For the past year I have been working with the government as a public official and it's been the most serious and most difficult position I have ever held. Through much hard work and much struggle, I have nailed down my position and do a prodigious performance. In just two weeks I become a permanent employee and so my job security will be locked in for decades as it's civil service.
Back before I commenced this career position, my attitude was that sexual relations with coworkers was okay—no hard feelings on your wallet if things went sour. I never had any, although I could have. However, even when I was in training for this current position, I knew the office was changing both in demographics and the gravity of repercussions. I was entering a concrete jungle whereby I'm the only young unattached bachelor in an office of mostly UFOs—ugly, fat, and old women. Since no one wants career damage, I knew if I found a lady hot enough that I wanted to "tap", I better be damn sure. Consequently, during this past year I have sworn off ladies. Of course, work becomes life. Swearing off the ladies at work has also meant largely swearing off meeting any ladies, which is fine with me because my largest priority in life is career.
With all that said...
There's a new girl at work who by all apparent facades has me in hot pursuit. She's gorgeous, has a killer ass, and I'm guessing she is in her early thirties. She doesn't wear any rings, which is a godsend. She's thin, too, which would suggest against motherhood. I can tell by her personality that somewhere inside her is definitely freaky, although I don't know what. She makes excuses to talk to me but only as thinly veiled as do men and the look on her face whenever we make contact... priceless.
This thread is not a question of what I should do, because we all know what I'm bent on accomplishing. I'm almost permanent, it's a difficult job with high turnover, I'm in a different unit, she's hot as f*ck... I say bring it on. If something goes awry, all the stress involved with the job would combine with any interpersonal drama and would leave her packing.
The question is the pending fling necessarily dumb? It seems to me I'm in a sweet position. It's not against office policy and contact is minimal. She told me that every day she feels like she might get fired, which is normal thinking for newbies but might also be what's driving her to expedite herself. Usually it's a bad idea to involve pleasure with work but in this case caution is being tossed to the wind.
Back before I commenced this career position, my attitude was that sexual relations with coworkers was okay—no hard feelings on your wallet if things went sour. I never had any, although I could have. However, even when I was in training for this current position, I knew the office was changing both in demographics and the gravity of repercussions. I was entering a concrete jungle whereby I'm the only young unattached bachelor in an office of mostly UFOs—ugly, fat, and old women. Since no one wants career damage, I knew if I found a lady hot enough that I wanted to "tap", I better be damn sure. Consequently, during this past year I have sworn off ladies. Of course, work becomes life. Swearing off the ladies at work has also meant largely swearing off meeting any ladies, which is fine with me because my largest priority in life is career.
With all that said...
There's a new girl at work who by all apparent facades has me in hot pursuit. She's gorgeous, has a killer ass, and I'm guessing she is in her early thirties. She doesn't wear any rings, which is a godsend. She's thin, too, which would suggest against motherhood. I can tell by her personality that somewhere inside her is definitely freaky, although I don't know what. She makes excuses to talk to me but only as thinly veiled as do men and the look on her face whenever we make contact... priceless.
This thread is not a question of what I should do, because we all know what I'm bent on accomplishing. I'm almost permanent, it's a difficult job with high turnover, I'm in a different unit, she's hot as f*ck... I say bring it on. If something goes awry, all the stress involved with the job would combine with any interpersonal drama and would leave her packing.
The question is the pending fling necessarily dumb? It seems to me I'm in a sweet position. It's not against office policy and contact is minimal. She told me that every day she feels like she might get fired, which is normal thinking for newbies but might also be what's driving her to expedite herself. Usually it's a bad idea to involve pleasure with work but in this case caution is being tossed to the wind.
