The Ultimate Guide to Success with Women

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    Breaking up with girlfriend to become a PUA/DJ

    Tell her you love her but you're not in love with her. That's their all time favorite BS line. She'll be yours forever... in case you hit a dry spell and need some ex sex.
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    New to the board..shocked and saddened by some of you

    I have a question, exotic dancer: How do you handle knowing that you have absolutely nothing to offer a man, or society in general? I'm presuming the answer is 'coke.'
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    Girl says I make her feel like an object

    Got a speech like this once after a first date that started with drinks and ended up with us back at my place doing everything but fvcking. So for date 2 I proposed that we go bowling, have no drinks, and do it at a place that wasn't really very close to either of our apartments. I sincerely...
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    So I sat next to her yesterday.

    For the love of everything holy, do not let her drive your car. As AJ said... the script is flipped here. Withdraw your interest, stop texting her. Stop going out of your way to talk to and impress her. Be polite when you see her and don't act like you're purposely ignoring her. This is your...
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    If I did right, why do I feel like ****?

    This girl is not your problem. Your mindset is the problem. Sometimes we develop what guys here call "oneitis." We have to have a particular girl and will go to any lengths to "fight" for her. I have done it, as I'm sure most here have at one point or another. But for you to experience this...
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    Some thoughts on POF after 3 years of experince

    He may be an ******* (and if I recall correctly, a huge introverted nerd), but he makes more money in a day than most of us do in a year. Props.
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    Went to break up w/ GF.....WTF?

    Situation is a bit different now... She lives 3 hours away. She has never been to my new place (and never will). She doesn't even know where I live other than the general area. She has never met any of my new friends (and never will). If I'm in town and if it works out, I may fvck...
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    Went to break up w/ GF.....WTF?

    That reminds me of another ex that I mentioned in the BPD thread. I dumped her. She called/texted incessantly. She drove by my house all the time. She even barged in one night while I had another girl over, yelled at the girl then smacked the hell out of me. Even after I defriended her, she...
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    Went to break up w/ GF.....WTF?

    I'm really, really happy that my BPD ex isn't the type for that stuff. She's so passive. Guess I'm lucky.
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    Went to break up w/ GF.....WTF?

    If she has BPD, your relationship WOULD have end sooner or later anyway. Bank on it. You could be God Almighty and it won't please her. Even if she doesn't, if she was molested and still has issues from it, that is very unfortunate for her but I don't see why you'd want to stay in the relationship.
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    Some thoughts on POF after 3 years of experince

    If you are experiencing this with numerous women, maybe the problem is not the women. Again, if in 100+ dates or hookups, you have not found a girl you consider quality, then perhaps these women aren't the issue. These women you see on POF? Many of them are the same ones you see in clubs...
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    Some thoughts on POF after 3 years of experince

    There is a difference between quality women and easy women. BOTH exist on POF and BOTH have their purpose. Yes, MOST of the women on POF are fat/ugly/stupid/arrogant/low quality. Probably 90%+. And guess what? Sometimes 90%+ of the women you encounter on a day to day basis are just as...
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    PART 1 - I guess I'm dating a chick with BPD, please help if you have experience

    It's kind of a catch-22, really. Yes, they are testing you to see if you will give them the unconditional love they missed in childhood. They want to see if their behavior will drive you away. If it does, they have successfully re-lived their abandonment fear and say, "See, I knew you didn't...
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    PART 1 - I guess I'm dating a chick with BPD, please help if you have experience

    Yeah, and I really don't get the hate and vitriol you see from even some of the older guys on this forum when it comes to BPD. These women aren't "evil" or "vampires" or whatever. They are people who have a broken system of emotional regulation. They are a complete mess of uncontrollable...
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    PART 1 - I guess I'm dating a chick with BPD, please help if you have experience

    deuce42, I feel what you're saying. 110%. Mine was the perfect blend for me. I finally met a highly intelligent girl (getting nearly flawless scores in med school) who was naturally beautiful, sweet, feminine, with great manners and values, yet highly sexual. It was my dream come true. And I...
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    Some thoughts on POF after 3 years of experince

    http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=28372217
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    PART 1 - I guess I'm dating a chick with BPD, please help if you have experience

    My ex-ex isn't BPD... she has none of the other traits. She just went psycho when I dumped her because she felt used and very hurt. It was a tough time in her life for many reasons. Not justifying her behavior; she isn't BPD though. Either way, I can tell you exactly why I fell so hard for my...
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    Why do black girls make it more noticeable when they like you

    I'm kidding dude...
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    Why do black girls make it more noticeable when they like you

    Because all the black men are in jail.
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    Some thoughts on POF after 3 years of experince

    POF is like any given bar or club. Some guys will go there and complain that there are no decent women. The rest will be finding the decent women in the bar and taking them home. I have had a lot of success with POF. It's easy pvssy. And believe it or not, there are quality women who have come...
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