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Again, a great post Sinistar which gives a lot of food for thought... My first mistake was not setting a date the moment she first mentioned dinner on out FB chat.... I should not have asked for her number; what I should have done is say "Thursday, 'll pick you up at 9." After that, I would...

Yes, it is entirely possible that I said something that didn't sit well with her, although, I can't recall what it may have been.... In any case, there is nothing that can be done about that, and every woman may be different in what she wants to hear coming from a man's mouth, Concerning...

Called her today...we talked a bit and I invited her out for Thursday night. She said her mom was visiting from out of town for 4 days(Thu-Fri-Sat-Sun) and she won't be able to go out. She was friendly and mentioned getting together next week when things will be better. My take is that she...

2nd Update First of all, thanks for all the advice. I really wish I knew the stuff you guys are laying on me 15 years ago.... Anyway, I go out and get a drink after posting here at 11... Come back around 1 or so.... Log on to FB, Irene pops out of nowhere and starts chatting me up. She says...

Now I am starting to feel really bad dudes.... You see, I don't see this guy as being "leagues below" this woman. He is tall, chubby but well built and his features are handsome. She has a pretty face, but her body is nothing special. Good, but not great.... Sorry, I just don't get how this...

Before Updating, let me make it clear that I am located in Europe, and thus, it is 11 pm(Monday night) here right now. So, I called Irene earlier, around 2 in the afternoon, and she hasn't answered. I had a feeling something like this might happen; that whole "early dinner" bit she...

In all sincerity , this is an excellent post and I am impressed by the clarity and eloquence of your writing Rollo. Only problem with such posts is that they show me my glaring deficiencies with women and the female psyche. I hope to address some of the issues with more reading on the site...

Yes, I understand your points Sinistar... Well, I will be calling on Monday and I'll se how it goes. As for expectations, she seems nice enough, but with the type of women out there today, that may mean less than nothing! I work in an office environment so I log onto FB for a while almost...

TO begin, thanks for all the advice DJ's. This is invaluable material and you guys know your stuff, that much is apparent. I agree with the advice given by all posters. Sinistar, your analysis of the situation is extremely logical and very sophisticated in my opinion. WIth it in mind, I...

Hello DJs, About 3 weeks ago, I watched a theatrical play with a talented(and attractive actress) in it, Irene. She left after the play, and we didn't meet or speak, but as she had caught my eye, I found her on Facebook and congratulated her(BTW,she is really good!). Anyway, we become FB...

So, we met for a lesson last Thursday night at her place. We went to her bedroom for the lesson, but that doesn't mean much as her roommate was using the living room. Her room is a mess of posters, hair products and a mattress lying on a floor. We do the lesson, but as she isn't very...

Again, age is not an issue for her, at least not an over riding one. She made that clear when I told her I was 38 and she replied "that doesn't matter". Not much more to say at this time, I will get back to you all when I have something post-worthy. Thanks for the advice,

I never said I was a Don Juan, in fact I am all too conscious of my shortcomings concerning women and dating, Persistent Exaction. Is it wrong to want to learn and improve? As for the reasons a 20 year old women would hang around older men? I don't know. I am not a sugar daddy, if that...

Ok, I have gotten your message loud and clear. Mistake to adhere to the teacher-student relationship, especially considering her character, her lifestyle and the kino going on. Mistake to text her. Mistake to put too much emphasis on our age difference. You're right MrLuvr; when I first...

I teach her English privately(she is from Spain) and we are both living in Europe. A problem is that she flakes on me. For example, during a break in our lesson, i could hear her from the next room talking to some guy on the phone who didn't want to go out with her. She was telling him...

Yeah, I didn't like the fact that she was massaging me in a club full of people and going home with another guy. But she is just that kind of girl I guess. Just gonna forget the teacher-student bit and hit it...

I see what you're saying amoka... that even though I am the teacher I am getting schooled. Although 38, my experiences with dating much younger women is ,unfortunately, non-existent. Possibly, it may not be too late for me to learn a few things.... Can you suggest how to handle the woman in...

Hello everybody, I posted about a month ago about a 20-year old(Katie) who does private lessons with me. Since then, there have been some developments. 1. About 3 weeks ago, Katie and I went for a drink after our lesson(our lesson are late 9 to 11 at her place- she has a female room mate)...

Thanks guys. I'll give her a call and ask her out...

Hello! I am not by any stretch a Don Juan, but I hope to improve... Here is my problem I dated a lady, Madelyn(33) about 5-6 times last June. Things didn't work out between us; she said she was not in the right "phase" for a relationship. I took this as meaning she was not into me and...