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    Pair of shoes

    A couple months ago I ordered a pair of shoes I thought I would like. Been wearing them a while and the left one chafes my ankle and the right one was causing my Achilles to hurt. I can’t return them and get my money back, there’s actually nothing wrong with them, they just don’t fit...
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    Bad idea to send letter??

    I stopped writing my thoughts to women in letters and emails because, maybe this is just me, but exactly 100% of the time nothing good came of it. Others can go into long involved explanations as to why this is bad. I’m just relating my actual experience.
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    Causes of Oneitis

    Are you nuts? Give out THAT secret to a girl? LOL That secret is staring you in the face (only in reverse) all over this board. Think about it, where do you think some of the basic tenets of DJism came from? Who is it that learns to be mysterious, unpredictable, “play hard to get” and be...
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    Oneitis and the DJ

    “Oneitis” and AFCism really are forms of mental illness. I mean, sh*t any mental state responsible for so much anguish should be recognized. I’ve even got the codes: Axis II 301.9 Personality Disorder NOS, with V62.81 Relational Problem NOS. Oneitis should be subtended as V62.83 and AFCism...
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    Anyone running Windows Vista?

    Vista is inevitable, we may as well suck it up. I have flip-flopped from every Linux distribution that exists and I now dual boot Fedora and XP on most of my machines. Although I’m a Linux snob, there are still things I have to use Windohs for. If your getting a new one the machine will...
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    I'm thinking about a workplace fling

    Good. Now, she's going to need a shoulder to cry on and some good career advice. You'll need to go over to her place to help her with her resume.
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    Please check your victim hat at the SoSuave door.

    Following up on “Victim Mentality” Here are some examples I see frequently and the truth: Victim: All women are b*tches/wh*res/slvts. Truth: You have not figured them out yet and it pisses you off. Victim: That b*tch won’t give me the time of day. Truth: You’re boring. Victim...
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    Please check your victim hat at the SoSuave door.

    I think we are just defining “Victim” differently. Perhaps I should be more specific: I’m referring to “Victim Mentality”. A victim mentality is one where it is always someone else's fault for bad things happening to you. Further than this, it can be an expectation that things will go...
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    Please check your victim hat at the SoSuave door.

    If you are on this site then you must now accept full responsibility for your life. This means you can no longer blame your AFC father, AFC society, controlling/domineering mother, Feminized society, the “Matrix”, or any other convenient scapegoat for what you are, who you are, and your...
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    What is a Father?

    Um, between my four kids I have 55 years of parental experience. And damn strait I am their only parent. Rollo!, did you go visit the matrix and rip this quote from one of the PhilDonahuest squishy, cuddly, sugary-sweet, brain-washing text books in there? This is a highly idealized vision...
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    I'm thinking about a workplace fling

    I have gotten good advice here on the same topic. It was a pretty unanimous “Don’t dip you pen in the company inc..”. It’s good generic advice but every case is different. I did not listen to that advice on going forward with a romance and it has not been a disaster, but, there are problems...
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    Ahhhhhh!!, ****! Complicated situation

    As jokerr31 says, sh*t test(s). Yep, plural, 2 of ‘em. The odd/cold greeting at the door, and, of course the flake-out in the bed. Hindsight being 20/20 you could/should have called her on the cold greeting. But that’s just nitpicking. Truth is this girl seems to have some issues/barriers/is...
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    Are you paying for your AFC past?

    The old saying, “You can pick your friends but not your relatives” applies. My parents are both long dead. I had, what you would call a “memorandum of understanding” with my parents. It quite literally was a set of rules I went by that kept them at arm’s length away, and not in my business...
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    Help!!!!

    What MBS says. Any other thoughts may have lots of ********* in them.
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    Instant Advice Please!!

    Whoa everybody. Did i miss an episode? There is nothing to forgive, nothing to forget, and no one to NEXT. This is a NON-event and certainly nothing to spend 5 min thinking about. This is part of the game, if you next every woman that flakes, well, you're gonna spend a lot of time...
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    Instant Advice Please!!

    What V said. Also, don't let it stop you from chatting up anyone worthwhile even while waiting. Even if you are talking to a hottie when she shows it only increases your value.
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    Amorality

    Welcome to the all-you-can-eat smörgåsbord where choosing which goodies you like is the hardest part. Dig in.
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    The Capt. Save-a-ho Inclination

    I chose learned as that’s been my experience. I differentiate between helping a woman and rescuing a woman. Once you assume the role of rescuer you remain in that role forever as no one can be rescued. Think Sisyphus, pushing that fvcking rock up the hill only to have it fall down...
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    Amorality

    I am responding to the “as you mature…” part of this thread. When I was younger I relied on, needed guidance. In a very real sense I needed to be told what to do, how to think, hell, how even to BE. As I have gotten older (I’m not saying “mature”), I gradually began to see the veils fall...
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    DJ Alpha Male PERSONIFIED!

    Haha: everybody knows the chicks get paid 30K a year by Allen to post here. Right WF? The most users ever online was the night Oblivious and Latinoman got in a fight on 11-15-06 (uhm, Oblivious is the girl).
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