Just joined...

[Pintero]

Ok so I've just joined because the topics on here are great, the advice is often very insightful, and, frankly, I have no idea what I'm getting myself into.

See, girls are naturally attracted to me, but I have normal problems with approaches and such, etc, but that's not why I'm posting this. I'm posting this because, currently, I frequent another forum and have a semi-LDR with a girl on there who has seemed to reject me (I was being far too easy/eager) and now another girl has private messaged me. I have talked with this girl before, and so I wasn't all that surprised. Anyhow, she basically asked me if she could have my email or facebook. I offered her my email by saying she could add me to msn or yahoo messenger. I don't think I was too eager or anything, but I'm learning on the fly here. Plus, I see these LDR's as more or less a way to hone my skills, which is another problem I know, but i have to start somewhere. Anyhow, any help would be great, I hate being so sensitive as I've always been, I suppose it comes from being raised solely by my religious mother ><

 

[Leopold]

Welcome bro!!! Start absorbing all the info on the site till your wet like a sponge.

Also very important since you are single mom raised... Head pronto to manhood academy (manhood101.com) and start reading the book and try to introduce yourself and meet people.

Glad to have you aboard d(..)d

 

[DonJuanabe]

Rather than giving her your email address you should have asked for hers and told her you would email her later. Wait a couple days then shoot her an email telling her you are going to be doing "X" on some specific day and it'd be cool if she joined you (e.g. Hey HB this is Pintero - I'm going to be checking out Mr. Jones, a standup comic at the Forum this Saturday night, and thought it'd be cool if you were able to join me. But only if you like to laugh because he is one seriously funny guy...).

 

[Pintero]

Thanks for the welcome (is that being a wuss btw?) I've already started reading as much as I can, taking a break when I feel it needs to sink in, and then coming back for more.

Rather than giving her your email address you should have asked for hers and told her you would email her later. Wait a couple days then shoot her an email telling her you are going to be doing "X" on some specific day and it'd be cool if she joined you (e.g. Hey HB this is Pintero - I'm going to be checking out Mr. Jones, a standup comic at the Forum this Saturday night, and thought it'd be cool if you were able to join me. But only if you like to laugh because he is one seriously funny guy...).

K the thing is she lives somewhere in the states and I live in canada. Like I said, I'm using these potential LDR's for tuning myself with all the stuff I'm reading online. But I definitely hear you on the email thing, I have a feeling I make way too many mistakes. The one girl who's given me the cold shoulder I am officially done with, but I'd love it if she came begging for me back (even if it is an online thing ) just because I want her in my pocket not the other way around. In the event that she does start to turn around, what should I do? Thanks again for the help.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Don't say you are naturally attractive to the girls when your in LDR with girls on the Internet. If you want to tone up your skills you go to your local mall and spit some game.

 

[Pintero]

Don't say you are naturally attractive to the girls when your in LDR with girls on the Internet. If you want to tone up your skills you go to your local mall and spit some game.

I was talking about real life girls when I said that, they flock to me. Like I said tho, I need to hone my skills and have nervousness issues, so it's easier (I know, don't go the easy route, blah blah). Anyhow, what do I do if ever a girl comes back apologizing and all that? If I want her back (not desperately, it'd just be nice to have her do things for me, like taking pictures like she used to then what? I don't intend to go far with this LDR at all, but call me vengeful, I'd like to put her in the place I should have the first time.