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Hey! Whadd'ya mean "hate to say it"???? Hmmm, ya think she has some anger issues toward men maybe? And mentioning other guys that she collects in front of you, including her ex who dumped her... that's disrespect to you. She doesn't think a lot of you, but you should get that already. Then...

It's gotten you to where you can figure out who to avoid. That's not such a bad thing. Okay, so a woman with integrity who is not emotionally damaged and looks pretty and sexy and who treats men right and all that good stuff is a rare thing. That just means it's to be that much more appreciated...

It hit home the wrong way because you're thinking about it the wrong way, and thinking about it the wrong way makes you feel lousy. Feelings follow thoughts. I know a guy who's artistic talent (he's a painter) blows me away. He's exhibited worldwide and his stuff sells as quick as he paints it...

>> if I am not interested anymore that may spark her >> >> if she is even counted as a plate anymore? >> Distancing yourself works sometimes but only if the gal is still interested. Once they're not interested, it's over. It's like a switch gets turned off. Guys that go back to disinterested...

That's what you mean by "healing your issues you had with your ex"? Okay. I'll try healing the issues I had over my ex wife that way too. Though I'm not sure my therapist will be willing. But I'll ask him...

STR8UP, you may then enjoy reading "The Way Of The Superior Man" by David Deida. Yes, as I accidentally discovered one night in a bar. It was winter, I was wearing a scarf and kept it on. It looked good, what can I say? Got into a convo with a girl and at some point she takes my scarf and...

I don't know if that would work. As soon as the Listerine hits her lips, she'd make the Listerine go bad.

Fact is, you are getting beat on, and that's why you're upset. Don't kid yourself. So okay, she'll see you tonight, a guy she's LJBF'd, though she has to be with her sister (she claims). Let's see how that pans out. Me, I'd make other plans. Happy new year!

Did you read that part of my post where I warned you "Just watch out for the ones that try to get you back only for the sole purpose of dumping you a week later. Women LOVE to have the last word" or did you ignore it because I wasn't telling you what you want to hear? It's not a test. You were...

That could still be an insecurity problem in cases where the guy is more emotionally attached to that particular woman, and so, is afraid of being hurt, no?

Hey, I'm not fat at all but I am over 50, and don't look it, and was chatting up a 25 y.o. cutie the other night. I've also banged a couple of twenty-somethings (as well as 30 and 40 somethings) over the past couple of years since turning 50, as well as getting approached by younger women here...

Probably it's more along the lines of that she's *distracted* you from those issues. You gave up yourself. You lied to get off of your work in order to be with her, you gave up your regimen of diet and exercise to be with her. A "bit" of a pedestal? Try a frickin' monument of a pedestal. I...

Trust me bud, you paid for it too. Those older power guys, they have the money to land that younger ass anytime they want, and believe me, they sure do. You showing up with her didn't mean squat to them, you're a young guy so of course you're going to attract a younger woman. No surprise there...

That's usually the last white, creamy thing the bride will swallow, isn't it?

That a man should mate with a woman and be together as a couple is mentioned in the Hebrew Scriptures, penned by Moses around 3000 years ago, and rumor has it, this started with Adam and Eve. No one throughout history has ever rebuked that claiming that it started with anyone else, so figure it...

Wow, you managed to hold off all contact for a few hours. That'll show her! So you chatted and that's all it took for you to say "gee I have no plans for NYE either and I miss you too and so I'll come over"? You are one tough dude! So she LJBF'd you, then after a short time, you agreed to go...

Is it really "confusion" or is it her ego doesn't like the seeming disinterest? If it's confusion, as in, "I can't read you", that usually hikes their interest. But if it's that they think you're not into them, or not into them the way they want you to be or expect you to be, then they get...

First of all, I'm not out to have sex on the first date anymore. Unless they offer it. Ha, ha, ha. Because when they do offer it, I might as well take it because I wouldn't want them for the long term. Used to be, but not any more. But even if she said the above, that's not a sign of low...

Bingo! I see woman's profiles where they're around 43 or 45 or so, and yes, they are looking to breed. So I figure, well, it's going to take some time for them to find a guy that meets all their huge lists of criteria, if they ever do, and they themselves may not be handling their baggage well...

There are numerous reasons a gal would have low IL, or no interest at all, and there's no way any man can create higher IL in every case, because it is out of his control. I mean, if she's not attracted to you because you're a red head, or Pakistani, or not in her age range, or on a mission to...