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Again, thanks for all the replies. Most posters seem to agree that just dropping it and going on to other women is the best possible route... This may well be true; I definitely have to ponder the issues... All this advice is invaluable as it is bringing up possible courses of action...

Thanks for the comments guys.... I get the feeling you are all correct...dealing with a **** tease and a nutcase here...no normal woman does stuff like this. I could possibly get some action if I pursue it, but chances are more likely I'll just get a lot of grief...

First off, happy holidays to everyone here at the forum, hope you are all enjoying life... I found myself in a difficult situation a few nights ago... A woman(let's call her Sue,29) and I talk about getting together for drinks. Now I have known Sue for about 5-6 months and she has always...

My experience too has been that it is better to be economical with the truth in some cases. For example, I was going out with a young lady(21) and the person who introduced us practically implored me to tell her I was 32, explaining that she would not date me if she believed I was older. So...

I'd like to present some of my activity of the last few days and get some advice if possible on the topic of interest levels. I subscribe to plate theory and have been dating multiple women. Plate 1(let's call her Sue) is a 19 year old(almost) with whom things have gone quite quickly. I met...

@Taz: Yeah man, it's important I get back up... @Jophil:Yes, I realized that too. She was purposefully obscure to pique my interest. But despite my mistakes, the forum has made me more alert to female machinations. My policy is NC.

As many predicted, Amy sent an SMS last Friday evening after a few days of silence. "Sorry for not communicating Grue....I know its f@cked up. At least know that, even if it makes no difference..." For the life of me, I couldn't make heads or tails of this stuff. Total gibberish. My...

Excellent post JonWon!

Kailex, you are right on the money with all your points. As are Jophil and the others. I know she will be back and my reply will be no reply at all. This was a very difficult experience for me but one that showed that I must be wary when associating with women who are clearly dysfunctional and...

FINAL UPDATE I am offering this final update as a type of catharsis and as a warning. The Weekend date with Amy never materialized. I called her on Sunday night and she never answered back. I then sent her a message on Tuesday asking her what was going on. Her answer was that she was...

UPDATE Well, I sent Amy a message on Thursday saying hello and her reply was that we had to talk. I was working late so I told her we could have a late night drink. Her suggestion was we go to the beach and just take drinks with us....which was fine by me... So, I pick her up and we go to...

Again, thanks for the posts and the advice. Positive or negative, I appreciate the effort you guys put into reading and commenting on matters. Yesterday, after my update here, Amy and I exchanged messages. I then call her(cell phone) and she calls me back on my land line number. We end up...

I understand your point, but she is fun to be around and I like the dynamic when go at it back and forth. So, it is a nice sort of hassle which I am enjoying actually...

UPDATE Not much contact with Amy during the last two weeks. I didn't pass by the bar a couple of weeks ago. Nothing to do with her really, just spending time at other places... Anyway, I arranged to see a young lady(Fay 21) last Friday. Fay and I have been intimate but she has been abroad...

"I love the girls that do, I like the girls that don't, I hate the girl who says she will and then she says she won't. But the girl I like the best of all, I think you'll say I'm right, is the girl who says she never will, but looks as though she might." Absolutely golden Scaramouche!

I'm not really spending any time on her....We haven't messaged in over a week and I haven't been over to the bar. In the meantime, I've been busy at work and have dated another lady with whom I went out last night. As we have established, AMY is an AW at best...at worst she has sort sort of...

Kailex, Squirrels,Jophil, you points are all valid. I have been drawn into the game by calling her out on her phone antics and her mystery talk. I understand what needs to be done. Thanks for the advice, it is appreciated and was needed!

Field Report After canceling dinner with Amy last Tuesday(details in the thread...) there was no contact with her. Before I continue, I'd like to stress some points about Amy that really bother me. 1. I have called her twice and she doesn't pick up. When I confronted her about this, she gives...

I am 39 and I can say that I am enjoying life more than I did 5-10 years ago! Coming out of an LTR felt liberating but I never felt pessimistic. I have spent the last year taking care of myself and while I am a bit heavy(at 6'1", 210) I am athletic and still nimble. The biggest difference...

Again, the replies by the members of the forum are appreciated and greatly insightful. For example, Kailex presents a very interesting analysis and sheds light of my question of why she would ask to re-schedule yet still agree to go out if I didn’t…good stuff. Looking at her FB profile(she...