Search results

  1. T

    Reveal age before entering relationship?

    You say you have been with this woman for a month and have had sex. If you fulfil her sexually and press the right buttons your age is not an issue to her...especially a BS age difference of 8 years. It's not like you are 50 or something...You should tell her your real age when the stars are...
  2. T

    A Female visitor from Abroad...how do I handle this?

    Your words mirror my thoughts kind sir...not so blind are you? ;) :D
  3. T

    A Female visitor from Abroad...how do I handle this?

    Thanks for you help lads...it is refreshing to hear your views!
  4. T

    A Female visitor from Abroad...how do I handle this?

    Greetings to all, I have been inactive for quite some time but once again I have a situation for which I would appreciate the views and wisdom of the other members! I met Daniela about a year ago(August 2015) while travelling to Belgrade, Serbia. She is 34 and was a friend of a friend( I have...
  5. T

    Flirting with an Actress....am I being played?

    Very right you are Greasy...I decided yesterday that I am gone, moving off to new women, thanks for the advice mate!
  6. T

    Flirting with an Actress....am I being played?

    Thanks Thunder, seems the logical way to go now!
  7. T

    Flirting with an Actress....am I being played?

    UPDATE Posters had been correct in that I was being passive, so last Wednesday I send Nicole and SMS around 4 inviting her for drinks at around 10 that evening. She answers around 7 with a text thanking me, telling me she is still a bit ill but saying she has already arranged for the...
  8. T

    Flirting with an Actress....am I being played?

    First, I would like to thank all posters for their comments, they are appreciated! Maverick, it's been about 10 days since we last had any contact. I know from my Director friend that they have talked and that she 'hasn't seen us in a while and would like to get together...' I am going...
  9. T

    Flirting with an Actress....am I being played?

    Your words ring quite true Backbreaker..food for thought and action indeed, thanks!
  10. T

    Flirting with an Actress....am I being played?

    First of all, I appreciate the input from brothers Dasein, Vulpine and VladPatton, thanks for taking the time to answer(especially Vulpine, whose reply was quite comprehensive). To the issue at hand, I don't think Nicole is after John. He may be a director but he is an out of work one...he may...
  11. T

    Flirting with an Actress....am I being played?

    Sorry for the delay getting back, it's been a bit of a busy schedule for me. Anyway, I do not think she is some sort of HPD( as Fin9 suggests). Since my last post I have seen Nicole 2 more times. The first time was about 10 days ago when we had arranged to go to a bar with John, his GF Georgia...
  12. T

    Flirting with an Actress....am I being played?

    Hello Scaramouche, great to hear from you my friend! So what you are basically telling me is that because they are surrounded by a number of men who are not really that into women, actresses may go overboard with kino without actually meaning to escalate since they know the men around them...
  13. T

    Flirting with an Actress....am I being played?

    First off , a hello to all members... I have not posted in some time but I am now in need of the collective's wisdom to set me straight. So, off to the matter at hand... I met this woman(Nicole, 31) when I hooked up with a friend(Harriet, 38) in October 2014. I had not seem Harriet in a while...
  14. T

    What happened with this woman? Possible PTSD case?

    Part II In the next 2 months, I date and continue my life...but my mind is on Eva...to the point where I do not enjoy sex with other women... yet, I do not communicate, and after my last trip, I had take her off Fb and skype because I was being ignored and felt it was necessary in order to...
  15. T

    What happened with this woman? Possible PTSD case?

    Greeting to all friends on the forum, In late January 2012, I met a woman on FB(Eva 28) who was a friend of a friend. We shared common interests in music and we started exchanging music and messages. Red Flag #1: In just our second or third time chatting, Eva mentions she has been thorough a...
  16. T

    Yes, but what do you do when love rears its ugly head?

    First of all, I appreciate all the people here who spent time to read such a lengthy post, thanks! Greasy Pig, Three, Scaramouche, Taiyuu, and Second Half, you all strike at the heart of the issue. There is the distance, her mother, her mental issues, her studies...there are just too many...
  17. T

    Yes, but what do you do when love rears its ugly head?

    I met Maya(27) in Athens back in February at a concert. She was a student from Serbia visiting a common friend or ours who had brought her to the concert. We were introduced, but not much happened because after a while, our groups drifted apart. However, we later became friends online and before...
  18. T

    What happened to Jophil

    I am having a drink right now to Jophil's memory, RIP brother.
  19. T

    The ten year rule

    I am 41 and I rarely date women LESS than 10 years younger...my experience is that if a man is in good condition, he usually looks quite a bit younger than women at the same age. My usual dating age is the 27-32 group but I commonly go younger or a bit older... If you are facing difficulties...
  20. T

    What did I do wrong during this date?

    I have just read the posts and am digesting the info! There is lots of great advice here, I still have a lot of learning to do....sometimes it can be a fine line between being assertive and sexual in contrast to appearing forceful and needy...
Top