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No. Don't reply. You shouldn't even have her number anymore. Why reply? You need to have the last word? It was doomed from the start. Good riddance. The phone dropped on the sofa when MNIN went to the bathroom.' After he returned, she starts going through the phone... And you don't think...

You're overlooking the bottom line. She paid. The reason women pay is not because you were C&F. When a woman pays for the first date, it's usually because she doesn't want to feel obligated. That's the bottom line. She seized your "where are you buying me dinner?" as her opportunity to pay...

What my esteemed colleague from across the aisle overlooks is that what Momma actually done told me was "watch how your dates treat the hired hands" in terms of being respectful, courteous and treating them with dignity. But Momma didn't mean it's okay if your date flirts with the cute waiter...

Wow! You mean she looked like Jack McCoy??????? Great hair! Just kidding. Hey I think you did half of everything pretty right and the other half you didn't, but it's a nice improvement from the last go round! My two cents on the whole Regular Joe dates Highly Compensated Power Woman deal is...

My guess is that there's someone else in her life now. You've had problems in this relationship, and a few breakups. Not a great relationship. She finally moved on. Go No Contact on her and meet some new girls.

Try meetup.com. It's free. They're groups of people getting together in real life over special interest and they also have groups that get together to party.

It's relative. You say that because you're 25. And 10 year olds think that 25 year olds are old. And when you're 61, if you didn't let yourself go, then you'll feel 60 isn't old at all. And when you're 80, you'll think 60's a kid. I knew an 82 year old that would strip down and run and dive into...

Herein is the problem with this thread: we're debating based on different understandings of what it means to self-deprecate, regarding successful interfacing with women. Just as the phrase "You're looking great" can be delivered anywhere from complimentary to desperate to sarcastic or mocking...

You may be onto a good analogy there. I'm thinking about the guy who stays in a bad relationship with a nagging wife - that would be like the guy who keeps the christmas lights up all year 'round - and gets his bulbs busted.

Rollo, I was defining what self deprecation is, because it seems some posters have a somewhat wrong sense of the term. I was by no means advocating it. Additionally I pointed out how it could be done, if it's done well. When it's done well, it doesn't come off as self deprecating. That's the...

Exactly. It's not rational, and the reason it isn't, is because it's nonsense, and you can't make sense out of nonsense. The fact of the matter is that it's nonsense because it's a smokescreen. She wants to have her options and keep you at bay. Whatever her reasons foe doing so, we don't know...

Hey guys, the term is "self deprecation". I'm not sure you have the right take on what it is. It's about making humor concerning your own shortcomings. That's different than laughing at yourself when another person makes a jest about you. Laughing at yourself shows a healthy sense of...

Another advantage to having a "coffee" date, is that, if she's out to use guys for free meals, she'll typically balk and refuse the date. "I only go to dinner dates", she says. "Why?" I ask. "Because that way, if it doesn't work between us, we still can enjoy a nice meal, so the evening's...

If a woman says, "I'm a cold hearted b1tch", unless she was jesting around, you'd have to think "WHY is she saying that?" (and even then, if she was jesting, you may still think that). A sweetie would probably have empathized with you. But you know, maybe it was in reaction to why you said...

They're drunk, they've got attitudes, they think they're the prize even when they're damaged goods. There's a place I go to locally, the only trendy place nearby, attracts people from surrounding areas. Too many times I've spoken to women there that, if you evaluate what they're telling you as...

That's only a flag if she was having the other man think it was exclusive. Otherwise, OP, you know now you need to go s-l-o-w. Real slow. But I see you're asking what to do when she next calls. I wouldn't suggest going "dark", because to not return calls at all would be rude. Return them in...

Some women can't take being alone. Some don't have integrity. Like this gal.

Her next article will probably be called, "I Can't Say I Really Ever Loved Him"

Overall, I have to say online dating has you wading in a pool of social misfits, it seems to require much more work in getting through all the nuts: A woman recently replied to a craigslist ad I placed. I had asked for a "picture with reply" in my ad, right? So she sends me one line asking "what...

Yes. Get her number. Yes. A few things, just to cover all bases. You think it's that perhaps you didn't kino her, but I think you could tighten up your game better. For example, besides Number 1 that you didn't get the number... You relied on feedback from your female friend. But what if...