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For the future, since you are going to have to suffer to get out of this one, when you meet a girl and you "like" her, immediately relegate her to third or fourth priority. Immediately give priority to a few hobbies, interests, work, whatever. Your life, not her life, must be the most...

You are weak and needy. She knows this. She knows she holds all the cards. She knows she has all the power. She does not respect you. If a girl does not respect you she cannot be interested in you. Move on and stop wasting any more of your life over this person.

It isn't about tricks. Just sayin'...

Who knows? If she is interested in spending time with you make a move to kiss her. If she reciprocates then your next move is to bed her. You'll have all your answers at that point. Stop wondering, stop worrying, take action and either continue forward or move on.

Shouldn't there have been a choice "e"? The one where you call her the next day, tell her you love her, and ask her to marry you? Oh, wait, first you buy a $10,000 engagement ring, THEN you ask her to marry you. ;)

She isn't high maintenance, and sure 30-40 bucks for dinner or 50 for movie tix and pizza isn't a huge amount of money, and I believe wholeheartedly that since I make more than she does I should pay more than she does, but a woman should pay every once in a while, or pay the tip, or get the tix...

I would not say it's nothing, nor am I complaining. Complaining would mean I don't accept her for who she is and how she is being. I do accept that. Plenty of men in my situation would do exactly the opposite of what I'm doing. Take it as an example of remaining detached and realistic rather...

To those criticizing/insulting me please imagine the following: I unzip my pants, pull out my c0ck, and beat you over the head with it. I am not in love with this girl. I do not pine for her. I don't chase her or suck up to her. Whether she is in love with me or not I do not care. She's...

Been dating this chick for couple months. She complains she has no money yet buys clothes for herself fairly often (at discount), is taking a trip soon that will cost some $2,000, and pays for yoga etc. I don't mind paying more than she does since I know I make more than her, but at this point...

Why don't you put your thoughts into the girl you took out on a date instead?

Also, to help your development, accept the fact that in trying to improve you will fail - that's the learning process. You start out telling yourself how to act, what to say, how to be, but only through failure will you get to success. And you will - but only if you view failure as part of the...

Sorry. You failed. She wanted to get touchy? You take her in your arms and kiss her good, moving her toward the couch or bedroom. And you escalate. You did the exact opposite. You didn't unchump, you hyperchumped.

Starrie, Do not go down the road of trying to make her feel bad. You're just going to cause complication and she'll know you're hurt anyway. Your goal shouldn't be to play mind games or heart games -- it should be to give her an orgasm. Go out with her one more time. Doesn't matter what you...

Was going to reply at length but dap said what I was going to discuss -- you gave her the reigns and allowed her to lead you like a little puppy. She became the man and you became the woman. If she had any respect for you you allowed that to disappear. Don't let this happen again.

Remember guys, the frame isn't just the subject matter of what's going on, it includes your attitude (your frame of mind). Control the topic and control your demeanor.

The girl I am dating now often vents about things via text or when we are together, usually related to her family. I listen and confirm, sometimes I'll say something intended to boost her confidence. Ol' oneitis from back in the spring was far more annoying: she always insisted that everyone...

Keep this in mind: many guys will focus on a witty remark to say if they get rejected. It is better to use wit before you get rejected -- it could well be the reason she finds herself interested. A cold "let's have lunch" is nothing compared to a conversation that makes her laugh and *feel*...

Yep. You act like you care on the outside by merely nodding, agreeing, and paraphrasing back what she is saying. You NEVER provide a solution and you NEVER play devil's advocate. Justify her feelings and she'll suck your c0ck like there is no tomorrow. On the inside, as long as that is where...

When women don't know something they speculate, and that speculation feeds their curiosity and drives them crazy (or crazier). You become a drug to them. If you easily give them what they want you are no longer a drug and they don't crave you. You should not give 100% accurate information...

"Sounds good - now let's go f*ck no strings attached"