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    Can I save my LTR?

    Well, I pulled the trigger tonight. After I didn't answer her last text she called me twice while I was out eating with friends, and I didn't answer. She then texted me something like "if you want to talk just call me whenever. I'll leave you alone." I still didn't respond. A couple hours...
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    Can I save my LTR?

    What's funny is that I haven't even broken up with her yet. :) I don't have a problem ignoring her, I just don't know "how" I should do it. For instance she sends me a text like the last one and I just don't say anything? That seems kind of juvenile. But I can't sympathize with her or say...
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    Can I save my LTR?

    Haven't been able to post because of a 10 post in 24 hour limit. Anyway, I'm not sending her the email. I think that call last night had a huge effect on her. She has been texting me today, and called me. A while after we got off the phone, she texted, "Do you hate me?" This was really weird...
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    Can I save my LTR?

    doinwork, That is exactly what he's talking about - cutting her off. Like this morning, she sends her usual good morning text and even though she's busy at work she will text me throughout the day as long as I respond back, making small talk. I don't want to do that. But if I just ignore...
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    Can I save my LTR?

    Yeah... I'd say on average we go on a trip every month or so. A couple of the trips have been really spontaneous too, like planned the day before. I am working on an email to her about this right now. Will probably send it tonight. I'm not sure how long it had been. I want to say about a year...
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    Can I save my LTR?

    cordon, This is such an awesome post and a fresh perspective. It will be hard to figure out what he gave her that I am not. Her ex was in med school with her, and she said that the last year of their relationship it just fell apart because all they did was study together. And in the end...
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    Can I save my LTR?

    It's just tough to reconcile the three schools of thought here: 1) just dump her vs 2) don't take action and let her come to you vs 3) make a decision - dump her or keep her on your terms I like #3 but I'm not sure how that will work. Yeah, I tell her what my terms are, but I can't...
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    Can I save my LTR?

    I see what you're saying, but I thought the idea here was to show that I am willing to leave or OK if she decides to leave, without actually ending the relationship?
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    Can I save my LTR?

    So, yesterday I was able to really work on my mindset and find the ability to let her go if that is what it came down to. I'm not going to change my beliefs on religion, and I'm not going to accept her leftovers or second best. I ultimately decided that I want to be with this girl, but it has...
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    Can I save my LTR?

    All: Thanks again for the insight. I am slowly starting to get past my emotions and see the big picture here. She called me last night, and we had a talk about this in which I incorporated a lot of the advice here. Will update in a little bit. I think this is a very good discussion in general...
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    Can I save my LTR?

    Great point. I do think there is a distinction between stress she would feel as a result of trying to "deal" with a relationship she doesn't really want vs. stress of wanting the relationship to work but feeling like she's not doing enough for me. She and I have had that conversation. She has...
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    Can I save my LTR?

    Now, obviously I need to establish social value, quick. The good news is that she knows I have a very easy time with women, and there have been multiple occasions where she's run into women I've slept with or otherwise fooled around with. She's also seen girls on my Facebook leave comments or...
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