People fvck with your head because YOU let them.
End of story.
that is why she fvcks with you.
you've got to toughen up, and stop being so mentally weak - and letting any ho get to you. You let a Ho get to you and you are in a world of hurt.
Why would you regret something you have to do?
You said it yourself.
To many guys on this board look back at their ex's (including me at one time by the way) - and see them as some kind of savior - that this chick was somehow above all other women.
What BS.
Regret would be getting...
if you are true f buddies - simply talk to her the next time she calls - and when she asks to come over (or you to go over there) - simply tell her that you want to cool things off.
No more explanation is required - unless of course you've been giving her other idea by going out on dates...
as you said - you know it is not right - and this goes a long long way to pulling you through.
the difference between the AFC and DJ - is that the DJ will follow the path because he knows it's the right thing - EVEN THOUGH IT'S PAINFULL.
Your only course of action is to suffer through -...
and that has not changed....
so you made the right decision.
It's time for you to accept that - and not to look back on what was or could have been - because at the end of the day - that is just a fantasy that you make up.
If you would have got married would you be happier? no.
Be a...
Bobby,
She seems there for the taking. Don't fvck things up by "Double Checking" - or going all AFC (look it up) on her.
Go to work - and at the first oportunity, why not ask her if she has lunch plans - or if she wants to go grab a drink after work.
Keep things simple - usually works best.
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You have several problems here.
First of all, remember that when you see this strong a pattern (guys flying her around) it's' because she's damn good at what she does: Extract favors from men who she may or may not sleep with. What does this mean? It's a learned behavior.
She has...
1) You should have never told her that there was a connection. Why state the obvious (if there really is one). Never tell a woman about love, connection, feelings.
2) She needing time is BS. She doesn't need time - she needs the right guy that's not going to put up with her sh#t - that will...
you've answered your own question.
So why bother?
it's a waste of your time and energy.
If your still wasting your time, thinking about ways to "get to her" - she's not an old one i tis.
I think you need to leve sh#t well alone.
don't run before you crawl.
It's going to take time - so I suggest in the meantime, you do whatever feels natural - whatever is going to make you happy. Don't beat yourself up - and don't worry about sh#t that you do right now. All your time should be spent on you - doing things for yourself...
There's a reason for that.
that's a big reason why people find this board. They've been fvcked over - or they want to get a GF back.
Hopefully they stay around long enough to realise this is pointless - then perhaps they can move on and realise that there is more to this DJism than meets...
you are her emotional tampon.
Your her buddy,
your her friend.
nothing else.
Extra bed. i.e. Your NOT sleeping in the same bed as me.
She will however fvck someone she's attracted to.
But she will not fvck you, because she's got to much to lose - read - your to nice and cute...
OK - so your not acting like a kid in a candy store - which is all good. But, there comes a point where you have to ACT.
If you wait for the women to act - your 1) not being Alpha 2) letting her play the tune.
Now, just because you act interested in a girl, doesn't mean you can't do it in...
your shy - but there's come a point in life when you have top step up to the plate.
She wanted you bad - and you didn't make the move.
If you don't make the move, you'll always be jerking off.
you had oportunities but didn't move in. She gave you all kinds of buy signals - but you never...
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