She likes both of us?

[Legend]

Well to make a long story short this girl i am or was seeing is getting together with some other guy she likes tomorrow. He lives in Cali. and is only going to be here for 4 days (thursday to Monday). This is really bothering me because i know what is going to happen. He is a marine and is getting out fully in a year. She was talking on the phone to me last night and was like "my man is coming home". That comment pissed me off and i told her i gotta go.

I guess things are'nt go so well after all, because if they were she would'nt want to see him. Anyway my question is the other day she said i was acting weird, how the fvck can i act when the girl i care about is going to be seeing other dude? I just blow that comment off and tried to act like nothing is wrong.

Inside it's fire......she said after he leaves we can see eachother again if things are'nt to weird. I have a feeling i am giong to want nothing to do with her after this d1ckhead leaves.

There really is nothing i can do but hope that is guy is a total **** up and she does'nt want him anymore. They are going to be sleeping in the same bed also. What wtf!?

What would you guys do? NEXT? We are'nt dating but are just seeing each other. Just give her space and see if she comes back?

I just feel like **** because i know what is going to probably happen or will happen.

Keep her around for some tail and nothing more? I'm not a big fan of sloppy second girls though. How do i act after he's gone....its going to be sorta hard to be a DJ when you are all pissed. Plus i dont want to go out those 4 days beacuse the odds are i will see them.

Sure i dont mind a 4 day break, but its a break for me and not for her.

-Any comments or input would be greatly appreciated.

John

 

[bp1974]

Sounds like she's a bit of a DJ, and you're on her team. She's got you still thinking about being with her even after she straight up told you her 'man's coming home this weekend.

Do you really want to be played like this? Are you seeing any other girls? If not, I suggest you start.

 

[NewMan]

Continue to see her and fvck her after this guy has left.

But don't be exclusive - so make sure your busy and are dating/banging other women.

If your to emotionally attached NEXT her.

 

[Frank Zappa]

I've been through chicks like that... Think about this, who gives her the right to have her cake and eat it too. She is basically trying to say, well, when this man is around, i'll have him, when he's not, i'll have you. I hate selfish chicks like that... If you really want her to be all about you, the only thing to do is just cut her off... Don't get angry, don't contact her angrily, don't try and call her out or call her names, just cut her off.

Live your life, if she wants to join it, that's her choice, but don't join hers and her stupid games. ~Zappa

 

[Chemistry]

To reply to the title... she likes both of you, but that's all, she ain't prepared to drop this other guy for you

End she likes you, but moderately only... if she was right into you or other dude then she'd be with the one of you

She's just gettin some for the minute until somethin better comes along for her...

 

[Legend]

thanks for all the replies i appreciate everyones input.

I am not going to lose sleep over this, because there is not a thing i can do about it.

Any other comments?

bump

-John