It's really irrelevant anyways. You don't see your GF friend - and you don't know what/why she's telling you this.
Don't worry about sh#t you can't control.
Act like you don't need it - not by being a complete and utter d#ck - but by being aloof.
You don't get to see her - no big deal.
She wants to see you - you'll call her tomorrow because you could be busy.
be non commital.
do not be available.
This is basic DJ Bible stuff...
get a plastic mallet from the local DIY store.
Then lightly tap skins and forarms - increasing in force.
It will take some time, but you will harden your shins and forearms.
quite being a pvssy.
she asked you straight up.
1) You already left a marrage because of sex (nice leaving that out by the way)
You going to go 3 yrs without poon?
I respect her decision.
But dude, you already said you don't want to do it - yet you will not front up to her...
yes you should.
Is it going to make you feel that much better if she were to run to you so that you can reject her?
It is an endless game that will only sap you of your emotions and long term happiness.
Give it up - cut off contact.
that means no more usless meeting for drinks.
Just pick one thing and invite her. Don't give her options.
You don't want to give her a list of things to do - because now she knows more about you - less is more early on. Keep things (date ideas as well) to yourself. Reveal it slowly. Let her get to know you slowly.
It seems to me, that the biggest revenge that you can inact on her and him is to do NOTHING.
Listen, let her believe that what she has now (fake love for money, power - whatever you want to call it) was worth it.
In 5 yrs time she will wake up next to an old man. She will slip into her...
If you are not alpha enough (read to afraid) to go after him - or too intimidated - all you have to do, is report him (or threaten to rpt him) to HR for sexual harrasment.
That is a big deal nowadays and one companies do not take lightly.
My advice though, is next time he does this, say...
That would be low maintenance women....
Meaning - how much maintenance does she require from the guy.
High maintenance women require a lot of time, money and pampering from men.
I don't believe what I'm reading.....
seriously, it frightens me to think that you will use any of these things you have told us.
what ever happened to building some repore - and good old conversation?
Texting is for chumps who don't have the b#lls to call - or who can't carry on a decent convo.
Call him.
If he's on the same course as you though, you will see him in class will you not? So why not just go grab lunch with him?
it would have been better if he had approached you :D
I have to admit, my current GF is one of these.
Very low maintenance. Easy going. Is the happiest just hanging out with me.
it's refreshing to find a girl who isn't high maintenance - who is just as happy watching a movie with you, or going for a bike ride - as having dinner in a fancy...
Your in trouble if you comply to her demands. Your in trouble if you try to negotiate.
This is terrorism.
This should be non negotiable.
No matter how hot she is - how great your relationship - you should not put your man hood on the line.
If she had told you this from the get go -...
You've got to hit the issue in the head - i.e. that she didn't discuss this with you. If you let that go, you open yourself up in the future - and you need to stop it now, because if you don't, there's no way to stop ot after the fact.
Possibly - you can be to laid back. you need to...
I quoted a fellow member from another post - because I couldn't put it better.
so there you go.
Further - ask the stupid b#tch, why all of a sudden she's become religious - whilst before she didn't care when you were banging her?
Hmmm - perhaps she was just giving it up to get you hook...
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