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    Cheating, and why I'll do it next time around

    I’m an advocate of living it rather than spewing it in words. I’ll explain. If you want to really open your eyes then I suggest that as you begin to spin your plates you do not rule them out if they have a ring or bf. You will be shocked at how easily they justify and rationalized their...
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    Ahhh, how cute, your first porn....

    Linda Evans in the Big Valley. Have to think her husband, John Derek, had to be a pretty suave dude considering his last three wives were Ursula Andress, Linda Evans, and Bo Derek.
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    Might have a sticky situation on the horizon(long)...mature and serious input welcome

    Remember I told you once: “A man convinced against his will remains of the same opinion still….” You do what most do, including myself occasionally: you have a pretty good idea what you are going to do anyway and you throw it out their just to see if anyone has some strong and clear argument...
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    Might have a sticky situation on the horizon(long)...mature and serious input welcome

    What BLP says rings true (and you already know it). Wyldfire, you seem to be a very helpful person. Helper mentality. I worked in that field for 14 years. I know that personality type dead bang cold. Not a damn thing wrong with it, except, many I have seen are one half of a toxic co-dependent...
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    Cold approach lets talk about it.

    The true beauty of the cold approach is no fallout after it ends. No friends to ask ‘what happened”, don’t have to bump into her on the job or any place you go to frequently. You appreciate it more after you go through a few women at places you frequent and you begin to realize you are...
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    Mystery, Strauss, etc.

    Of course they are accurate insomuch as every man finds his own way. Some naively believe theirs is the only way and others, such as these, see their way as a means to a paycheck. They are just signposts pointing the way. You have to hack your own path.
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    You really don’t have to be all that Suave

    Again, I’m not disagreeing with you. I see your point would be something like; a batter knows he’s facing a fast ball throwing pitcher the next night. So before he takes batting practice he watches some film of that pitcher and takes practice from a fast-baller. But, if he spent 90% of...
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    Cold approach lets talk about it.

    Very simply: do it a lot and pay attention to what works. Don’t get sidetracked by technique or method. You will find your own method and it will be the right one.
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    You really don’t have to be all that Suave

    You’ll get no argument from me on this. But we are talking apples and oranges. I’m talking about that invisible barrier many have up that keeps them from that initial step, that critical step. I’m referring to those guys who seem to feel they are always about 2 seconds too late with a witty...
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    Field approaches forum?

    I can understand that, since almost no one responded to this one. If nobody wants it, no use in having it. I can imagine there were lots of posts that were flagrant fabrications. And then the incessant flaming began. I certainly don’t want to consider the alternative: that so few are...
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    Field approaches forum?

    I guess it’s a bit of a catch 22: REAL DJ’s don’t brag, and posting successful approaches seems like bragging. As lookyoung states, you get the sh*t flamed out of you if you post anything that sounds the least bit implausible. Since I post mainly in the mature section my point of...
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    Field approaches forum?

    It’s quite a commentary that you have received no replies to this. I’ve beat the drum about how important it is to approach, to continue approaching, and never ever stop. LOL, the IOI’s for an approach forum are non-existent. Guess its too easy for most to hang by the ole keyboard and...
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    You really don’t have to be all that Suave

    Most threads on this forum do focus on those next steps, fvcking them, then keeping them around, then, obviously, the problems encountered with those. But once you dig into the underlying problem of many of those threads you see they either stopped approaching, are dating serially, or are...
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    You really don’t have to be all that Suave

    Besides the fact that a disturbingly large number of guys are actually as scared as little girls of cold approaching beautiful women, the other secret I have recently discovered is: You can basically suck as a DJ and still get digits from women. Anybody else notice this? Almost 100% of...
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    How do you figure out your path in life?

    Remember that whatever you choose it is very likely that in 5 years you will be doing something different. Your graduation date is nothing more than a jumping off point from which you can go in almost any direction. Remember, you are selecting only your FIRST career. It is completely...
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    I love this scene

    An approach, in which a stranger, who happens to be a beautiful woman, is engaged in such a way as to enamor her to you to the extent that she will seek you out to share in the joy of expressing one of the most beautiful pleasures our bodies are capable of, can never be thought of as anything...
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    Dealing with flaky chicks you DON'T want a relationship with

    Although she sounds like a bit of a dim bulb, she sensed your pursuit and higher IL. The lure of kinky lesbian fun rose your IL. I’m glad you posted the follow-up because I think we all deal with this so often. And, more importantly, and unfortunately, you will be hearing from and about her...
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    Why do you do what you do?

    Wow this has really morphed into a “meaning of life” thread. All these posts are great. And they’re all different. Hum. Interesting. Oh, the meaning of life for me is raking leaves. Yep, that’s it for today. It might be different tomorrow, but I don’t know what that will be yet, nor do I...
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    Dealing with flaky chicks you DON'T want a relationship with

    NOW you tell us there is lesbionic potential. The lesbo/kink factor changes the equation. You are now an explorer conducting an experiment. You are not some nube that will be surprised or upset if it blows up. It’s just an experiment. But, I hope you have a backup woman.
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    Getting insecure about my age

    Aging is a myth told by fat lazy boring people to make themselves feel better.
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