Is this disrespecful female behavior?

[The Grue]

Two points here...
MY experience is that women meet a guy's protest at their disrespect with even more disrespect via a shaming reply, OR they fall back on a counterfeit display of tearful regret.
However, I agree with you that her handing out her # to a stranger in plain sight was shabby and low class behavior on her part, and it called for a response from you.

Secondly, you say that you plan to hit it a few more times. While this might appear to be to your advantage, to her it is most likely to like a ringing endorsement of her belief that you are probably enthralled by her to such an extent that you continue to pursue her.

I agree with both your points Jophil.
She reacted to my reprimand by arguing that she just exchanged numbers "socially".
Total rubbish, but it is her story and she is sticking to it..

Since then we have had sex a few times and she again popped the question of whether we were "exclusive" or not....

I told her we weren't.... I can't form a relationship with a women who has done what she did.
In essence, i cannot reward her actions with a relationship....It is just not in my nature.
Once a wolf has revealed himself, he can't go back to wearing sheep's clothing, can he?

 

[jophil28]

Since then we have had sex a few times and she again popped the question of whether we were "exclusive" or not....

I told her we weren't.... I can't form a relationship with a women who has done what she did.
In essence, i cannot reward her actions with a relationship....It is just not in my nature.
Once a wolf has revealed himself, he can't go back to wearing sheep's clothing, can he?

Yep, the bell has been rung.
You know something ? I may be wrong but I get the strong impression that this woman belongs to that sorry band of females who push for a committment and exclusivity, and when the guy ( finally ) agrees and goes all doggy bowl eyes, some switch is flicked in her head . Then she starts to want to hang out with her girls more, or she mentions a male "friend" or she does not answer your calls til the next day. Your gut is doing a nervous dance and you suspect that something is not "right" so you chase a little harder to close the gap. She pulls away a little more and starts to make weekend dates with her girls, but not with you so much.
Yes, the dreaded LJBF is looming on the horizon, but you cannot believe that this is happening because all you remember are those first couple of months when she was so damn hungry for you and would follow your every word....


WE all know what happens next.

 

[jonwon]

"She asked if I was jealous and explained that she is very sociable and has many male friends and that it is nothing more".

1. She asked if I was jealous

2. Many male friends

Too much drama.

"I told her that her behavior was inappropriate and that the only reason I didn't take more drastic steps was because we have just met and I was in a stranger's home.

In any case, I have decided to cut her loose".


I would have done the same.

Plenty more to choose from, why delve into her drama and head games bull-shi*. It's just another one of a potential 1000's +

Innocent or not, unless she gave amazing head, made me swing from the lampshade in blissful glee, brought me breakfast on a morning, or had the fabled golden puss* - I would have done the exact same things - If she slotted into the latter, she would be a fuc* buddy, then she can do has she pleases.

Drama is a bore and a chore.

Those statements about being jelouse, would have me laughting in her face, then i'd state - "Sure, get over yourself"!

She is playing attention seeking drama - trying to coax your reaction, see if you will bend inline, react and comply with her frame - That frame from experiance is nothing but the flattering of a poisoned ego drunk on male attention.

 

[The Grue]

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I would have done the same.

Plenty more to choose from, why delve into her drama and head games bull-shi*. It's just another one of a potential 1000's +

Innocent or not, unless she gave amazing head, made me swing from the lampshade in blissful glee, brought me breakfast on a morning, or had the fabled golden puss* - I would have done the exact same things - If she slotted into the latter, she would be a fuc* buddy, then she can do has she pleases.

I agree with your points.
Many modern day women are off their rocker or there are too many AFC's out there who chase after them no matter what sort of crap they pull.