want to go off on this chick

[jcl301]

Hello everyone,

I have a girl that I liked at work. We been getting pretty close after she broke up with her boyfriend. That was about a month ago. However, I am really getting pissed off that she been off and on with me. She would warm up to me and then couple days later give me the cold shoulder. Like this weekend, we work and I said hi to her couple times and she totally ignores me. I was what the hell, who the hell does she think she is? I confronted her and I told her. Are you do good to say hi to me now and the answer she gave me is that I was really busy. Which I was, but that one sorry ASS excuse that she came up with. So after I give her S***. She would say bye to everyone and couple times with me. However she says that is going to call me yesterday and she didn't though. Which I predicted it, I even made a bet with my roomates whether she going to call or not. Even if she did, I wasn't going to pickup because I was at Chief's game last night, which was awesome. IS there any chieft's fan out there. Wow did the Bill get their Ass beat last night.

The thing I am asking is that I really want to call her and just give her the a piece of mind because I just want to go off on her. I would love it to do in person, but I think I might lose my cool. But part of me just want to tell this chick to go F*** off and she need is to get a clue and wake up because I am not going to put up with S***.

But she is so hot though, I wouldn't mind get a piece of that A$$ before I tell her to f***. I need your advice fellow DJ's. I am just starting my transition of being from nice guy to real "MAN".

Thanks,
jcl301

 

[Knicknack]

you haven't read the DJ bible. this girl is history. it looks like she friend-zone'd you a long time ago. move on and find other woman. DJs do not let this type of behavior from chicks upset them. the best thing you can do is delete her phone number and just give her a small smile every time you pass her. ignore her and don't say a word to her. just don't let her know you are upset with her.

 

[NewMan]

Going off on her is just going to let her know that she's got to you.

Don't take this sh#t personally - thats one step to becomming a DJ - a better person.

She just broke it off with her BF a month ago. How long had they been going out?

That should have been a red flag for you. You are probably the guy she used to get her mind off of him.

The point is, she probably just doesn't want to get into anything heavy - and it seems that your putting pressure on her. It's probably the last thing she needs right now - she probably just wants it to be fun and light - and have a good time.

Perhaps you should take some step's back and give her space to figure her sh#t out.

 

[jcl301]

so this girl is history, right?

So should I just let go and not say anything to her. Everyone at work said that she likes me and that the moment she break up with boyfriend, she would love to date. I have read the Dj bible maybe not that closely. So am I just going to let her get away with all that. I just want to tell her that she is not the S*** and that she is the one that is missing out on something great here. Now, I just want to get even with her now. So you guys firgure to just let it go. Should just not talk to her anymore even at work, what if when she calls me. Should I not even answer my cell phone.

Thanks,
jcl301