I like the line about if you think you're entitled to stuff because you have tits and a vagina, then expect to be treated like a pair of tits and a vagina.
Of course, I only bothered watching that long because I think she's hot :rolleyes:
Yeah you guys are right, also, I think it has to do with the fact that I can completely "be myself" around these chicks. I can literally talk to them like I talk to my friends.
Well no sh!t there's still a chance to recover. You're not gonna learn anything from posting about it though, all you'll get as far as advice goes is "man up and go for it." Which is, of course, exactly what you should do. ASAP.
So go do it. If you fail now, you'll never make the same...
I've been noticing this lately. Girls that curse a lot and make rape jokes (ie "that test just bent me over a table and had its way with me"), girls that have several guy friends (I realize the dangers here...that's another topic), girls that don't ramble on and on about themselves, etc. They...
I agree, less contact is best.
There isn't much you can do. If you are not able to present the girl with your presence, it's pretty much out of your hands. Your best bet is to focus on other girls, and better yourself all summer so that you'll be ready for her in the fall.
You can send...
haha I've noticed this as well. I have a hard time even being friends (at the most basic level) with ugly girls. It's almost like if I can't fantasize about them every now and again, I don't even want to talk to them. Shallow, I know.
Good post here.
Also, it was mentioned earlier that you shouldn't be making plans so far in advance. Yeah you fvcked two other girls and yeah you weren't invested in this at all and blah blah blah blah.
But, it was a mistake nonetheless, and changing that tactic up will help you out quite a...
Keep doing what you're doing AND
And this is the important part...
Date other women. Spin. Plates. Then, see if you even still want her. You might not.
Sit back, let her come to you. Make your move, and it's all or nothing.
PS: The odds are stacked against you and her ever...
I think you should simplify your life and just invite her over again, instead of trying to juggle your friends, her friends, and other forces from the outside world.
I still think your #1 issue is not having a solid group of guy friends. Ones that you can go out and party with, just hang around with, etc. Start there. The rest will fall into place.
Now, how to start there...that's a whole different story, and something I don't really know how to advise on!
haha maybe if I get all my homework done I'll give it a stab.
Have you read this?
Some of the stuff is hard to imagine doing, but it maybe gives you an idea? Anyway, watch some James Bond movies, see how he acts. I think kino is the most important thing, and I don't mean give her a hug...
This is exactly what you should be doing. Through your ACTIONS, not your words. You have to be sexual with her. You have to be a sexual threat. If you are a sexual threat and she continues her "friendliness," the game is yours.
*After an hour of drinks and flirtation and escalation*
Her: Let's go see a movie!
You: Hmm...what's playing?
Her: Twilight, Sisterhood of Traveling Pants, etc
You: Not really feeling those...hey there's a Redbox over there, let's pick something out, I have surround-sound at my...
Well everyone already gave you solid advice, but if I can add anything, it's this: NEVER, never never never give that follow-up question mark again! LAME!!
Don't do anything stupid like that. You cannot expect her to call you, YOU have to be prepared to always lead.
She seemed interested, so try again. You have nothing to lose and the girl to gain.
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