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    Delicate situation

    Her interest level is 90-100% and she's coming over this Saturday to hang out. The text trail shows that she is definitely an equal pursuer of her own accord and there is no sexual harassment of any kind. It is amazing the difference between very high interest and mediocre or low interest --...
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    5 year LTR ends

    Furthering what scaramouche said there is no reason to get married in your 20s. Wait until you are early/mid 30s -- at that age you are the boss, a man not a boy. You are physically prime and you finally have money/career going your way. You can easily date women from 25 to 35 so you have...
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    5 year LTR ends

    How did you break up with her? How did she react?
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    Girlfriend having a male friend stay the weekend?

    Next time you see that gorgeous rump of hers, know that Friday and Saturday night it was penetrated and rammed repeatedly by the guy who is staying with her that weekend. Is it still as appealing? She is being disrespectful -- I might not dump her per se but I'd consider her to be an FB going...
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    1 year later

    And along with what Danger said, if you do respond you keep it short and concise -- don't be witty, don't explain, don't go into detail.
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    1 year later

    Unless the reason she wants to talk is she has HIV and thinks she might have given it to you...
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    If you invite a girl over and she declines...

    Hey HB 9, come over to my place I want you to meet my pet hamster. He and your brain have lots in common I'm sure you'll get along really well.
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    How to escalate to sex once she's in your house?

    How old are you, how old is she, and what time is she coming over?
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    If you invite a girl over and she declines...

    Getting her to your place means sex. You escalate to get to sex. You have not done any escalation you've gone straight from nothing to sex. It rarely works that way. One of the dates in between has to involve kissing, some sort of physical escalation so that she is comfortable being physical...
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    Age gap and conversation

    You are 33. She is 20. She is probably a sophomore in college. She is still a child. She has nothing worthwhile to talk about at all. Guess what -- when I was 33 I dated a 20 year old HB 8 who was in college. It turned into a seven year relationship and she never had anything to say that...
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    Delicate situation

    Second date. Kiss close. It is what it is.
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    What is going on with this girl?

    1) Escalate physically. Start at date number one and continue every date. 2) Keep your emotions at arms length. Meaning do not get emotional about the girl, do not feel attachment, do not care one way or the other. She is nothing more than another person and there are lots of other persons...
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    Delicate situation

    There are about 100 temp employees on a project at my office. One of them is super smart, in great physical shape (six-pack abs!), and very nerdy. She and I seemed to click, we talked a bit each day for a week or so, and the other day I asked given that I am technically her boss would it be...
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    Advice on girl I met tonight

    Always ask yourself -- are you chasing her or is she chasing you? If you realize you are chasing her you must immediately back off.
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    i keep beating myself up.

    How about you not focus on anything at all. Your problem is you are focusing on anything and everything you possibly can.
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    Dinner date explained

    Dinner dates depend greatly on demographics. If you are in high school, college, or even in your 20s out of college they are iffy and should be treated as special. But when you are in your 30s+ and work full time they are both appropriate and fit into most people's schedules. If you are...
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    Dinner date explained

    Not discounting what you wrote BB, but at some point there *will* be a dinner date. That first dinner date matters a great deal. Maybe it's early on because you're both really busy with work so dinner fits in well, maybe it's after a month and you've been going on informal dates consistently...
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    Dinner date explained

    It is a different thing for men and women. For men it is a means to an end. We have to eat so it kind of accomplishes that, but mostly it's because women like it and we might get sex from doing it. Men are just as happy to see a standup comic, play basketball, grab lunch, whatever if sex...
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    She asked me if I like her

    ckdon what the F are you doing? You are spending too much time screwing around with this crap. It's like you're not playing games with her, you're playing games with yourself. Ignore her question and ask her on a real date. You know why I'm posting this.
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    I know how women feel

    Online chick I've seen twice -- 31, electrical engineer, smart, runs marathons and is into cycling which I like, cute. Online chick I've yet to see -- 40 competes in ironman level triathlons. Girl at work -- 28 with amazing body and cute though odd face, science and law degrees, teaches yoga...
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