DJING is it really that hard?

[tiburon]

All members,

It is a reality that this site and the theories that we discussed here are becoming like a new kind of science. We have People like Anti -Dump, Pook who seem to give excellent advice but my question to all of you is :

Is DJING really that hard?

Why are we discussing about women so much , why do we come up with so many questions for other members to solve for us, or maybe get their opinions?

Is DJING really that hard?

There is a guy that goes by the name of DOC LOVE that sells a small soft cover bad printed book and two cds for $100 , and like him you have David D'Angelo Double Your Dating and many more who are making a business based on the following:

Woman are uncomprehensibe, but after buying their books they will seem clear to you

They think they got the answers to becoming and being a ladies man.

DOC LOVE says actually that only 2 percent of men are natural to this theories .

I say Doc Love is full of shyt, David Dangelo is also full of it. I am not saying that they are absolutely wrong or that their readings are not helpful , but they sure do not cost a 100 dollars and you could obtain that information and more on your own if you finish reading this post which is FREE.

I dont claim to be a Super DJ and not to have made the mistakes that i criticize today. Life is a learning process and know one was born with knowledge abouth math , English , or woman pshycology. If you checked all post of mine you will see moments were i was weak speacially when i first entered the site and if you read future post of mine i will be wrong in some of them due to the fact that i learn more and more evryday and my perspective change.

Reading never hurts, if you read this post or Doc Love advice, etc..you can pull some good information and realize things that you havent even realized you had been doing wrong. You can also disagree with other things and reasure yourself with your own explanation and until the day someone gives you a better explanation for that theory you will live and act based on those thories you believe are right.

Why are we all here in this website?

My case is that i love woman and like talking about them . Even when i hate them i love them and even when i love them i hate them. I am sure many of you share that feeling . But are we here to get our problems solve?

I believe asking for advice in this websites is the wrong thing to do. I havent had one question or problem in my life that i couldnt answer better than DOc LOVE could. Why? Because neither Doc Love , Pook, Anti Dump, David D'Angelo, nor any other DJ knows my sytuation and even if they did they dont know how i am and what goes in my head. You see like many of you outheres i have made a generalization of all the theroies i agree and the ones i disagree , and based on those i can answer any question that i have in relation to women.

So lets say for one i dont have the answer ? Well maybe i ask advice of my father or a close friend that is well aware of the nature of woman, maybe i email a Dj friend, maybe i post and get 50 stupid responses and 4 that might be valuable. But wait a second how did i determine for those fo our post to be valuable , well very simple based on the generalisations i had made before from analyzing experiences i have had , readings, etc...

I believe most of the people who read the BIBLE should be prepare out there to answer their own questions. If you just post your problems you will never be a DJ because you can't expect others to solve situations for you. Nevertheless a better appoach could be for you to answer your problem by yourself and the write a post that shows your new theory by explainning to others.

So we come back to the question:

Is it really that hard to be a DJ?

Well you need to read ,(including the bible and any other usuful reading)
You need to take action in the real World,
You need Balls,
And You need to learn from your mistakes,

It is simpler than what others make it seem . And yes the science behind all this is also simpler than THE BIBLE and Pook's post, or DOC Love "the System". What does it reduce to ?

You need to figure it out foryourself .....and is ok if you neeed to read 1000 post on the Bible or David Dangelo or Doc Love to figure it out but what counts is that at the end you see that is not complicated but instead Natural and realize that our main problem was that we have been affected by society so much that we dont realize was natural anymore!

Sincerely Tiburon

 

[Slickster]

Like many obstacles in life once you acheive your goal you look back and realize that it wasn't so hard. You wonder why it took so long and so much effort. You try and teach someone else and you think with your insight it should be easier for them. It rarely is. They must go thru the process just like you did. Learn for themselves.

"Well I'm beginning to see the light......" - Lou Reed.


Good post Tiburon.

 

[Starman]

I think if people would STOP being AFC, they are set for life.

Surely you can hone your conversation skills, use techniques, and learn how women THINK to get into their pants.

But more IMPORTANTLY, the transformation from AFC/pushover/nice guy/ass kisser to stepping up and being a MAN is more important than any game.

SO focus on getting rid of your afc behavior, getting some balls to approach and you have won the game.

 

[myfriendblu]

DJ'ing is like swimming - Its not hard once you know how. But if you can't swim, trying to do so without learning first is an impossible task. Just like swimming, some people are better than others. And some are faster learners than others, and are more natural than others. But everyone can learn to swim. DJ'in is like that.

 

[Eyecandie4ya]

That's what I'm talking about

Good post Tiburon.

How many times have we given some good advice to someone else to see them prosper with it, but don't use it ourselves?

This seem natural b/c your taking a look from the outside in.

If we do this with our issues with women, we will see that we are naturally capable of solving it on our own.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

What makes becoming a DJ difficult is that the most important thing about it is the guy and not what he does. Believing that you can be a DJ is the foundation to being able to successfully do the things that Doc Love and David D'Angelo expound more plausible and possible.

