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So she just sent back a message...does not say a word about my canceling the dinner..These are her words verbatim... "I try to laugh at stupid little things, i try not to think about it, but...... truth is, i don't know how to handle this situation..... What do you do when you care too much and...

"Double bag" it is Jonwon! Let's see about getting there though...

A few things are being misinterpreted here... First, she sent buying signals while she was ALREADY seeing Chris. Second, these two DON"T have some sort of exclusive arrangement. Even now, Chris games other women(openly) and has a GF! Amy is probably just doing the same. We are not talking...

THanks Jophil. What confuses me is that she says she would prefer if we could change it to Wednesday yet says she will come on Tuesday even though she may be a bit "moody" in her own words.... In fact her exact words are... "Anyway, if you can't make it on Wednesday i'll see you tomorrow, cause...

This is getting weird.... Amy sends me a message says she is upset because someone she cares about lied to her. She says she wants to confront this person tomorrow to decide whether or not to part ways.... She then asks if we can re-schedule dinner for Wednesday, same time. She says a day will...

Well , we talked and it is on for tomorrow night. She mentioned some plan but quickly added that she can do that some other time. Seems eager enough, but flaking is always a possibility. Concerning Chris's behavior, he didn't go out of his way to get me to meet her. I think he understood that...

Thing is...she is still expecting a call to for us to do something either Tue or Wed. So I think I will just call and set up a meet and see how things go...

I agree that there were buying signals but my friendship with Chris was enough to stop me. This woman strikes me as very impulsive. I am pretty sure we are still on for dinner if I call; I don't think anything has been lost. My main concern is an ethical one but seeing the type of woman Amy is...

I frequent this bar which is more of a late night place so I usually go around 1am or so. About a month and a half ago a new bar woman(Amy,29) starts working there. The DJ who works there on Fridays is a friend(Chris) and he tells me about Amy and recommends I check her out on Thursday(she DJ's...

I have to be honest. I don't understand the concept of being in a hot tub or in a bed with a woman and not f@cking her. I mean it has never happened to me. Every time I got them in bed, it went down! Totally foreign concept. And what's this with you going down on her? I mean, has she...

Interestingly though, our problems with women are directly connected to the privileged life we(and the women) enjoy....

Greetings Phoenix!

I understand what everybody is saying... and I am going to close the situation amicably.... I can't argue with the logic that it better to expend energy on available women rather than on ones that are going through difficult emotional upheaval. I think the forum really helped in my...

Well, I have to admit that you give a hell of an analysis of the situation Gangster! I find myself agreeing with many of your points and realizing their is truth in them. She did not dress up for a Saturday night dinner date because,as you said, she was not looking for a new relationship...

Yeah, that's exactly what I'll do! Great advice! Just what I was looking for when I posted the thread! (I think somebody's been spiking your protein shakes...)

Trent, you could be right, I mean your points have their validity. But nothing ventured, nothing gained. What do I really have to lose here? At 38, I get attached to and detached from women quite easily. At the moment, I am dating another lady and having sex with her, so I can approach...

First off, she is a woman I like and want to get to know and have sex with.... Am I a rebound? Maybe... Is she still in love? Probably... Regardless, I still need to do my thing with this lady. The way I see it, they didn't break up over the marriage venue...that was just the excuse. They...

I met a lady(Denise, 27) about 3 weeks ago. Quite beautiful, nice personality and friendly. She does some freelance work for me and we see each other 3 times a week or so. During the first two weeks, she seems like a person I'd like to date so.... At the end of the 2nd week, I set up coffee...

I agree with your points. Many modern day women are off their rocker or there are too many AFC's out there who chase after them no matter what sort of crap they pull.

I agree with both your points Jophil. She reacted to my reprimand by arguing that she just exchanged numbers "socially". Total rubbish, but it is her story and she is sticking to it.. Since then we have had sex a few times and she again popped the question of whether we were "exclusive" or...