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Your problem is here. You can ask for advice all day on here, but experience is the best teacher. Next time go over there, and try. Have fun. Escalate. See what works, see what doesn't work. Then you'll be the one advising instead of asking. You'll be the one getting laid. As cliche as...

This. Also, I think you're reacting too much to what she is saying. Of COURSE she'll say she's not "that kind of girl," what girl wants to seem like a slut? Just be aloof about it, and keep doing what you do. If you invite her over and she says no, don't sweat it, just keep fvcking those...

Mantis Toboggan (I still can't take that name seriously haha) is correct, it all depends on whether or not it's working out for you. If you're a clown and not making girls feel a SEXUAL attraction for you, it's time for a change. You can be carefree, fun, etc, without making a fool of...

I personally don't like this part of the conversation. I find that when I make references to coming over to have sex with a girl, things usually go sour. She already knows it's what's going to (possibly) happen, so no need to put it out there like that. But you seemed to rebound decently...

I think it's a horrible idea. I wouldn't be surprised if she took the money and ran. Damn, now I have Steve Miller stuck in my head. If I ever decide to buy a girl a drink, this is what I will be doing. +1

I bet I know more math than you. There, let that put you in your place ;) But to the issue at hand...weren't you the guy who said you didn't have any really good friends? If that was indeed you, I think that could be a major part of it. If you are in isolation for too long, you get to be a...

Of course. Of course. Think of it this way: If you are a 6, and you try to get a 7, it will be difficult. If you are a 6, and you try to get a 5, it will be easier. If you are a 6, and you try to get a 1, it shouldn't be any problem at all. Theoretically, of course. In real life...it...

I'm assuming you are able to get laid a decent amount by girls that you are attracted to. Now try putting yourself in the shoes of someone who cannot. It's like a less-dramatic version of telling someone dying of starvation that you prefer to skip lunch rather than eating a can of beets.

Bullsh!t. If you were a guy who couldn't get the girls you ARE attracted to, you would MUCH rather get the ones a step below then not get any at all. If you're a virgin, there is an unquantifiable amount of confidence to gain by banging any girl pretty much. Maxtro may not be a...

As an aside...we can type "nigga" on this forum but we can't type "****" or "*****"? Interesting.

You sound like a smart girl...wait is that an oxymoron? ;) If I don't contact a girl and she finally contacts me, I personally don't think any less/more of her, and mostly just view it as a win for myself, if that makes sense. I think what's going on here is that you're both trying to...

She sounds like a tease, and as you know, you always judge a girl on her actions, not her words (texts are words, not actions). But two things stand out to me: (1) implies that it will be more difficult, and (2) implies that you fvcked up here. You don't go "out" with these types of...

Congratulations!! First off, don't worry about the not getting hard thing...it was just nerves. Secondly, this is huge because you finally got the damn monkey off your back...I remember losing mine, I think the most valuable experience of it all is just seeing how it can happen. Making...

What do the black dots refer to?

I'm sure it might. But you know what? Don't hypothesize, get out there and do it. You might think I'm joking, but that's the best thing for you right now. Come back to me with the results. There's really no more to discuss until then. Happy experimenting!

My 2 cents: I want you to "settle" for some random chick. Just once. Game her, bang her, and that's it. Just. Do. It. It will open up your eyes to a lot of things, and will increase your game with the girls that "matter" more than you can even fathom. Don't give me some stupid holier-than-thou...

How so? Maybe I'm just not understanding the payoffs correctly, sorry if that's the case.

Well, as a purely theoretical exercise in game theory, wouldn't we have a Nash equilibrium in which both myself and my friend sleep with the other person's ex? If I do sleep with her, I'm guaranteed a payoff of +2. If I do not, I *could* get a payoff of +3, but I would be screwed if my...

Yes. You took your foot off the gas, and it cost you. You had momentum going, so you always strike while the iron is hot. The title of your thread strikes me as odd. I think the mindset of "I am not flirting with this girl" is pretty weird. Flirting isn't a conscious decision IMO...it is...

Yeah, but who sends tons of gifts to an ex-gf?