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I think that saying "**** it" was the big change. But, it's easy to simplify. So let me look deeper, if it's helpful. "**** it" to me meant: 1) Completely refusing to explain or justify my desire to be with many women. 2) Going for it without any expectation, attachment, or shame 3) Taking...

Damn right. That has been my focus for the past three weeks or so. It's working quite well. Gym 5 days a week, my money is doing very well, projects are moving nicely, AND I have a great time with higher quality, fewer women. However, it was a quality problem. When an experience is fairly new...

Ha! Not really, actually. It became much harder to focus on things. Because every free moment I had I was spending with a girl. There were times where I would have loved some time to myself, but didn't want to "lose momentum" by NOT seeing the girl. I would force myself to hang out with them...

I think that if you are blaming women in general, you are coming at it from the wrong direction. Some girls suck and have no integrity. And I'm VERY happy that they show me that early on, so I don't have to waste time with them. Many, many women are awesome, beautiful, fun, sexy and honorable...

Here are a few big things about saying this stuff: 1) Actually mean it. These aren't canned lines. These are things that I really mean as I say them. I DO date and sleep with multiple women. I am a Dominant. I am, in a way, radically honest with them, not needing any type of reaction. The...

Gentlemen, It's been a long time since I've been on this forum. Thought that I would check in and see how everyone has been. Back when I was here in the past, I was dealing with many of the same issues that everyone is. I had financial issues, relational issues, and beyond. I worked...

Welcome, man. :) You are in an incredibly fortunate situation. I got divorced in a very similar situation. It was awful. Took me awhile to recover - BUT- Now I honestly say that I have a life most guys would kill for. I multiple long relationships (MLTRs) with great women, as well as shorter...

I've been away from the forums for quite awhile and have started really living the lifestyle that many in the seduction community purport to being real. In very direct honesty, I have been and am living that life now. I have been directly dealing with this issue and can offer my thoughts...

My friend, this isn't as serious as it appears to be (or how you are framing it). First of all, about her: Of COURSE she isn't talking to you. Why would she? As a woman, she generally is reactive to what others do (like you going NC). What she saw was this: She "rejected you" and then...

Healthy man - authority position - protective - Also, one of the only guys officially not there to meet women. Women LOVE a man that they can try to distract. It triggers all of the feminine switches. Add those together with the sexually charged atmosphere of a club and this is what you get...

Well, it depends on what you want. I personally would go for the experience. And THEN I would visit the woman. But that's just me and just my opinion.

I know it's supposed to be bad form to ask if she is available to meet you, but I have found that actually asking has greatly increased the amount of girls that I meet up with and the downside is basically non existant. Maybe it's just me. The idea would be to build your value to her before...

Just tell her that you can study at your place. Get yourselves comfortable and laughing. Then when the energy is up in the interaction, escalate. The way to escalate is basic kino throughout. Then, slowly down your speech, drop your voice, add pauses in your sentences and look in her...

Dance class seems like a good strategy, mate. I was thinking about trying that myself. As far as the number close, why not just start talking to both girls and say "Hey, we should all go out as a group and practice our moves..Give me your numbers.." (Stole this basic concept from AFC...

Hmmm... thinking about it: There is very basic kino (touching her arm during talking, etc). I start to slow my speech and just focus into their eyes. You basically lock in with her. When you sit back and look into her eyes like you want her and she looks back and doesn't break, the tension...

So this is another update from the world that I live in. I have definitely had my share of ups and downs in the world of attraction, but, at the moment, this seems to be an "up". I put it here in case it helps anyone..and maybe I can back track and read it when I hit the inevitable down...

I thought it was hilarious, personally. :)

Take a deep breath, mate. Realize this. You are fine. What you perceive as love is actually a psychological loop that you have gotten yourself into. There are no cosmic forces dooming you to this situation. This is something you can choose to do or not do. Try these things: 1) Sit...

It sounds like the situation could be one of two problems. Maybe a bit of both. Problem #1: No proximity to quality women. In my experience, women are easy to find, but quality ones are more rare. Why not find the highest quality available women and aim for that goal? Good practice...

Love it! Good stuff, mate.