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An interesting thread, but "get a gay hairdresser"? In the rural backwaters of Northern Ireland, lol? I'd sooner look like Captain Caveman than let a nancy boy near my hair... fruit-hating redneck that I am.

I can see why a German would be a bit puzzled by the term"Kino" - it means cinema in German! Jack, I sympathize with your plight... Denk' ich an der Liebe in der Nacht, Dann bin ich um den Schlaf gebracht. (Thinking of romance of an eventide, I am of my sleep deprived)

No, it ain't a long name...

The girl I was engaged to for 5 years, and whom I dated for nearly 7 years, never addressed me by my first name. Always "honey" or, occasionally, my surname, but never my first name (not until the night we broke up). Weird. Another girl I am interested in also has this strange habit... There's...

When it comes to matters of the heart, it seems the world at large believes women are the emotional, impulsive ones, whereas men are frequently portrayed as strong and rational with regard to love. But isn't this often quite the reverse? For example, where a girl has decided she is going to live...

If by DJ you mean exuding the calm, happy, fun way of being that Pook advocates, I see no incompatability with DJism & being a Christian, none whatsoever. If, however, you think DJ = womanising player, then you will have problems in a church setting. I think Pook's got it right. I would read...

This is interesting, this idea of exuding manly sexuality in a non-ostentatious way. It may well be the way to go, rather than getting bogged down in all these tortuous "right thing to do" plans for every given scenario. It would appear, from reading Pook & others of like mind, that the right...

Player Supreme! I am not used to that mode of lingo you use, it's very Black-American I suppose (I live in Ireland), but, nonetheless I caught the drift of what you were saying and you made some valid points. This business about whispering in a chick's ear and letting your lips touch her...

I suppose if there's absolutely no chance of you ever fancying this poor guy, he really has to find this out. The only thing is, many men do not take no for an answer and can all too readily become infatuated with a woman who has rejected them AFTER a date, since a date, unless utterly...

Teeth are a bigger issue in the USA than here, hence the occasional snide witticism one might hear in the UK directed toward the "American smile". I think brilliant white, Donny Osmond-esque even teeth in a huge smile says... "I'm an American with the perfect grin"; but some people here, myself...

"Poverty and shame shall be to him that refuseth instruction", saith the proverb. Others have tried to point out wise mage's mistakes to him in the past, only to see their counsel thrown back in their faces with unteachable impudence...

Oh, I see. Thanks for the explanation... I won't say it never happens here in rural Northern Ireland, but it would be relatively uncommon...

What is a "booty call"? This is yet another Americanism lost on us old-worlders this side of the Atlantic, and I have not yet been able to deduce it from the context in any of the posts on this thread...

Ah, you say you are not looking for an LTR... but perhaps that will change once somebody really makes you "lose your composure"... lol. Anyway, many thanks for the insightful feedback, confident Malibu!

Hey, calm down young man. Her request is not unreasonable, and you cannot exclude the likelihood that her reason is a valid and fair one. The time to NEXT her is not now; you only do that if she repeats the offence and fobs you off with a flimsy excuse rather than a credible reason. Yes, you...

PS - There are few things more delightful to a man than an erstwhile confident woman he desires "losing some composure" as a result of his calculated efforts to steal her heart...

Malibu, you misunderstood me a little over my description of vulnerable, but the fault was mine for not being more explicit in my language. I intended to convey the idea of a woman pouring her heart out to a man in an impassioned, emotively worded manner... as per all the cliched declarations of...

Interesting confession, Malibu... "I don't get hopeless and helpless"; I will resist the temptation to make the obvious non sequitor conclusion and suggest confident chicks lack passion, lol. You say a confident girl pursues something she wants, and I assume you mean she does so with the...

Interesting post, Oscar, especially the last paragraph... that would encourage me, quite a lot. As far as, um, our female poster's comments go, I accept the point you make, but if you were all hot and bothered and hopelessly, breathlesly, helplessly head over heels about a guy, would you...

Do any of the wise and experienced DJs believe the rules for handling a confident, assertive, intelligent babe are somewhat different to those for other babes? Due to her confidence, is there a possibility that she would be less likely to be so vulnerable as to reveal her true feelings for a guy...