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    Is this a good thing or a bad thing to hear?

    Ironic you should say this because that's exactly what just happened and I lost her when I basically said "sorry, I'm not ready to be exclusive with anyone right now..."
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    I think I've become afraid to have sex..help appreciated

    You sound a little bit like me man...although I haven't had to go through a big weight-loss period or anything really tough that could be a major confidence issue. Anyways like you I've pretty much done everything you can with a chick while still being "technically" a virgin. First, second...
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    is it ever useful to text?

    I like to text girls ****y/funny/flirty stuff...i.e. it has to have a some kind of purpose...I CANNOT stand chicks who are constantly sending me the most irrelevant things ever like "Ugh I wish class was over" or "I'm watching TV lol". Like the above poster said...I like to let girls initiate...
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    What is the most AFC thing you have done for a woman?

    Spent a summer living two states away and towards the end of it met an HB9 who was a couple years older than me (she also had a kid, lol). Anyways the day before I got in the car to drive 10 hours home I wrote her a long hand-written letter telling her how she was the best part of my summer and...
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    Is this a good thing or a bad thing to hear?

    One of the girls I've been seeing lately says things like this a lot (mostly via text) : "You're impossible to figure out" "You're so confusing" "Has anyone ever told you you're extremely frustrating?" I think the reason she's saying things like this is because I am trying to dodge...
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    A problem I thought I'd never have...

    Basically I've taken the forum's advice and started actively pursuing girls (or plates, whatever) while already having one in the fold. My situation is essentially this: Girl A (HB 6.5-7ish): Met her at a party...she is several years younger than me and very busy with work/school...is actually...
  7. J

    How to deal with a pregnant girl

    I really hope this is a troll topic
  8. J

    Ditched a HB

    Man, girls are so fickle these days. The one I was semi-hooking up with this summer was pretty addicted to her Droid phone...lots of guys were always texting her, trying to get her to hang out, etc. - this DOES sound like a red flag, but sadly I think this is the norm with most girls that are...
  9. J

    What do you guys do for a living?

    My official major was "Communication Studies" - pretty broad, I know, but I feel like I'm qualified to do a lot of stuff in terms of Media, PR, and especially journalism. This summer I was a live-in beat reporter with a minor league baseball team in Pennsylvania - awesome experience (getting...
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    What do you guys do for a living?

    Thanks for the responses folks... and Fuglydude I appreciate the Canadian hospitality! I only live a couple hours from Toronto - definitely a neat area, but I've never come anywhere close to the Alberta sector! It IS pretty sad to admit that I'm on pace to make about 10k/year with my current...
  11. J

    What do you guys do for a living?

    I ask this because I'm just curious what other fellas out there are doing to bring in the $$$ In May, I graduated from a tough four-year college known for stringent academics, great job placement rates, etc. I followed it with an amazing internship this summer - unfortunately the internship...
  12. J

    The club is a terrible place to meet women for me.

    I know what you mean...add into the fact that most clubs are 3:1 guys-girls in ratio, it's just not a fun venue. The best night's I've had there is when I go out with a big group of people, because then you at least have a few fallback options for dancing/chilling/leaving with others.
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    Sausage Fests: Why You Can't Avoid 'Em

    I actually graduated from school in the Pittsburgh area (but am from Upstate NY). This summer I did an internship in Williamsport PA, which is pretty different area than what I experienced in Western PA. So now I'm back in NY but looking into moving to Pittsburgh where I have some family as...
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    Sausage Fests: Why You Can't Avoid 'Em

    Kerpal, I'm right there with you man - my college experience was similar, and the job searching thing too. I just graduated in May, and after completing a really cool internship in a different city, I've had to move back in with my parents and am now completely jobless. Obviously I'm shooting...
  15. J

    FWB acting.. Different...

    This is great advice - I was drawn to this thread because I'm also going through something quite similar (see thread): http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=187389&highlight=summer+fling+ending Anyways, this chick really wasn't anything super-special, but because I pretty much fell...
  16. J

    Sausage Fests: Why You Can't Avoid 'Em

    I went to a gay bar one time (just a dumb college shenanigan with some buddies), and all we saw were flaming gay guys and super butch lesbians. Needless to say we did not linger.
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    Sausage Fests: Why You Can't Avoid 'Em

    Sausage-fests are really the worst, and unfortunately are going to be the norm at almost every party, bar, and club you go to (at least from what I've seen in the US). I'm not sure if it's a male over-population issue as much as it is a problem of attractiveness. So many girls these days are...
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    Another thread about losing the v-card

    Hey folks, Been reading a lot of threads related to this lately, and just wanted to throw some thoughts down here since I think I'm basically in a good position to finally lose the ole' v-card... My basic back-story is that I was born & raised in an extremely conservative Christian home...
  19. J

    “I have a boyfriend” …How to respond

    My favorite line, assuming this is a new girl: Her: "I have a boyfriend." You: "Woah, woah we just met and you're already telling me about your problems?" With a sly grin of course.
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