My New Year's Eve party recap....opinions welcome..

JeeperCane

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Hey guys, referencing this post Link, I'm just stoping by to follow up on my New Year's Eve.

Rented my car and drove up to Orlando (~3 hours, not too much traffic) and met up with this girl at a small family and friends gathering. Had a fantastic time! She's far different then the type of girl I usually wind up with.

She's definitely a free-spirit. Four tattoos and four piercings (note: not what you're probably picturing, as "subdued" as having four of each can be). She's an environmentalist and loves nature, yet also loves the cigars, scotch, football, hunting and fishing. She duck hunts every weekend. The catch is that you'd never expect any of the above from a girl who is simply stunning physically. I think she was raised very tom-boyish, so that is where her interests lie, but at the same time is very aware that she is still a girl and still extremely attractive.

We smoked the cigars, watched people shoot off fireworks and just bs'd most of the night. The rest took care of itself. :rockon: She was actually MORE into me then I thought she would be.

She seemed down in the car when I gave her a ride to the airport yesterday and she said she wants me to come visit her for a weekend. I wasn't sure how soon would be appropriate, so I gave her a few dates that I found good tickets for and she just told me that she's a "sooner then later type of gal". I mentioned I was thinking of Jan. 11th, next weekend and she was all for it. She also said she wants to come down and visit me soon.

I realize that this is very much the "can't keep my hands off of you" stage and I really don't know much about her beyond a the 20 or so hours we spent. I also don't want to let the good feelings wear off by waiting too long. I also realize the appropriate thing would be to make her come to me next if I went to her next weekend.

I'm just not really sure how to proceed in this situation. As far as the visiting goes I assume that I can't really f this up too badly. I mean, she doesn't live in my city and a visit here and there will certainly keep the anticipation of the next one high.

In terms of her being different then me, I absolutely love the body art and piercings, even though I have none (do have some cool scars though....). I like that she's into hunting and fishing even though I don't hunt and haven't fished in years. I do, however, like the outdoors and am from a very rural area originally. Obviously, she's in that "too good to be true" stage to me. How many chicks also appreciate Blue Label, cigars and genuinely like football and go to pro and college games on their own?

I'm going to just try and play it visit by visit. Not overwhelm her with calls, emails, and all that bs. I want her to really want to see me. I have my own life and own things to take care of without trying to make myself seem busy. When I go to see her, she'll be the focus of my attention, but then it's back to my own world after that. Hopefully this will keep things interesting and provide us both with something to look foward to.

EDIT: In all honesty, for the record, I'm not exactly sure WHY she's into me. Why ask why though, right?
 
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paralisys by analisys

going against conventional wisdom here ..... why not just be yourself, keep an open mind and see what happens.

the only problem I see with planning and playing games ...how long can it go on ?
 

JeeperCane

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Agreed with everything you said....including how long can it go? I don't have an answer for that.
 

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Good to hear you had a great trip.

The thing is, she lives a bazillion miles away, is that right? So the odds of this becoming anything permanent and reliable is nil. So, don't rush anything, just like you're saying about not overwhelming her, don't put a lot of time, money and effort into this one, see her every couple of months so nothing burns out fast but continue to play the local scene.

Why is she into you? I'd say part of the reason may be that you're new and novel, the out-of-town stranger. Mystery.
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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