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    4.5 Yrs down the toilet....

    part of the reason. Yes, thats part of the reason. She's hot. I mean just drop dead hot. But she does not act like it. She has a down to earth personality - and is very opproachable. Her body was made for me. Sounds sad I know, but we were so compatiple in bed. I enjoy dominating and...
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    4.5 Yrs down the toilet....

    Damn... Eyecandie - talking of hitting the nail on the head..... Well, she's certainly not the same person that I originally meet. There was no falling asleep at 9 - 10pm on the sofa, and me carrying her to bed - 4 - 5 times a week. she would drive down to my apartment at midnight - and...
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    4.5 Yrs down the toilet....

    ??? What do you mean Eyecandie? Are you saying that she is the way she is because I was in her life? Or some other influence? I will understand where she is coming from? You mean smoking MJ? Or wanting marrage? For sure, afterwards I can see that there needs to be goals - needs to be a...
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    4.5 Yrs down the toilet....

    The problem... dionysius_d - you are right - not my whole life is down the toilet, but the relationship is. She opened my eyes to some wonderful things - Like 100% trust - to trust someone with everything. She showed my how to live and enjoy and not be so conservative in what I do...
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    i cant stop - any advice and tips to cut the habit?

    What the F? Pulling the Poker is the Sh#t.... Don't get me wrong, sex is great, but you just can't beat the real thing :D I just got DSL - ****, Sunday afternoon I was downloading p#rn, jerking off for like 3 hours the first time, then 1 hour the second. Felt great - b#lls aching like hell...
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    4.5 Yrs down the toilet....

    My Date Ok.... just come back from my first date since the breakup. First one in 4.5 yrs actually. I think it went pretty well. She's 9 yrs younger than me - and to be honest I'm not that attracted to her. But we had some real good convo - and it was good to hang out with a chick - kind...
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    Booty calls

    Starman... Starman,...... You a funny Fvcker for sure. I like your style.
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    Dilemma...she left a message cancelling tonight, but she made a counter...accept?

    wait a minute.... There's more to it than that..... Listen, why are you getting upset over this? AFC's get upset over these kind of things.... not you. Everything comes to those who have the patience. You would NEXT this chick because she's got to reschedule? Thats not the confident guy...
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    Dilemma...she left a message cancelling tonight, but she made a counter...accept?

    Thoughts There are probably others here who can answer this better or give you better insight.... My thoughts.... Call her back, but tell her that you have plans for the weekend, and that your not going to be able to make it - but tell her you'd like to go out with her next week - early...
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    4.5 Yrs down the toilet....

    Thats was the best post's I've read... Yes, that was perfect and summed it up ever so well. Quick..... That was some awesome sh*t. Your 100% on the money. #1 is replaceable for sure, and it's just the natural process of losing someone you were close to. That was a great post, one I...
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    4.5 Yrs down the toilet....

    So right... Yes, the more I think on it, the more I believe that the new GF at work had a lot to do with it - although we probably would have been in the same position eventually - it was just the straw that broke the camels back. I'm not going to contact her for sure - she needs to figure...
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    4.5 Yrs down the toilet....

    I agree I agree - It is good to be a man....... But, I think what we as guys need to do, is be happy with ourselves - be happy where we are at. I used to be happy being single - then I meet this wonderful chick. But the fact is, I compromised myself. I changed. I allowed myself to change -...
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    4.5 Yrs down the toilet....

    Where were you all.... Fvck - where were you guys like 5 yrs ago? Man your advice is solid - If I had been on this site a month ago (when we broke up) things would probably be different now. I'm not going to pick up my stuff quite yet - I'm going on the date and having fun. I'm tqaking...
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    4.5 Yrs down the toilet....

    well.... Yes, my stuff would be nice. I've a brand new Cannodale mountain bike - and a couple bottles of good scotch - 18 year old. worth a couple hundered dollars all told. I also have a fridge there in the garage - plus some gifts my mother gave me (I live in a different country than my...
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    4.5 Yrs down the toilet....

    Should I......? Ok - Thanks SLickster.... Question. I'm going on a date tomorrow night - it happens thaty the girl lives in her town (where I used to live) about 30 minutes away. Since I've still got my Bike and a couple bottles of good scotch still at her house (I'm glad I didn't...
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    4.5 Yrs down the toilet....

    So in the meantime.... In the meantime I just go on with life? After 4 yrs we have similar scial circles - mutual friends etc - How do I deal with th eeventual - "She's got another guy" situation. Thats going to be tough. I'm reading the bible right now... trying to get some information...
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    "I'm so lonely i could cry"

    Getting Back I know what the dude is going through... I've been in a similar situation - not to that extent, but feeling alone. I split from my GF after 4.5 yrs - starting all over again. My best advice is not to hold anything back. Read, post messages - pour your sole out, cry, kick...
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    4.5 Yrs down the toilet....

    Jeezzz I know you are all right - and I will cut it off. She still has some of my stuff at her house, but I've not called her in 2 weeks, because I want her to she what it's like without me. She called me yesterday - asking how I was - I gave her the "Everything is going great" speach...
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    4.5 Yrs down the toilet....

    I hear you Thanks for the advice. It's good to know I'm not alone..... I hope that this board and your help will get me back on the wagon so to speak. Should I call her once a week? send her an email? Or should I let her know I'd like to try and work things out. Or should I cut all...
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    4.5 Yrs down the toilet....

    I've been reading the Don Juan emails for about a year now. Going on with my life, living with my girlfriend. Sure, we had problems, and worked through them - but the last 6 months found us pulling away from each other - Sex was less and less - in the end perhaps once every 2 weeks. Then...
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