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I'm just catching up... do I have this right? She called you yesterday to ask you out for a drink tonight, but you offered to make it into a dinner date??? Then plans were made but YET you AGREED to accept her having to call you today to confirm for tonight???

That, plus one act of atonement, such as taking me out to dinner. All you're losing is an inconsiderate person.

"2) the tears stop immediately " I learned this lesson from watching a court judge when the Plaintiff started crying while giving her testimony in a civil lawsuit. The judge asked her, "Would you like some candy?" to which she stopped crying and laughed, because it was funny. When hit with...

She just may want the attention and when you stopped calling her, that's when she went after you to get you to call her with the "I'm worried about you" ruse. Her agenda may be all about keeping you as one of her orbiting male satellites. It's YOU, not HER, who thinks you're being a "a little...

That's your problem right there. You "Feel" like you need to do something. The truth is, you don't need to do anything. Right now, just like you're dwelling on it, she's probably dwelling on it. She's thinking how great it was to meet a guy like you. How hot the sex was. She's wondering if...

multiple reasons. Plus what better way to have a bunch of women focused on you at one time not to mention it widens your selection pool. And that would be a bad thing because???? Because there are many pitfalls and they out weigh the benefits. I already explained several of the drawbacks on...

That's your spin on it. But if "retreat" is how you see it, even the best Generals know when to retreat. That doesn't make them less masculine, it means they know when to use that strategy. I don't see it as retreat, I see it as not walking into a possible ambush where you're derailed from your...

Hey, you know what? Not a problem, some guy some time is going to come upon this thread and maybe what I posted, even though it was spurred on by you joking, will help him, you know? Have fun tonight. Be cool.

If by any chance your "gotcha" is directed to her and not us... First of all, if she comes with friends, she'll tell you she never got the message. Secondly, this makes you sound like a creepy control freak psycho. Maybe you are! Trying to control the outcome (by controlling the people) is...

As you can see, calling a girl on her flaking just doesn't work. Maybe it lets off steam, but it doesn't help grab another date. It just makes you look uptight. That's where you lose respect, so don't do it. Women will always blame you for their misdeeds. Don't give them the ammo. Women flake...

Interceptor, we're quibbling over a word. I meant what you meant, we just used different words to get there. Sorry about the incorrect message my using the word "get" inferred.

Not too long ago I read a post on the plentyoffish forum, some poor chump lamenting about how he had a date and she shows up with friends. She basically ignores him but, being a chump, he hangs around all night, hoping, right? She gives him just enough attention tid bits, the carrot to keep him...

Not on the first few dates. Your job is to get *her* to like you more, not her friends, not yet. Her friends could be c#ckblockers. Happened to me last night. I'm talking to this gal at a bar, just happened to approach her while she was getting a drink. While I'm talking to her, her GF comes...

Interesting that you got that sense too... hmmm... If it happens... You smile and say, "hey, I don't want to mess up your plans for tonight! You want to be with your girl friends. Okay! Let's talk another time. Bye!" And then LEAVE. Even if she says, "No, don't go! Blah blah blah blah!" and...

No, the horse is already out of the barn. The way to "unflake" a woman is to prevent it from happening in the first place. Women flake when they don't have sufficient interest. So, you lost her during the first date, if she even had that much interest in the first place. Reading your other...

No, the horse is already out of the barn. The way to "unflake" a woman is to prevent it from happening in the first place. Women flake when they don't have sufficient interest. So, you lost her during the first date, if she even had that much interest in the first place. Reading your other...

What "old self"? He's still the same self. It takes longer than few days to develop the new self, and if he does, these newer ladies are the ones to practice the new self on. When she told you two days ago to call her today regarding tonight, that was a flag. Now she's not spoken to you, but...

Her not calling you could be because you're doing all the calling, and that doesn't give her any reason to contact you. Plus, based on your previous posts, it could very well be that she's not that crazy about being with you, as you seem to not get the understanding that you can't do things...

It has to be so. If you have to depend on another human for your well being, you will never be in control of your life journey. What does having another woman give you except a placebo, a distraction? There is no guarantee that things will work out with the next woman. And when she leaves...

Not really... I'm positive but don't make assumptions. Those assumptions are not necessarily true on her part. Well, maybe you need to back off some to see if she fills in the void. If you're touching her, then that's signaling your interest and she doesn't have to signal hers. I think kino...