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Ahhh - Titus, I would love to see your 5 year plan. Perhaps we can all work in the field together and drink are fill of vodka after :D Yes you are right - dreams - but dreams of what? You say of improving of getting better - you imply the impossible life.... I say not. I say the...

Slickster - of all the people on this site - I can always know that you will bring us crashing down to earth with a bump - ;) I'm not saying all marrage is bad - but my point is to rant about what's out there for us, should we not follow the DJ path - and my belief is, that we will all...

Ex F'ing xctly... Here here.... Women want their cake and they want to eat it.... Whoose left picking up the pieces? Who paying the bills? taking the risks? reponsibility? And the biggest of all - whoose sacrificing their life for all of this? Yes, it's the man. We give up everything...

I'm sitting at work today - and I just received a mass email.... It goes something like this: "We all want to congragulate XXXXX XXXXX on becomming a new daddy. little XXXXX XXXXX weighed in at..... etc" I'm sitting here and I relaize that throughout my life - through every media...

People are taking this stuff to literally. Read it, take it in, understand - but like any other Text book stuff - the application can be a lot different. You need to keep these things in mind - but ultimately every situation with a woman is different. Take a break if you need to - hell...

Nature... Wait a minute - have you read the bible? If you haven't I suggest you do it. I would consider myself one of the older guys here - but what I get out of the DJ Bible - is how to improve myself. Thats what this site is mainly about. It's basically about improving oneself so...

Use her if you need to. You probably won't enjoy your time very much though (especially since you said he poersonality sucked)... Let me tell you what happened here. Split up with my LTR - and met a girl in a bar. I was a little drunk at the time, but whatever - got her number closed...

You've answered your own question.... Keep her in mind - as you get to know her, you may find out things will change. I'm sure there are other chicks you'll meet there.

Give me a break.... This is obviously a F'd up relationshiop - she's cheated on you - your dating other people..... Sounds like a great realtionship. Your right, why do you care? In fact it sounds like you don't.... Let her go, she can Fvck someone from work and you can go out and date.

I think people do settle - without a doubt. But there are several things here to note. Perhaps in some areas the woman settles - for example, perhaps one of her ex's had a bigger D@ck - or performed oral sex better - or made more money - had big arms etc etc. Does that mean she's really...

Perhaps we should agree to disagree.... I just don't think caring goes away. It maybe out of your thoughts - which is fine - but all I'm saying is that you will still care - it just been put away in the back of your mind. I think the proces of moving on entails not thinking about your ex...

What in particular are you talking about? Major character flaws? or some minor things? Yes, people change - every experience changes us - it makes us who we are. But changing basic character attributes? I think it's possible but unlikely.

then you were never really in love....

If you have to change someone she's not for you. Why change someone. Let them be themselves. You either except them for who they are or not.

We are talking about CARING - bot forgetting about someone. For sure, there are techniques that can be used to foget about someone - to get that someone out of your mind - but does it change the fact that you care about them... no. Example - you use a technique to gorget about your ex...

You don't stop caring - not initially. We are human beings - and just can't swtich of caring about someone. It's in our nature - and it's probably what attracted her to him in the first place. To tell him not to care is ridiculous. I don't deny that some people can just swtich off this...

I can understand where he is coming from on this. I'm not saying she's upto anything - and every relationship is different. But you've described 2 times where she's been a little fishy with you. 1 - working away and wanting to see the sights where she has an guyfreind - and 2 - wanting...

The best indication of the future is the past.... Unless you both change your expectations and attitudes you will have suceeded in only putting off the inevitable

I'd pick her up. Be a challenge for sure - but there's nothing wrong with you picking her up. You like her - so make it a good day for her. I don't look at you picking a chick up for a date as AFC.

My advice.... Don't ask her if you can go to the party - thats AFC big time. Play it cool - and she MAY invite you if you have a fun time. But I would say that the chances are she will not - because she may not feel comfortable with the situation - she may be concerned of your reputation -...