Going into it with a with skepticism will immediately put you behind the 8 ball. These skills aren't tricks but a mindset and second guessing them is like second guessing yourself. If that happens, your chance of success will be close to zero.

 

[NewMan]

Women are confusing a lot of the time.

This web-site is a good place to come and talk/Post with people who have shared similar experiences.

I don't think anything here is rocket science, but lot's of guys have probably not thought long and hard about some of these concepts. This is a place to come to read about approaches, Kino - and get ideas from fellow guys of what works and doesn't work.

Most importantly, it's sometimes good to right down thoughts, feeling or problems. writing these down can sometimes help you see clearly - and of course advice of these issues - even if it's sometimes not good - is alos helpful.

It's a brother hood.

 

[Ice Cold]

Yeah, it's simple to make a post like this and claim it's simple.

It's easy to lay some girl, who already likes you. But she won't be the girl of your dreams. She'll be something average.


When you want an extremely nice personality AND beautiful body, it becomes hard. You need mad skills to get that kind of chick. You need to know psych at this point, you need to do the tricks and you need to understand the girl.

When you want to be able to approach everywhere to that HB10, when you want to attract her everywhere...

This is where it get extremely complicated.

But hey, that's just me and I could be wrong...

I bet you lay 10 looks/10 personality chicks all the time. If you're ever in the Toronto area, PM me and we'll go sarge. I'll be glad to learn a thing or two. I'm serious.

 

[So pimp its scary]

Originally posted by tiburon
All members,

It is a reality that this site and the theories that we discussed here are becoming like a new kind of science. We have People like Anti -Dump, Pook who seem to give excellent advice but my question to all of you is :

Is DJING really that hard?
No. Djing in itself is not hard... it is a skill. The first day on the job, is it hard? Yes it is, that is because you don't know how everything works. Same here... you don't have the skills needed to make women come your way. It is possible to learn the skills and the attitude needed to become an effective seducer, but it is not something that many people come across naturally.


Why are we discussing about women so much , why do we come up with so many questions for other members to solve for us, or maybe get their opinions?
Because talking about game is a great way to learn how to spit game. That is the one thing that I wager we all have in common, and that is a desire to please a woman (or women ). And by coming here repeatedly (on top of real world experience) we can learn how to better please women... (that is an amazing feeling having a woman ask : "What is your flaw? Because I really can't see it... you seem perfect in every way, your attitude, you kiss well, your good at sex... there must be something wrong with you!"

Is DJING really that hard?
FUUUUUCK NOO! It comes down to learning how to become a great person through and through... You must become the master of your domain. Once you fix yourself then you are already better then the vast majority of the population that just sits there and hopes things get better.


I dont claim to be a Super DJ and not to have made the mistakes that i criticize today. Life is a learning process and know one was born with knowledge abouth math , English , or woman pshycology. If you checked all post of mine you will see moments were i was weak speacially when i first entered the site and if you read future post of mine i will be wrong in some of them due to the fact that i learn more and more evryday and my perspective change.

I don't claim to be a super DJ either, but every day I try to improve myself by even 1%... What you say is a truth for everyone... and if there were no times where you became weak then you wouldn't be human. 'Every setback has within it the key to a greater reward.'


Why are we all here in this website?
I don't know why alot of people are here, but at first I came to help myself out, but now that I have learned game... I don't really need to be reading most of the info on this site... rather, I come to try to help others in their situations, because my helping others helps me help myself. Smple as that. I really feel sorry for the people that come here looking at all this great information that just don't do anything about it.

My case is that i love woman and like talking about them . Even when i hate them i love them and even when i love them i hate them. I am sure many of you share that feeling . But are we here to get our problems solve?

I feel you brother. Everyone has problems all the time... the only time that you will never have problems is when you are dead. Problems are a good thing... now, it is also good that when you have problems, to have people that you can talk to about your problems. To help reduce or even solve the current challenge that you are facing.


So lets say for one i dont have the answer ? Well maybe i ask advice of my father or a close friend that is well aware of the nature of woman, maybe i email a Dj friend, maybe i post and get 50 stupid responses and 4 that might be valuable. But wait a second how did i determine for those fo our post to be valuable , well very simple based on the generalisations i had made before from analyzing experiences i have had , readings, etc...

I believe most of the people who read the BIBLE should be prepare out there to answer their own questions. If you just post your problems you will never be a DJ because you can't expect others to solve situations for you. Nevertheless a better appoach could be for you to answer your problem by yourself and the write a post that shows your new theory by explainning to others.

How can you tell which responses are good and which ones are bad? If you read the bible, and have some experience under your belt, you can usually tell which advice to follow. The important thing to know is that when you do follow someones bad advice is that you can learn from that, and try to figure out where you went wrong. Eventually you will develop your own style of things. And that is good.

Good post btw.

 

[THA REALNESS]

Men come to sites like this to confirm what we feel about women. Be honest we all sort of knew Women are *****es and we all sort of knew what we had to do to get girls,we just didn't want to beleive it .

And no DJing is not hard .... i mean all you need is turntables.