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    Ex still in the pic: sh*t test, disrespect, or other?

    You wouldn't happen to be biased toward its author, would you? ... who is seeing her ex husband... This is like saying it's okay to eat junk food because you like it and enjoy it, even though it's not the best thing for you. Some day, you'll have your lil heart attack yes, but, that's okay...
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    Ex still in the pic: sh*t test, disrespect, or other?

    I said I understand why. The bottom line remains the same though, in my view, whether it's a committed relationship or they're both free agents. Either way, he's dealing with a woman who's got her ex in the picture, and the answer, whether they're committed or not, is for him to see others and...
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    Ex still in the pic: sh*t test, disrespect, or other?

    My gawd, you guys nitpicking through the nuances of whether or not he's in a committed relationship or not, I understand the point but... it does begin to read like an Oprah forum after a while...
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    Ex still in the pic: sh*t test, disrespect, or other?

    I'd have to question why a woman who's with me needs to talk to her ex so much and see him and buy him gifts. Not question her, but question what's the deal, because it seems to me that an ex is an ex for a reason. It didn't work out. So, I'd think why, if you're with a guy now where it is...
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    Craigslist post gets a reaction

    I tried it too, just now. Got one response calling me a "pompous arse" just because I have certain parameters. Meanwhile, a woman writes her laundry list and that's considered normal. I've noticed many profiles online where women have huge lists of what the man they seek will be like, and...
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    internet dating

    You always have to be the circus clown if you want to get under her Big Top.
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    internet dating

    "Maybe I'll have another go and send her another email" Don't be a chump. One email per customer, if she's interested, let her reply. You can't reach back and fix mistakes once they're made.
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    internet dating

    The number of great women online is RARE. They are there, because they don't do the bar scene and their social circle or work hasn't or doesn't yield anyone, so they try going online. I dated an ex-beauty queen a couple of years ago that I met via online dating. It's frustrating to you because...
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    I met this girl this past Fri/Sat night..

    >> she has been the one initiating conversation, and I'm the one ending them (telling her I have to go because of X or Y. >> Ending everything first is good. You don't even give her an excuse. "I have to go now, k? Talk another time! Bye." Why? Mystery. When women hear excuses, they sound like...
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    Does "No Contact" really work?

    Maybe she's got cramps. Don't try to guess her mood by her facial expressions. In her mind, you did something, real or imagined, that made her real angry, angry enough to kick you out. Now, she may be unable to handle her luggage, and maybe you didn't do anything atrocious, but to her, you're...
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    Does "No Contact" really work?

    Here's the bigger view: Most dating relationships don't pan out, so when they don't, you're still left having to face the other person every day. At best, that's just awkward, but even if you're not an AFC, being how the female may not like you anymore, she may... spread bad gossip about you...
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    Craigslist post gets a reaction

    Just love these religious hypocrites. No kidding, you're not Christ? Wow. She's so bright making that point, huh? She must've been on the Yale Debate Team. Ah, yes, the Christ, who scriptures also say is "the head over the man, and the man is likewise the head over the woman". Wonder if she...
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    My New Year's Eve party recap....opinions welcome..

    Good to hear you had a great trip. The thing is, she lives a bazillion miles away, is that right? So the odds of this becoming anything permanent and reliable is nil. So, don't rush anything, just like you're saying about not overwhelming her, don't put a lot of time, money and effort into this...
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    Does "No Contact" really work?

    What movie was it anyway? "Fatal Attraction"?
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    Does "No Contact" really work?

    Hmmm, I have a similar problem. A gal I dumped the other week still has her lingerie here. What will I do? What will I do? You might ask her nicely for the movies back, but I wouldn't hold my breath. Expect her to say "yes, yes, sure" but then never return them. I wouldn't make a big deal with...
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    Does "No Contact" really work?

    My hunch is that, yes, she would have maintained a higher level of interest in you, but that doesn't mean she still wouldn't have issues and anger problems which she'd take out on you. But it's also not so much about you 'playing the game right' because it's evident that your inner game needs...
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    Showing psychopathic tendencies....

    A gal the other night told me she thinks I'm a Narcissist, but I said to her, "like I care what you think".
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    I haven't a clue if this guy has the right idea or not. haha

    He says he works and then goes home, only goes out to buy his groceries and... lube, I guess. So I'm wondering, how the heck did the filmmaker ever find this guy? At the doll shop?
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    Does "No Contact" really work?

    You actually are willing to put with crap for the chance of having sex? That's sad, pal. So you sent that email to her... oh man... letting her know she got to you. Understand just how this works. She doesn't care about you, but you send her an email telling her that she went too far and that...
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    Does "No Contact" really work?

    "Not being ready", "Hurt from my last relationship", all that... that's bull. That's woman speak for "not that into you". Hey, if Brad Pitt called her today, she'd be ready for a relationship. She means she's not ready for anything... with you. So, seeing how she's been doing nothing but being...
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