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  1. DiegoSantori

    Girls who like beta/pushover guys

    Women may sometimes want beta males, but they never want them for very long. To a woman, betas are transitory. Alphas are forever.
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    What is more attractive? Big Ego or Vulnerability?

    Can you give me some examples?
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    Stalker won't leave me alone

    Tell her to listen closely to the lyrics of the song "Z-Ro - Stalker". https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jp_2CCk85T4 Listening to this song she will be able to see things from your perspective.
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    What is more attractive? Big Ego or Vulnerability?

    I've read a lot of contradictory opinions of having a big ego and being vulnerable. Donald Trump says: "Show me someone without an ego, and I'll show you a loser - having a healthy ego, or high opinion of yourself, is a real positive in life!" Then I've read opinions like this: "Vulnerable...
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    Phrases that make you look weak in her eyes and that you should avoid

    Depends on your intention behind it. If you mention it with the intention of enhancing your prestige in her eyes, you're insecure and weak. If you mention it just as a side note, and you don't really care about it (i.e. you could just as well leave it unspoken), she won't perceive it as bragging.
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    Disinterested or playing hard to get: how do you tell the difference?

    Well, in my case, she's constantly telling me how interested she is in me and that she wants to get to know me, blablabla, but when I ask her out, she tells me how busy she is, problems in her private life, blablabla. We're both attending university and she said that she's gonna be free...
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    Phrases that make you look weak in her eyes and that you should avoid

    Everything seems to be fine: she is attracted to you, finds you aesthetically pleasing, worthy of a first date, but then... BOOM! GAME OVER! You've said something weak and, by doing this, lowered your value in her eyes. She has lost interest in you. Let's collect some of these weak phrases...
  8. DiegoSantori

    Disinterested or playing hard to get: how do you tell the difference?

    In other words, it's impossible to tell the difference between playing hard to get and being disinterested.
  9. DiegoSantori

    Disinterested or playing hard to get: how do you tell the difference?

    What if she is counter offering a date with the words "soon, when I'm less busy".
  10. DiegoSantori

    Disinterested or playing hard to get: how do you tell the difference?

    I think, the fact that women are constantly told to play hard to get makes it extremely difficult to spot if she's just not that into you or if she has read some advice on the internet that is telling her to act disinterested. Is anyone able to detect the difference between real and fake...
  11. DiegoSantori

    Would it be a good idea to send this text?

    Thank you, guys. As always, it seems like, the best solution is to be aloof, let her come to me and blow hot and cold.
  12. DiegoSantori

    The 5cm experiment and why rejection means nothing

    You guys become obsessed by details instead of focusing on the overall package. That's your problem. Height is a detail, which CAN make a difference, but is worth nothing if you're ugly. I know a dude that is 6'5" but women wouldn't even touch him with a ten-foot pole because his face lacks...
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    Would it be a good idea to send this text?

    Let's say, you've met a girl, you've been on a date, things went fine and you kissed. Strangely enough, however, she's been sending you mixed signals since then and you want to drive things forward. Would it be a good or bad idea to send this text? "Let me be straightforward with you. My ex...
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    Lol... A woman reveals how she scored her dream guy by playing hard-to-get

    I think, the fact that women play these kind of games makes it extremely difficult to spot if she's just not that into you or if she has read some advice on the internet that is telling her to act disinterested. Is anyone able to detect the difference between real and fake disinterest? If so...
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    At university: button down shirt and jeans overdressed and 'trying to hard'?

    You're right. I've used the wrong term. But thank you for mentioning this aspect, because this shows me that it's hard to call my style "overdressed". I don't wear a suit, I'm just slightly "better dressed" than my fellow male students. This could be true. I can only guess what other people...
  16. DiegoSantori

    How to drop your infatuation with her

    You are definitely talented as far as writing is concerned. Keep it up! Do you have your own homepage (something like wordpress)? I would like to read more from you. I'm especially diggin' the end: "It's too bad she'll never see all those things you put in the left column. Now if she'll excuse...
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    At university: button down shirt and jeans overdressed and 'trying to hard'?

    Hey, I'm attending an institution of higher education and I like to wear nice button down shirts and dark jeans, which I personally would consider business casual. I know, there is a huge social component to dressing. I've noticed that some women were diggin' it (they paid me compliments)...
  18. DiegoSantori

    when a girl ignores you back

    As you can see, dear captain55, the answers are always the same: "Next her", "Don't take it personally", "You have a scarcity mentality", "Always spin the plates", ... All those answers are as predictable as a Twitter rant from Charlie Sheen but they are all TRUE. In this game that we call...
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    Lol... A woman reveals how she scored her dream guy by playing hard-to-get

    After reading tons and tons of stories and advice for men from the male perspective (e.g. on SoSuave), I finally decided to search for stories and advice for women from the female perspective. What I've found made me yell with laughter. Let's be honest, at the end of the day, women give the...
  20. DiegoSantori

    When is it okay to show emotions?

    For example: Is there any kind of situation when you could say something like "I've got a huge crush on you. You're the only woman I want."? I don't mean this empty sweet talk but when you sincerely mean it and want to express it to her. Or will she use your heart like a toy if you do...
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