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  1. jimjam

    Rebuilding frame

    That's just it. Everything fell apart and I can't account for the way I think. No goals, no interests. Feel like my whole life has been a lie. I should slap myself, I know. Ha!
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    Rebuilding frame

    Thanks for the advice. You're right about the pills. Part of me wants to stop, but there's another part. I know everything is up to me but I can't seem to muster the fortitude to exact any change. And the massage parlor? Of course it may lead to another addiction I can't control. I feel like it...
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    Rebuilding frame

    Not being funny, but you could say it's been happening for 30 years. Specifically, you could start with my first marriage. My alcoholism led to a divorce. I got sober and realized I was given a second chance on life. I went at it full bore. Did everything right this time. Met a great girl. She...
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    Rebuilding frame

    Gentlemen, It's been a while since I've posted here. I find myself in a very dark place. Summary: I found sosuave, probably like a lot of guys, after a sh!tty breakup. Anyway, this was about four years ago. I internalized a lot of what I read and I pulled myself back together. I was doing okay...
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    new plate

    Rock n roll Thanks for the replies. On for Friday. So far, so good.
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    new plate

    Gents, valued advice appreciated. Had a date scheduled for Monday. She cancels but wants to reschedule. I say ok, how bout Thursday. She gets back to me and wanrs to meet Friday. Should i just say the hell with her?
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    Strippers

    Anyone ever get a private dance with a stripper? Thinking about doing this. What's your take on it? Rip off? Too skanky? At risk for disease? Worth it? Some of these chicks are cute, but I'm leeery about disease and parting with $100 for a bj. I also don't believe this sets a good example...
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    If you say money doesn't buy love you haven't seen this!

    Woody Allen said that if you have your health, then you have everything. But you can' buy a loaf of bread with your health.
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    massage

    What does everyone think of massage parlors? A friend of mine (really, it's not me) raves about them. The reason being that you can get off without having to deal with any of the bullsh!t. Though he says it can get expensive. I personally wouldn't do this because of disease and cops. Though...
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    A loser's chronicle

    Things can ALWAYS be worse
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    Sh!t test or shove off? BPD or brush off?

    Thanks, Sobduster. That's just what I needed. Really. Not being facetious.
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    Post-flake text

    Gents, had a date lined up but she cancelled through text. Said something about getting together later on during the week. I haven't answered her yet, but I'm thinking of texting her something like: "The way I see it, for cancelling you owe me a date, date-type date. Flowers, dinner, a...
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    Sh!t test or shove off? BPD or brush off?

    Here's an update: Surprise, surprise! She wants to reschedule tonight's date. I'm thinking of rescheduling, then calling her a day before to cancel with no mention of rescheduling. What does everyone think?
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    Sh!t test or shove off? BPD or brush off?

    Or...... I'm just overthinking
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    Sh!t test or shove off? BPD or brush off?

    Sorry I responded both times.....in kind with her.....good morning, have a nice day
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    Sh!t test or shove off? BPD or brush off?

    Gents: Met this one on Saturday. Hit it off great. We both seemed really into one another. I get her number, set up a date for Thursday. She texts me Sunday morning, Monday morning. Nothing wild. Just hi, good morning. I figure i'd be nice and text her yesterday. No response. Its like she...
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    Jokes

    Q: how many feminists does it take to change a lightbulb? A: Four. One to change the bulb and three to make a documentary about it. Q: How many feminists does it take to change a lightbulb? A: That's not funny.
  18. jimjam

    a post about spiritual growth/women and becoming powerful

    I've completely given up on women in one respect. I've come to feel that what they demand in return for their favors is simply not worth it. I've dated, been married, divorced, have a kid, dated again and it all has got me nowhere. More confused than ever at 43 One thing i do know is that...
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    Cologne

    @saul: Whoa! Reign in the vitriol dude! I do have my own cologne and I'm not asking for anyone's brand recommendation. I suggest you re-read my original post. I'm merely asking for anyone's experience dealing with Amazon in this regard. I don't care what kind of cologne you use and I...
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    Cologne

    Anyone ever buy cologne from Amazon? I've read good and bad reviews. Mostly that the scent dissipates within the hour. Just curious as to others' experience. If not Amazon, where online would you recommend, if online at all? Thanks
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