Breaking up with girlfriend to become a PUA/DJ

[Sofomore]

What would you guys do in this situation?

"I would like to master my emotions and become a DJ, so we have to break up."

or

"I want to be single." (...so that I can pick up women)

 

[sexysuave]

lol, dude, dont' tell her you're breaking up to become a pick up artist, are you kidding me? Think about it "hey, sorry, I'm breaking up to become DJ/PUA" her: "f u as***le" she calls all her friends and tells them this is why you broke up with her. Word spreads and now everyone starts hearing how you dumped that girl so you can be a PUA, then you go try to "pick up" some chicks, and they know that you're just in it for the "pick up", how do you think that will go over?

Common, be smart man. Don't tell her ANYTHING about DJ stuff, PUA stuff or ANY of this!! You can't be giving away your power! Never tell people that you are learning this stuff cause most of them will use that against you and it may come back to bite you in the butt. Keep your styding and knowledge as your own personal tool, no need to tell people about it, it will be counter productive. If everyone knows, then every move you do or every thing you say they will start trying to figure out what you're really up to and if that's also part of your "routine". Trust me, you don't want all of that. Keep this site and anything else you learn to your self, and keep improving but do NOT talk about studying this stuff.

With the girl, you don't need to tell her the ENTIRE truth man. Just tell her "hey, I loved spending time with you and all, but this is not working out anymore, sorry"

 

[Sofomore]

Appreciated, I was somewhat sarcastic with the whole telling her about becoming a DJ.

It was more to find out how to break up with a girlfriend just because I want to be single and meet more women.

 

[Scars]

Keep it short and simple. You don't have to explain yourself. Think of all the times a girl just out of nowhere came out at you back in your AFC years with "I'm sorry, but this isn't working. I think we should just be friends." Pull the same crap on her. She won't know what hit her. Either way, you're still going to be the assh0le/bad guy (the guy always is) but shrug it off and roll hard.

Good luck.

-Scars

 

[HoneyLove]

Tell her it isnt working out. You dont owe her an explanation further than that and if she asks warn her shes about to get her feelings hurt..

 

[49au]

Tell her you love her but you're not in love with her. That's their all time favorite BS line.

She'll be yours forever... in case you hit a dry spell and need some ex sex.