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In my experience, you've got to start as you mean to carry on. When you initially meet a girl, you have to define your relationship - the more you let her control you - and pull her crap on you, the more she will attempt to do this in the future. If you stand firm the first time this happens...

You can't control someone - and the more you try the more it's true. The bottom line here, is that you need to learn to control your emotions. You should not have told her you liked her - and then calling her up and telling her that she's playing games with you etc. etc. is a big, big...

You don't apologize. What is done is done. Just move on. Keep being somewhat detached - unemotional (as you are). Next time you see her I wouldn't push for sex. She is going to try and temp you into coming on to her - but remember to think with your right head.

she doesn't want to come accross as a slvt. or at least that's what she is trying to do. I think your doing the right thing - Agressively pushing for sex - letting her know you desire her - yet at the same time staying unemotional. Continue to do what your doing - if she doesn't put...

You have made poor decisions all the way down. thats 1 thats mistake #2 - continuing on. Mistake 3 Mistake 4 - she told you and you don't believe her..... revenge? should never have got this far. afraid???? You should have been afraid when you meet her. You made...

Maybe I should have - but I like to get all the facts and information before I start accusing people.... What I didn't want to happen was for me to go off like a bull in a china shop. This way I had all the facts and backup info so that I could approach her. If she had come clean initially...

So, I've been in an LTR now for over 2 yrs. It happened slowly at first, but I recognised the signs - at first her drinking was minor - a glass of wine at night, a ****tail here and there in the evening - we all do it. Then all of a sudden things began to change. Was it stress? who knows -...

a chance for what? I think your going to continue to do what you are doing now - until you get caught.

Perhaps it has been eating slowly away at you? finally perhaps it's gotten to your core.

Your guilt or perhaps fear? that your wife would act some revenge on you is clouding your judegement. So, you now say she notices some differene in you - and that you have turned to smelling your wifes undearwear...... Why would youy smell your wifes underwear? That is not the actions...

Thats Mistake Number 1. You've only known here for 5.5 months. thats 22 weeks. You said you saw her 2-3 times a week. I'll be generous and assume 3 times - which means you've been on 22*3 = 66 dates. You have sex once a week (one encounter a week) = 22 times in total give or take. You don't...

It really doesn't matter - the point is, you don't want to go out with her and a bunch of guys you don't know. If you want to be just friends - thats all good - so go out with her and her GF's - I see no point in going out with her and a bunch of dudes. I also think that the old "get to know...

You guys need to simmer down. Just because your GF talks about her boss in the first person using his name, means NOTHING by itself. When I talk to my GF about work, I use my boss' first name as well - doesn't mean I'm about to fvck her.

Dude - you've got to move on. ** she gave me the whole "i love you " stuff..blah blah.... ** That is a bunch of crap - women say this all the time - but she is just making it easier on you (or trying). Fact is she's fvcking someone else.... You have to understand that your not...

I don't blame her - sounds like your a D#ck.

I used to feel the same. What I have done recently is: 1) Cut out the caffeine - I no longer drink diet soda's (never drank coffee) - it was hard at first - but then I had some minor surgery where I couldn't drink soda's for a few days - after that I just continued avoiding soda. I got some...

This is prime example of why your place needs to be presentable all the time - you never know when a new piece of a## will be around. What I recomend is that you get up a hour earlier than normal and clean the important stuff. Do the dishes, clean the bathroom - throw all junk in the closet...

I see a 10 every time I look into the mirror.

I think you would need to be a pretty emotionless person if you can still fvck her after that (assuming this is true by the way).... but - if you could do it, that would be the way to do it.

As of now this isn't heading anywhere. Your assumptions are right - she would not wait 10 days to reply to you if she had an interest in you. Also there is nothing wrong with being pushy. Being nice will never get you anywhere - so be pushy - the only thing that you should do is respect...