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  1. DiegoSantori

    Indifference ...the irony of it

    The only time I'm authentically indifferent towards most women is when I'm attracted to one specific woman that makes other women seem boring enough that I don't want to be with them.
  2. DiegoSantori

    Choosing the most attractive haircut

    Almost anything is very very hard to pull of if you don't have a great looking face. Face>everything. Short on the sides (like 9mm) and a bit longer on the top always looks good tho. Even if you got an average face, you'll look athletic... and more athletic = more attractive.
  3. DiegoSantori

    Withdrawal is far more important than C&F and all that hocus-pocus...

    Nice post! I couldn't have said it better. I think, being C&F is just one of many ways to give her ATTENTION and, hate it or love it, you can even become an orbiter by doing too much C&F because you're giving her too much attention. So, you might be more fun to be around than all the other...
  4. DiegoSantori

    Is it all about value or does compatibility matter too?

    Let's say, you're going on a date with a pretty lady and she realizes pretty soon that you both have different personalities, different interests, a different approach to life and different plans for the future. And let's say, you are good-looking/popular/earn good money/etc., i.e. you are...
  5. DiegoSantori

    Withdrawal is far more important than C&F and all that hocus-pocus...

    You will never lose value by being too busy or too aloof. I mean, she might give up hope that she can have you but this doesn't mean that she doesn't want you anymore and if you call her after a few weeks or months, you will be even more valuable in her eyes. The rule of scarcity is powerful.
  6. DiegoSantori

    Withdrawal is far more important than C&F and all that hocus-pocus...

    I'm talking about women who have a high level of interest in you.
  7. DiegoSantori

    Withdrawal is far more important than C&F and all that hocus-pocus...

    I'm a guy who is naturally ****y & funny. I tease, flirt, banter (whatever you wanna call it) with women all the time and, yeah, it eases the atmosphere and makes conversations less monotonous. I mean, that's cool, don't get me wrong, but I don't think that it's THAT powerful. In my experience...
  8. DiegoSantori

    It's not what you say or do that makes you alpha or beta...

    Thank god I've created this thread, otherwise I wouldn't have read this golden post. I've heard of 'artofmanliness.com' before but I've never checked it out. Seems to be a good site.
  9. DiegoSantori

    ALWAYS treat them like sh*t - no exceptions

    They say "No mistakes in life, only lessons." Well, here's my lesson: I'm usually categorized as the selfish bad boy, not because I want to be like that, it's just my disposition and the pain in the past that turned me into a jerk. Now, I heard that women in their late 20s / early 30s get...
  10. DiegoSantori

    It's not what you say or do that makes you alpha or beta...

    What if you don't care if your words kill all mystery? I'd rather say what's on my mind than waste my precious energy filtering every word. Worrying about mystery is weak imo.
  11. DiegoSantori

    The power of a new haircut

    Well, if you look like me, every haircut is stylish and I'll always look better than the average Joe, even if he's rocking the most stylish hairstyle.
  12. DiegoSantori

    The power of a new haircut

    Well, the perfect hair lenght depends on your facial structure. Oval face: you can rock any hair length you like Angular face: short hair Long face: short hair Triangular face: short hair Circular face: short hair Heart-shaped face: long hair
  13. DiegoSantori

    Girl going cold after telling her I'm moving

    No, it's true. Scarcity is generally attractive, that's why her reaction is surprising. The only explanation I can think of is that she wants to protect herself from getting hurt emotionally. So, she wants to put an end to the story before she gets too involved instead of risking painful...
  14. DiegoSantori

    It's not what you say or do that makes you alpha or beta...

    Some time ago, I opened a thread called "Phrases that make you look weak in her eyes". I retract everything I said in this thread because I have a different opinion now. As some users rightly mentioned in the other thread, paying attention to what you should say to her and what you shouldn't...
  15. DiegoSantori

    Ten Seduction Principles I Live By (Part One)

    I couldn't agree more. Some guys on SoSuave will think this is wrong though. Someone here told me to never be straightforward with girls. I disagree. Honesty is the best policy. It makes you attractive because it is rare and because it takes courage to be honest. The bad boy is honest about...
  16. DiegoSantori

    I broke up with my girl..... and for the life of me I cannot come up with a reason y

    Well, if she was the queen of your life, your 10/10 dream woman, a goddess, you wouldn't have dumped her, would you? You wouldn't buy a Lamborghini and give it to a stranger the next day for no reason. So, she ain't a Lamborghini in your eyes.
  17. DiegoSantori

    The future of dating

    Cool. Can you give me the weather forecast for Newport Beach, CA for the next ten years too? I'd really appreciate that. Joking apart, I think your prediction is pretty much spot on. Especially number 7.
  18. DiegoSantori

    Stop pedestalizing chicks with high number based off her looks.

    If men didn't pedestalize women, the sosuave forum would be empty and OP would not have started this thread. Men are born to pedestalize women. There was a study demonstrating that after a short interaction with an attractive woman, men experience a decline in mental performance. It's biology...
  19. DiegoSantori

    The power of a new haircut

    I know that feel bro. Long hair can be pretty cool too. I used to get tons of compliments from girls on my curls when I had long hair but, as you just have described, it's too much of a hassle.
  20. DiegoSantori

    The power of a new haircut

    I swear, I'm feeling like a new man since I got my new haircut (military haircut). The difference between how I felt before and how I'm feeling right now is incredible. I mean, I have an athletic body, but with longer hair, people seem to pay more attention to my hair than to my muscles. Don't...
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