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    Dumped on christmas eve (Long)

    I know where you are coming from. You are in good hands here. I've been through the same sh#t as you. Expect this to be a hard time for you - but know that there is light at the end of the tunnel. You may do some foolish things between now and then - but don't beat yourself up over...
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    Why are chicks flaking out on me?

    When I've got a chick's number I've yet to be flaked on..... (in the last 18 months since my last LTR ended). But, I think that's more to do with how selective I am. I've asked for numbers and not got the digits - but those times when I failed to get the number - I really new before I...
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    Friends with an ALPHA

    Plus - if you don't listen to his advice and things go south - it's not the end fo the world. You get advice from people - then make YOUR OWN decision. That's part of being a well rounded rugged individual. Filter out the sh#t.
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    Worrying about my gf cheating on me

    You will never hold down a solid relationship if you keep acting insecure. Why go looking for trouble???? Deal with it - IF and WHEN it comes to you. You ralready checking her phone #'s - think about that - how does that make you look? and feel? If you don't trust her - move on. I...
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    Help me get my place ready for her first visit...

    I believe there's a pretty good article in the DJ bible about this. Go look it up. Basically. * Clean bathroom. * vaccum the place. * Clean kitchen and clean dishes. * Fully stocked fridge. Wine (red and white), water, soda, beer (regular and lite), Ice cream, cookies, popcorn...
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    She calls me to tell me she's engaged

    ** WTF??? What's the point in doing this? The longer you drag this 5hit out, the longer it's going to take to move on with your life. **** But it would be a great middle finger to them.... Hey, it's all good though - just an intial shock on finding out she was engaged so quickly.....
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    Is it possible to get back with exes?

    Yes on the body part you have no argument from me. Darwin was spot on. For good or bad (who can tell) - we are evolving to our environment - but that is why we have survived and are the dominant species. My only point was - be it a woman - or be is a $100,000 diamond - the man has...
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    Is it possible to get back with exes?

    Playa_S; I would say the last few thousand years. Wouldn't you say that even in tribal society there was a form of one-i-tis. The alpha male got all the pvssy he wanted, when her wanted. And there was no muscling in from others until HE was done. I would say though - that one-i-tis...
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    hey guys. its been a while. help me out.

    1) don't listen to your "buddies" - you know they like her. 2) You don't want to cheat - yet you've been on a date with her. You'd better start to figure out what you want here. 3) You've got a GF - your happy with (I assume) - so why the nervousness around this girl. 4) LJBF her.
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    shy girl watches porn for 5 hrs

    Either she has a dry sense of humor - or she got zero scoial skills (the reason she is shy?). Don't listen and tap that a##. Find out 1st hand.
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    First post. i need your OPINIONS!

    I agree, you have rebound all over you. Now, I would not call her. Don't call her when she's down there. You are allowing her to take your power away from you. What you should be doing is having a blast and looking for other women. Deal with this when she comes back - and don't think...
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    Is it possible to get back with exes?

    Playa_S..... I don't beleive this is "New Prgoramming" - Ever since man had independant thought I believe one-i-tis has been around. How many men in hostory have ruined their lives over women? I think you will many examples of powerfull men who have been ruined by women. I believe...
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    She calls me to tell me she's engaged

    That's it exactly. Coming to terms with the fact that she has moved on - the fact that she's getting married so quickly. That she found (opr thought she has) someone to replace me so quickly...... Even though I know deep down that if that were 100% true she would not be calling...
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    She calls me to tell me she's engaged

    I agree.... I'm not saying I'm all cut up about it - but I can't say I'm uneffected with it... Especially since we were very flirty... Especially when she told me she finally got a new job - part of which will see her coming back to Cali - and that she can get a weekend flght down to LA...
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    Should I send this e-mail to her?

    Alright this has gone on long enough. When in doubt - make is simple. So..... Hey x, skinny D here. I heard that you were staying on campus during break, so I figured I'd hit you up to meet up for drinks Xday night. Let me know, Skinny D. .....
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    She calls me to tell me she's engaged

    Right - I'm not saying - well I really don't know what I'm saying. I have issues - I know. Deep routed problems of commitment. The more I am out there the more I see it with the next woman, the next, the next, the next. Nothing is enough. They all don't compare - or I put road blocks...
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    She calls me to tell me she's engaged

    Just got off the phone with the ex... She called me to tell me that she's engaged... Don't know how I feel.... mixed emotions. It was weird because it was some flirting going on there... Well good luck to her... I knew it was comming - even so it's still emotional.
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    Should I send this e-mail to her?

    True. Why don't you email her - tell her that you are here over the break - and that you need to catch up with some class notes that you missed.... Meet up with her - get her notes and her number.
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    calling the black DJs

    There's no wonder there's so much racism around with posts like this sh#t. You guys need to get out and see the world and broaden your horizon's some. Believing that agressiveness with women is down to your genetics is just plain dumb. You've only got to travel to europe - take a look...
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    calling the black DJs

    I think agression with tha ladies does not boil down to whether you are black, white, pink or brown. In my experience, I've noticed that in GENERAL - the more agressive guys tend to be those that have come from poorer areas. There are exceptions - but I find that the middle class tend not...
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