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    A mistake most guys do

    I'm majorly guilty of this one...I get wayy too outcome-dependent on my interactions with them, so of course I start acting goofy and try way too hard to entertain.
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    How do you start spinning plates

    I don't think starting with the DJ Bible is a bad idea at all...it's not like the guy's gonna instantly jump away from his computer and into the downtown nightclub because one poster convinced him. The OP is probably like a lot of the readers on here...lonely guys who spend most of their free...
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    How dangerous is it to receive unprotected oral?

    Yup, and I figured after 4 months I would have had a symptom by now...plus she's really a good girl and I feel like she would definitely have told me if she'd found out something and wanted me to get checked.
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    How dangerous is it to receive unprotected oral?

    Hey guys, Just looking for a few insights here since I can't get a resounding yes/no on Google. Basically, I had never gotten past second base in my life until last December, when I was fooling around with a girl that went down on me for a couple seconds. Now, I didn't realize until...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Are there any pages/posters in this thread dealing with the guy going NC after HE did the dumping? I need help. I met this chick and she was probably the coolest girl ever...literally would have done anything for me. The problem was that our relationship became long-distance and we started...
  6. J

    Girls keep thinking I'm gay

    My most recent major fling told me she thought I was gay at first, simply because I was so genuine and nice and not a major tool/douchebag like most of the guys she knew.
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    Would you lose your virginity ?

    OP I'm kinda with you...I'm 23 and am still a virgin. But the kicker is I'm a virgin by choice. I had the opportunity to bang two different girls over the last 6 months, but in each instance I pulled back at the last second and didn't actually go the distance. These were both girls I would rate...
  8. J

    Women/girls use sex toys..why shouldn't we whack off?

    The last girl I came close to dating admitted that she pleasures herself almost every night, and often uses porn to do so. Not something I realized girls were into!
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    It's ending...and for the first time, I'm the one ending it...

    Fellas I feel awful about this one, but I need reassurance. Backstory: Met a girl at home (Western NY), we fell pretty hard and fast for each other...I got one-itis even though I had another plate...let that one fall to the wayside. In the midst of all this, I got an offer for a very...
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    Someone please tell me I did the right thing...LDR issue

    Thanks...I know I have to stay here with this job...it could lead to a really cool career...otherwise I'm home living with my parents until who-knows-when? I have asked her if we can bide our time and try to take a step back...but she is freaking out and accusing me of just needing any excuse I...
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    Someone please tell me I did the right thing...LDR issue

    Hey fellas... So I've had a pretty tumultuous initiation to a LDR that I am in the process of ending...I think. I've made a couple threads about this girl before...backstory is we met at home about three months ago and got pretty close...never *official* but absolutely wild about each other...
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    Is this consistent with possible BPD?

    Yeah I'm not really sure...we've been hanging out/hooking up since November...at the time I was spinning another plate but that one has kinda fallen to the wayside. The issue now is that I moved out-of-state so now our talks are all long-distance. All signs point to me needing to cut and run but...
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    Is this consistent with possible BPD?

    Hey guys, So I've seen a number of threads with other fellas suffering from dealing with chicks who are BPD...admittedly I didn't think much of it because I had never really experienced a girl who had those issues. Until now (maybe). Anyways, this one girl I've gotten somewhat close to is...
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    I'm getting AFC...someone remind me that all will be well...

    Thanks for the support guys. Last night this girl pretty much confessed her undying love for me...exactly what I didn't need to hear the night before I set out for my long trip. She got a little upset when I didn't reciprocate word-for-word, so it just spiraled into another long useless text...
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    I'm getting AFC...someone remind me that all will be well...

    Fellas, I need a splash of cold water across the face here... Basically over the last three months I've been back living at home with my parents and working a couple of dead-end jobs while I tried to figure out how to put my college degree to actual use. Finally after all that time I just...
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    When your plates are gettin' blown up by exes all the time...

    Does anyone else think is really obnoxious? Two of the last three girls I've been seeing have constantly been getting calls and texts from ex boyfriends (sometimes more than one) during our hang-out sessions. In courtesy to me, they hardly ever reply (usually just to say they're busy and can't...
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    Delete that Facebook.

    I am not in love with Facebook...but I'm not willing to delete it just because I think it's hurting my chances with women. For me it's a matter of priorities - if I delete because I think it's holding back my game, that's not fair to the many friends and family I have all across the country who...
  18. J

    Been balling my eyes out the last few hours..

    LMAO...not to hijack the thread but I've always wondered why my dad almost keels over when I come home saying I was just out "ballin" (as in basketball).
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    Is this a good thing or a bad thing to hear?

    Well thanks for the advice again folks. She's been sending me a lot of long texts trying to figure out what the heck I've been thinking/trying to get out of this. I've tried to stay kind-of vague but I can tell she's seeing through the BS. Basically it seems like she keeps saying "whatever...I'm...
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    Is this a good thing or a bad thing to hear?

    Thanks for the input guys. Basically this chick has been texting me a lot since initially saying like "well it's been real, cya around" in a this-is-over kind of tone. Now she's coming back and saying things like "I'm just confused...I really liked you a lot...and you kissed me and initiated...
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