The Ultimate Guide to Success with Women

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    Very Discouraged-cant Seem To Find Quality Women

    Violator, I did not see your age nor the age of women you are interested in. I have found huge differences in attitudes in women depending on their ages. Women I’ve met near my age all seem to be thinking marriage immediately. That’s why I have gravitated towards younger women who are more...
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    Maxim Magazine advice on dating and age.

    Trust yourself.
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    How a DJ can be the “Worlds Greatest Dad”.

    I’ve never claimed having kids is 100% wonderful. I’ve written some pretty negative things on how hard it is to have them. But if you have them, what are you gonna do, cut off your d*ck? Deny you ever had them. That’s AFC/PUSS behaviour. A DJ adapts, A DJ learns, a DJ somehow “finds a...
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    How a DJ can be the “Worlds Greatest Dad”.

    Discussing kids on a DJ site does not seem to make much sense. So I expect few responses to this. But I’m willing to bet there are more “mature” men with kids perusing this site than is advertised. I write this because it’s NOT written anywhere else. Being a mature man with kids seems...
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    Mothers who don't want their kids to find someone.

    Ha, Ha, me too. I have one out the door and 3 to go. We are coming full circle on the big wheel. I remember my mother being rather ruthless regarding any woman I brought home, and especially to the two I married (come to think of it she was on the money on the first one). It was a fairly...
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    What Do You Do If Your Into Several?

    The practical reality is it’s very unlikely you will hurt their feelings going for both. I’ve been guilty of overestimating my “amazing” affect on women much to my surprise. LOL They know the game. A little competition is not bad either. If you are worried about their feelings now...
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    starting to feel better 2 mos post-breakup

    Hurts but true. The real healing begins when you look back and see how this happened and make plans to change it in the future. Because that classic statement is so true: Those that do not learn from history are doomed to repeat it. If you follow Rollo T’s plate theory and get several...
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    My buddy's wife's showed me her pu$$y...would you hit it?

    Ah, the future of human personal interaction. Dude, its more than just hitting it; you have stumbled upon my view of the way the future should be. Open relationships, no hangups, no fears, no jealousy (hopefully). NIRVANA! Ok, ok, a little qualifier, however. In MY nirvana the...
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    I am going to propose!!

    I think as a token of your love and devotion you should give all your possessions to her and sign a prenup where she owns 100% of everything and makes all the financial decisions. Also its very important that you give up all your friends because, surely, she’s the only thing you need...
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    At what age is all hope lost?

    I was going to write up some giant response trying to answer your question here and give all kinds of perspective from a “mature man” viewpoint. But after thinking about it I realized this perspective is irrelevant. You talked about having trouble getting past a rejection by a young woman...
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    At what age is all hope lost?

    You know, I’ve posted stuff on the younger women I’ve been with on here and basically I’m called just a flat out boasting liar. I know it’s not cool to brag and usually it means you are insecure, but I’m guessing too it’s because many just don’t believe its real for someone my age to be...
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    When can you stop "running game" and relax?

    And when you stop trying to grasp the pebble you will find it in your hand effortlessly.
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    Translation from the veterans

    I guess you missed the VERY FIRST STATEMENT in the VERY FIRST STEP of the DJ Bible by good ole Craig Reeves. So, I’ll help you out and copy it here: Most commonly asked newbie questions answered right here! ________________________________________ I have spanned these forums in...
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    Quality Women Found!

    Man O Man, do not get me started on this topic. Since I am 4.8 billion years old I have a little history under my belt. Several lives ago I worked in a home for kids ran by a church. The other churches of the same denomination in the region would send kids for a variety of reasons, homeless...
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    Do you have a moral obligation to hit on women?

    In this spirit we should incorporate SoSuave as a charitable organization. We could even have our own commercial that opens with two chicks at a bar complaining about the boring losers that hit on them or their pathetic boyfriends that call them 10 times a day. Then the announcer breaks...
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    You know what the hardest thing about chasing women when you get older?

    I know exactly what you mean when you use the word “chase” but it sets the wrong tone. I was a married AFC for years and bizarrely enough I learned a few things from women THEN that help me now. More than a few shared they really had a serious fear, almost a phobia, of being alone. I’m...
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    distilling pleasure from refusal

    Are you Andy Milonakis?
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    not doing so hot 1 month after breakup

    Have you ever read or seen any of those stories on people who get trapped in cults? Their families try to get them out but they won’t budge because they’ve been so thoroughly brainwashed that they can’t possibly conceive being happy out of the cult. They have no individuated personality outside...
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    For LTR, when do you say 'I love you?'

    I’m sure we’ve all had chicks say it to us after a week or something. I remember thinking, like WTF, “…do you realize I have not even changed my underwear the entire time I’ve known you”. Any overused phrase essentially becomes meaningless. The only time WE should say it is only AFTER...
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    Pair of shoes

    Thanks. They were damn fine looking shoes too. I don’t think I can go barefoot yet after ditching those. I'm working on it.
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