No!!! I want to be number one!" I'll usually retort with, "Alright, I'll promote you to number three for being feisty."
Do women find this derisive and mean? Not at all (Note: once in while you'll encounter a psychologically damaged woman who doesn't think this is cute. She is the exception and not the rule. My advice: run away from these types of women, quickly). Most women find this funny, charming, and playful. More importantly, it generates attraction: the emotion of wanting and reaching and chasing for more of you.
Push/Pull is the crème de la crème of attraction tools. Master Push/Pull and you'll leave women no choice but to feel attraction toward you...even if they're repulsed by your physical appearance. Realize that this is a newsletter and I'm only scratching the surface of Push/Pull. In my book, you'll learn six types of Push/Pull: Intentional Undermining, Guilty Conscience, Emotional Rollercoaster, Revealing & Concealing, and Good Cop/ Bad Cop. You'll discover body language techniques for using Push/Pull and read about a powerful Push/Pull secret for getting physical with a woman...even if she tells you, she's not attracted to you. My book is the only place on the planet where you'll learn about Push/Pull. This, however, only scratches the surface of what you'll gain from my attraction guide. It's a complete education on attracting women, giving you the tools to transform yourself into the kind of man women feel attraction toward. Just think what it will be like to finally have the skills and confidence to plop your butt in the driver's seat while interacting with women, giving you the power and choice to take your interactions with them in the direction you want. Start getting this area of your life taken care of right now by downloading my book.
Swinggcat
Excerpt on Push/pull:
Push/Pull is whenever you emotionally push a woman away from you...and, then, emotionally pull her back in. Each Push creates an emotional space for each Pull. To get a sense of what I'm getting at, think, for example, of your favorite junk food. What if you went on a strict diet for several weeks, depriving yourself of giving in to your urge to eat your favorite food? What would it be like to finally give in to your urge and indulge? I'm willing to bet it would be more intense than if you hadn't gone on your strict diet, yes?
Many women are natural Push/Pull artists. Over the years I've heard dozens of stories from hapless men about women using Push/Pull to pick them up by the scruff of their proverbial neck, slamming their bodies with back-and-forth and side-to-side motions into the ground. My all time favorite story is the one about the gorgeous girl sleeping with a guy and then, after sex, putting his ego on steroids by telling him, "You're the best lover I've ever had." Things, then, alas, take a self-esteem crushing turn for the worse when she undermines her praise with: "Actually, you're the fourth best lover I've ever had." The poor bastard is crushed and he is, as if he were a little worker bee, struggling to move up to the number three slot.
We can use these psychological mechanisms without being an A-hole or a Jerk. The key is to make it playful and funny. Your intention should never be to hurt a woman. Your goal is to only mess with her a bit. Do this and women will find you charming and attractive.
Here's an example of Push/Pull I've used probably over a thousand times...
At some point while interacting with a woman I might take her hand and praise, "You have the most amazing smile I've seen tonight...It makes me feel so happy inside!" She'll usually respond with, "Thank you!" Then I'll count the fingers on my other hand and say, "You know what: actually there were four other girls with really amazing smiles tonight as well. Out of them, you have the fourth best smile. I'm going to call you number four." And then I'll push away her hand. More often than not, women demand, "No!!! I want to be number one!" I'll usually retort with, "Alright, I'll promote you to number three for being feisty."
Do women find this derisive and mean? Not at all (Note: once in while you'll encounter a psychologically damaged woman who doesn't think this is cute. She is the exception and not the rule. My advice: run away from these types of women, quickly). Most women find this funny, charming, and playful. More importantly, it generates attraction: the emotion of wanting and reaching and chasing for more of you.
Push/Pull is the crème de la crème of attraction tools. Master Push/Pull and you'll leave women no choice but to feel attraction toward you...even if they're repulsed by your physical appearance. Realize that this is a newsletter and I'm only scratching the surface of Push/Pull. In my book, you'll learn six types of Push/Pull: Intentional Undermining, Guilty Conscience, Emotional Rollercoaster, Revealing & Concealing, and Good Cop/ Bad Cop. You'll discover body language techniques for using Push/Pull and read about a powerful Push/Pull secret for getting physical with a woman...even if she tells you, she's not attracted to you. My book is the only place on the planet where you'll learn about Push/Pull. This, however, only scratches the surface of what you'll gain from my attraction guide. It's a complete education on attracting women, giving you the tools to transform yourself into the kind of man women feel attraction toward. Just think what it will be like to finally have the skills and confidence to plop your butt in the driver's seat while interacting with women, giving you the power and choice to take your interactions with them in the direction you want. Start getting this area of your life taken care of right now by downloading my book.
Swinggcat
stoner1129
Don Juan
well that helped but i'm still not totally getting it, can someone give me an example or two? thanks
Yes I'm intrigued by this as well but am also having difficulty understanding it. I get that it needs to be emotional, and the girl ends up feeling the need to quantify herself, yes? But how is this accomplished in a fashion that escalates? Let us say that a girl said I was very interesting after I had done this. ok great, but so what? Seems like I'm just chasing her rather than having her chase me. :/
push/pull from my understanding: someone correct me if i am wrong.stoner1129 said:
you push a girl away by speaking about her indirectly and not about her (she's thinking you're thinking about other girls and not her). instead of saying to her directly "you are very beautiful". you say "i love brunettes they're beautiful" but you are talking about her just not directly.
when you pull it's more direct and towards her: "you have a beautiful smile"
edit: just read the example poonani maker gave. just like that lol
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
First you beat the crap out of her, then you buy her a dozen roses. That always worked for my dad. :flowers:
Women are emotionally vulnerable when you take them on an emotional roller coaster. I live with a woman, so I am exposed to shows like Grey's Anatomy, and there is almost always a woman crying over her dying baby. Women watch that show to get emotionally jerked around, because they love it.
To translate that to practical advice, you need emotionally provocative stories to tell. Each of them is designed to evoke a certain emotion, and then you can play her like the keys of a piano.
Women are emotionally vulnerable when you take them on an emotional roller coaster. I live with a woman, so I am exposed to shows like Grey's Anatomy, and there is almost always a woman crying over her dying baby. Women watch that show to get emotionally jerked around, because they love it.
To translate that to practical advice, you need emotionally provocative stories to tell. Each of them is designed to evoke a certain emotion, and then you can play her like the keys of a piano.
