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    I'm a newbie =), here is my story, comments appreciated

    So then why post? You already know what your going to do - try and get her back and go through this pain again and again..... Drama.... Do you think she is the only girl that smells good? Do you think that she is the only girl that will make you feel good? News flash...
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    Seeing your ex macking someone else.

    Lost Cause... Don't do it... Don't call her, email her or contact her. Don't ask her about it.... If you do, she knows she's got you. Got you bad. I know the feelings your going through - I know you want answers to questions - why and did she see you etc.... But do you think that...
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    She likes both of us?

    Continue to see her and fvck her after this guy has left. But don't be exclusive - so make sure your busy and are dating/banging other women. If your to emotionally attached NEXT her.
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    Too much of a challenge

    Dude.... Your taking the challenge bit a little to far.... Firstly you have to have contact with these girls - talk to them and flirt with them. You must establish attraction with them. If you don't talk to them how can you ever expect to get their numbers? The challenge part comes...
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    Your comments please

    married twice - why did they fail? How old are you? finally trust your gut.
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    Is this AFC behavior or a mark of a true DJ

    Thats fvcking AFC if I ever saw it. i thought you were not interested? make your mind up. By the sound of it you ARE interested - otherwise why this post? who gives a sh#t what she thinks - You should only care about YOU.... don't waste your time thinking about this attention hoe.
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    Cool way to ask for next date?

    I call her on the phone a couple days later... I do this, because I want her to wait it out a little and sweat - and think, is he going to call me or not....
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    How do I date multiple women?

    Honesty, honesty, honesty.... As long as you are honest and upfront with every chick, then there really is no problem. If a woman can't deal with that then you tell her you can't date her. Don't get caught up in the trap of telling these chick's BS lines because you don't want them to...
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    How do i control emotional attachment?

    I like to walk - think about the situation and disect it in my head. I find that by the end of an hour or two walk, I've got my mind squared away and I know what I'm doing...
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    43 year old needs dating advice

    Frank, Where do you live? It sounds like you should hook up with a fellow DJ member for a night out - or multiple nights out. The fact is - and you'd know this if you had read the bible - attitude is everything. Frank - I was a late started - I sucked with women, but now, all that...
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    1 year since i last visit sosuave. I NEED SERIOUS HELP

    Perhaps she just doesn't want to be wrapped up with a guy with a GF? Sure she said she doesn't care, but perhaps she was just saying that. You gotta figure out what you want. Either your GF or this other chick - sometimes you just can't have your cake and eat it to.
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    want to go off on this chick

    Going off on her is just going to let her know that she's got to you. Don't take this sh#t personally - thats one step to becomming a DJ - a better person. She just broke it off with her BF a month ago. How long had they been going out? That should have been a red flag for you. You are...
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    DJING is it really that hard?

    Women are confusing a lot of the time. This web-site is a good place to come and talk/Post with people who have shared similar experiences. I don't think anything here is rocket science, but lot's of guys have probably not thought long and hard about some of these concepts. This is a place...
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    Overanalyzing on this site and my theory.

    That's fvcking golden
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    Met a GREAT new girl, BUT...

    Your not going to get your oral - plain and simple. You've got 2 choices - except or move on. The idea of holding something back from her will not work - thats just going to lead to other issues in your relationship. The fact that she has so many guy friends, and doesn't give you what...
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    Red Flag-o-rama (rant *on*)

    I think it's a blessing in disguise. You now can NEXT these girls easyily and move on to girls that have real interest levels.... Personally, being older and dating woman that are late to early thirties, I find that there are far less games being played. These woman I find are a lot more...
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    I don't understand what I'm still doing wrong

    What makes you different from any other guy there? Why should the chick pick YOU? Just think, would you go after the cool, hip, spice fo the party chic? Or the boring, "Just part of the furniture" type? There are lots of guys out there... This is a tell tale sign:- What the...
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    Seeing your ex macking someone else.

    I here you. I think we've all been there - and no matter how much you feel you've moved on, it still effects you. Be strong brother - even though it's hurting, you can't let her know..... I think what it boils down to is this. Whenever you break up with someone, you want to move on and...
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    Girl Visiting!

    Fvck - I like what you did. Most guys would remain her friend - but you had the balls to call her on it. Now she wants to come down and talk to you about the whole thing. Thats another Attention getter right there.... What's to talk about? I'd tell her you know what's up - there's...
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    Boyfriend - To go out with her or not?

    Slickster... I know it Fvcks with your head. I've seen her in the last 3 weeks - every time I was fine emotionally - and walked away feeling good. I will not lie. I would have jumped her bones in a heart beat - But I'm smart enough to know that any thoughts of that - or any display...
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