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    Can I save my LTR?

    Similar text from another conversation: Regarding the abortion and its relation to the religion issue, this is from just a few minutes later: ... a few messages later: I think she feels that by ignoring her feelings over religion she is compromising her values like she did with the...
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    Regaining Confidence

    Girl 1 didn't "feel insecure," she was possibly going to leave me for her ex. I played head games and reversed that, but the relationship was damaged beyond repair anyway. I do understand that not all women want the same thing. But isn't that something that is realized quickly, not 8 months...
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    Can I save my LTR?

    Regarding cordon's post: - she was not seeing him at work, the only time they would see each other is when there is a test at school, which for 3rd year med students is not that often - She said this just started about a week ago. I believe that because there was a point almost overnight where...
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    Regaining Confidence

    Sorry for the ridiculous length of this post. Hopefully this can turn into a great discussion. I am 28, and freshly single out of an 8 month relationship, as those who followed my epic denial of reality in another thread will know. Right now my confidence is absolutely shattered. Girl...
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    Can I save my LTR?

    I think you're probably right. If she doesn't, it will speak volumes. Why do you think I left despite what I did see, and her begging me not to? This is why I told her no when she said when she would do anything for another chance. And when she said, "I'll wait for you" and "I'll come back to...
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    Can I save my LTR?

    This is why I still left her (mentally anyway, technically we were already broken up). I am interested in seeing what she does over the next couple of months now that I have told her no but he is still telling her yes. She told me that he told her months ago, not long after we started dating...
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    Can I save my LTR?

    Again I'm not saying you're wrong, but there is also the possibility that she was telling the truth and just simply wanted to resolve her feelings for him once and for all so she could commit to the next level with me without any doubts whatsoever. I realize I have a lot of egocentric reasons to...
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    Can I save my LTR?

    He DID want her back but she ultimately decided that I was what she wanted. I believed that, and I was proven to be right today when I read the messages. I honestly believe what she told me, that she felt guilty about feelings she had for him and they confused her so much that it made her...
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    Can I save my LTR?

    Well, it finally settled in to me that there was basically no way I could keep this relationship. The only chance was IF I read the entire convo between her and the ex and it backed her story; and IF he obviously wanted her back but she refused. So I packed her things and took the box to her...
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    Can I save my LTR?

    On this point I have to disagree with you. There are 2 relationships I can think back on right now where I wonder, wtf happened? Even though I don't want to go back to them, I would like to know what caused the break up so that I could improve myself and avoid that in the future. sometimes...
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    Can I save my LTR?

    This is the stuff I need to hear. Basically the only way I could ever continue in this relationship is if I saw the actual conversation (texts) between her and the ex and everything was exactly as she stated (him wanting her, her not wanting him but only trying to get closure and discuss the...
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    Can I save my LTR?

    Cordon, I'm not saying that you're wrong. But what is confusing me is that she says he wants her back (which I do believe based on things i having posted) .... so why would she just do all this? I already broke up with her. What's holding her back from him unless she is actually telling me the...
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    Can I save my LTR?

    I hate to admit this, but I made what I think was a big mistake last night, yet it had some interesting results. I'll post what happened just because I need to clear my head anyway; I think most of what can be said about this situation has already been said. And I think there is the extremely...
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    Can I save my LTR?

    Um, I'm 28, not 20.
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    Can I save my LTR?

    Thanks for your honesty. I wouldn't want anything less. Please keep in mind though, my goal here is not to move on from this girl, but to get her head on straight and realize what a huge mistake she is making so we can get back together (on my terms). So any contact/non-contact/mix of the two...
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    Can I save my LTR?

    She sent me a lot of messages while at work today, I'm kind of undecided about how to interpret them. I'm not really sure how to read this, it doesn't seem good though. As someone said, I think the real test is going to be how she acts when she comes to pick up her stuff, whenever that is. I...
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    Can I save my LTR?

    Maybe I chose the wrong picture then. She has certainly gone out clubbing with me before, but she doesn't like to do that much. She prefers spending time alone with me, offers to pay for a lot of things, including paying for my birthday in South Beach when she is living on loans. She's not...
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    Can I save my LTR?

    Well, I am in wtf-did-i-do mode right now simply because while I think I did the right thing, it's possible this was too heavy handed and I should've just backed away quietly. Basically, this: Yeah. "I don't deserve you" "You deserve better" "It's nothing you did, it's me" "I don't...
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    Can I save my LTR?

    She called a couple more times after the last message I posted, sent another text a while later. We'll see. I put her and all her friends into a list on FB and changed my settings so that they can't see any more of my profile than a non-friend, even though I didn't delete them. She noticed...
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    10 post in 24 hour limit

    Hey guys - I'm running into this post limit and was wondering if/when this is lifted? I didn't see anything in the FAQ about it. Sorry if this is the wrong subforum. Thanks...
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