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  1. jimjam

    Another bad boy triumph - 80 y.o. Charles Manson gets hot 26 y.o. bride

    Man, just look at her eyes in that picture! She looks like she's crazy on acid!
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    what do you think about this poem i wrote.

    My friend, some constructive criticism. Good art should transcend the personal. IE, write about something simple that applies to anyone in your situation. In other words, your poem is too personal. Also, stay away from rhymes!! I have been published extensively in the small press-poems...
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    40 - single/celibate for two years - no confidence - what now?

    Right on, man! Forget everything to do with women and your failed relationship. You wouldn't be mentioning it if it didn't bother you on some level. Forget it, past is past. Think about YOU and now. Have fun traveling. Go out to the desert when you're in Las Vegas. I mean Death Valley...
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    40 - single/celibate for two years - no confidence - what now?

    Dude, you've got it backwards. First thing, STOP worrying about women, especially the ones on POF. Second, STOP worrying about confidence. If you just got out of a relationship , the last thing you need is another woman. Despite what you may think, you're in a very vulnerable position...
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    How long can women hide their red flags?

    There are two types of red flags, in my opinion. The first are the obvious ones, she moody, she's on drugs, she a drunk, she did time in an institution. Surface level, flags, if you will. The best one can hope for is two weeks before these start to appear. The mask comes off in any...
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    I know this is wrong but I did it

    Right on, man! I was in the same predicament a while back. I could've gotten away with it too. Luckily I came to my senses before I went too far. Bottom line, who cares what married women think or what their texts mean. Forget this one. That "Fatal" in FatalJay could wind up having a...
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    OK Cupid weirdness

    Thanks, guys. You're all correct, of course. And thanks for the caustic advice. Really. I know I fvcked up. I was exactly thinking that she'd make herself available. Well....next!! Live and learn......
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    Cows and Tattoos

    Whoops...you only deserve what you EARN
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    Cows and Tattoos

    Years ago, I was hooked on drugs, alkie, loser. I have worked hard to remove myself from that stigma. I did 107 push ups the other day. I work HARD to keep myself in shape and to be the best that I can be. And I do it for myself, not for what some c**ze or what whover else may think. It...
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    OK Cupid weirdness

    Right on! I was thinking something along similar lines. Thanks.
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    OK Cupid weirdness

    Yeah, probably self evident. Curious to what others think of this. I e-mailed this one on Thursday night. She answers me on Friday and on Friday night we exchange a few e-mails. I kept escalating things and she seemed receptive. I asked her if she'd like to meet for a drink and she says she'd...
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    Soceity

    Life is mean, boring and short. Get used to it....
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    Society loves Men with Low Self-Esteem

    Righteous!!
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    Anyone just give up?

    Two weeks is the most you can reasonably expect any relationship to maintain a level of comfort before the mask comes off. She s on drugs, an alkie, married, has five kids, was locked up, etc, etc. Milan Kundera had a great philosophy in The Unbearable Lightness of Being. You bang them 3x in...
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    Homo Quotas - Wave of the Future

    Read 1984. In Orwell's vision the orgasm was all but eliminated and homosexuality was encouraged. Looks like we're there. On many levels. Scary.....
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    Snacks

    Gents I landed a new job where you can't eat lunch at your desk. Rather, you can eat lunch at your desk provided you're off the clock. I'd rather talk a walk or go outside on my lunch. Never worked at a place where they didn't let you eat lunch while working. However, they do allow you to eat...
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    Women no longer make me happy

    Pandora, I've been watching this thread and I have to tell you that I feel exactly the same. Fact, check out my post here: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=219971 But I wanted to touch on something that a few of you have mentioned. That is the idealism of love, or what we all...
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    I'm beyond f*cked

    Thanks, tenacity, I should mention that the drug manufacturer of my prescription does offer to pay for the medication for those who need help, up to $14,500 a year. Not much considering the cost, but this can buy me a little time. The way things are now, I simply can not afford both my...
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    I'm beyond f*cked

    Gentlemen, your learned advice is very much appreciated here. First off, I'll be 43 in a few days. I have MS. The medication that I use to treat it is around 5K per month. Luckily, I have insurance through my employer that covers it. That is, I did have insurance. I was laid off in July...
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    Disgusted Blues - Well, not really.

    Hello everyone, I've been posting here on and off for about a year now. And like many of us, I found this place through a very sh!tty experience with a woman that completely turned my head around and ripped out my soul. You know the story, no confidence, no sense of direction, blah, blah...
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